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over a year ago
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"would be nice to have a fillter for bi couples x 
Only problem is lots of bi couples dont admit they are on profile"
This is VERY true. Most of the time the lady will state that she is bi but the man will state that they are straight. It's very confusing when I receive a message from these type of couple as I can never be sure if it's a genuine profile or not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ability to search on sexual preference has long been requested - I believe at one point it was mooted to be coming by the end of the year (2012)
I still believe its something that would be of great benefit.
To those who say that the issue is that many couples don't put Bi on their profile - so what? If you feel the need to hide it or to lie on your profile, then you're not comfortable being Bi.
Let the rest of us that are honest see the wood for the trees. |
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Agreed.
We set up a bi fem couple profile at first as a lot of people are put off by the guy being bi hence the reason we've now set this one up too.
If only more people would admit it as in a few years all the labels are going to go and it'll be just people fancying people. Saying that we didn't at first and Mr doesn't always want to play bi anyway. He doesn't actually want to do a great deal with guys. Can we have a 'heter oflexible' tick box too!?
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"Agreed.
We set up a bi fem couple profile at first as a lot of people are put off by the guy being bi hence the reason we've now set this one up too.
If only more people would admit it as in a few years all the labels are going to go and it'll be just people fancying people. Saying that we didn't at first and Mr doesn't always want to play bi anyway. He doesn't actually want to do a great deal with guys. Can we have a 'heter oflexible' tick box too!?
Sorry there is a space between the r and the o but it put a smiley face instead! "
I think many guys, myself included fit into the same box as your hubby. Very little interest in it but occasionally the urge is there. What box can you tick? Bi-curious suggests you don't know what you want and bisexual would mean a lot of guys messaging me expecting me to play with them. I don't think many bi-flexible guys are embarrassed about it so much as picking the closest option |
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"Agreed.
We set up a bi fem couple profile at first as a lot of people are put off by the guy being bi hence the reason we've now set this one up too.
If only more people would admit it as in a few years all the labels are going to go and it'll be just people fancying people. Saying that we didn't at first and Mr doesn't always want to play bi anyway. He doesn't actually want to do a great deal with guys. Can we have a 'heter oflexible' tick box too!?
Sorry there is a space between the r and the o but it put a smiley face instead! "
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"male half of couples rarely admit they are bi so it wouldnt really work,
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Some shops don't advertise their prices on the shelves. I don't buy things on those shops. The same would apply here, once the filter is available anyone who wants to be found will need to update their profile or not appear in the relevant searches.
There's no conceivable justification for not allowing more precise search options. Presumably that's why the admin have repeatedly said they intend to upgrade/fix/improve/implement this at some point.
Not trying to pick on the person who posted it, lots of people say the same sort of thing about all sorts of technological improvements. They're all wrong 100% of the time so no-one who does it is special  |
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