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Surely a cpl 2 cpl mail deserves a reply?
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"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested. But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in." 
So because your a couple your above single guys ? 
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"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested. But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.
So because your a couple your above single guys ?
Not good "I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post? Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude. | |||
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"I think you've missed the OP's point here. She is just asking for people to have a bit of a heart and not be quite so ruthless if rejecting people. We usually send a little message saying, thanks for your interest but we wont be taking this further. Often you have the urge to say because of such and such but..... It's probs best just left at that unless the other people send you a reply demanding why you have rejected their awesome persona. Then I might let them have it both barrels but probably take the cowards approach, bite fingers and stop myself from doing that[Removed by poster at 20/09/13 18:37:13]" I'm not missing any point. Posting about this is no different to a single guy posting and being told that he isn't guaranteed a reply. If we received a message from a couple who we had no interest in then we would probably just delete too. We receive a message, we read it, then we read the profile and if we aren't interested then nothing. No message back. | |||
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"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested. But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.
So because your a couple your above single guys ?
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I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?
Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude."Sorry no thumbs up to what you said the bit after was to th op  | |||
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"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested. But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.
So because your a couple your above single guys ?
Not good
I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?
Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude."I think it was aimed at the OP tbh | |||
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"I think you've missed the OP's point here. She is just asking for people to have a bit of a heart and not be quite so ruthless if rejecting people. We usually send a little message saying, thanks for your interest but we wont be taking this further. Often you have the urge to say because of such and such but..... It's probs best just left at that unless the other people send you a reply demanding why you have rejected their awesome persona. Then I might let them have it both barrels but probably take the cowards approach, bite fingers and stop myself from doing that[Removed by poster at 20/09/13 18:37:13]" If people are so sensitive that they genuinely view no reply as "ruthless" they really need to ask if they should be on here. | |||
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"If we receive a well written message then we tend to reply even if not interested. But you seem to imply that couples all send decent messages. And they don't. I have better things to do than reply to crap messages from people that we have no interest in.
So because your a couple your above single guys ?
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I'd love to know how you come to that conclusion from this post?
Though I did think the same from the tone of the OP's post. Saying it was understandable that single men didn't get them but that couples deserved them is a pretty unpleasent and elitest attitude.
Sorry no thumbs up to what you said the bit after was to th op " | |||
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