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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If like us you choose to hide your verifications, people have no idea if you have been verified because you have phoned someone been on a webcam,.. or met someone.
We hide our verification because we are not interested in others knowing who we have played with, but can understand that people dont really know if we have met anyone at all.
Instead of having the words, `Verified Genuine Profile`,... how about, `Verified Genuine by meeting`,..[or phone, or webcam]
If this idea came to be,....
Would the verifications we got before hiding them still be on profile somewhere,.. [because they were never deleted],.. or would we have to wait untill our next meeting, before it could happen?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we like the idea of profiles telling you how they were verified as we dont put much faith in profiles that are verified by just phone/cam if we talk to someone its good to know that they do atleast meet even if they dont play |
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agreed. Anyone can be seen on cam anywhere and act as a couple etc.. We much prefer the verifications when we have actually met at a social/privately etc. At least you have chatted to them and know a bit about them and even if you think that your compatable (thats just incase you get asked to meet errrr for fun lol )
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We personaly would be against putting the number of meetings up.. our meetings are not notches on a bed post, its enough to know that we meet people not how many times we meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we agree no one needs to now how many times you have met or even if your a player when you do meet.
its about making friends for us not notching up a list of who we play with
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I agree its not about notches on the bedpost etc.. but if you have been verified by a couple who you have met and others are about to meet same couple. at least they can see they genuine etc dont you all agree ?
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Yes I do see your point Jan, but other than listing all the meetings you have had I dont know what you can do, other than maybe asking, `did so and so turned up`
We were once asked if so and so turned up?, and what were they like?, did they do so and so?.... we told them that the couple did turn up, but didnt think it proper to say anything else
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personaly we only play with cpls who show their varifications.The reason being,there are some ppl we would not play with,for various reasons. Therefore,neither would we play with cpls who had met these ppl.Some may look upon this as guilty by association but its our prerogative.
Trace & Ric
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