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What in your opinion would be a good addition to this site..or would you like to see improved/remove
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I'll start by restricting the area from where others can message me from..you? |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
Might cut down on the number of PM’s that women have to deal with? |
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"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
yep ..feedback is good most of the time
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To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too. |
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"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too."
yep great ideas .. keep em coming |
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Pop up chat box when chatting to "friends" |
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"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
Adding dating section to the forum would’ve been great too.yep great ideas .. keep em coming "
maybe a dating button we could tick on the looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc
Also general interests |
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"List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc
Also general interests "
liking it ...but wouldnt that take away the chat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"List what you’re looking for like one night stand, hookup, club meet, fwb, serious short term, serious long term or open relationship, friends, social meets first etc
Also general interests liking it ...but wouldnt that take away the chat?"
I agree but it would give people things to talk about besides sexual interests and their pics |
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Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely think there should be a dating section! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
The need to be at least photo verified to the site as this helps not only the site but users and site better control of |
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More interests would be great - would like to be able to filter couples out if they're strictly full swap only etc |
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"I definitely think there should be a dating section!"
this is a popular idea I mean even some couples are looking to date the ladies and gents for their plus ones
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i think there should be a tv/ts chat room  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the site should go back to a swinging site. It has become commercial and all about the money now. Pay your subscription and you can pretty much do as you like with no repercussions. I am leaving after my subscription runs out after 8 years and not one of the site supporters will take any time finding out why and to be fair they don’t even care. Why!!! Because as one member leaves they have another 10 join and therefore that’s all the site cares about. It’s about time the site asked what the real members thought about it, listened to them, did something about it and not wrap them on their knuckles for having an opinion that they don’t like |
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"I think the site should go back to a swinging site. It has become commercial and all about the money now. Pay your subscription and you can pretty much do as you like with no repercussions. I am leaving after my subscription runs out after 8 years and not one of the site supporters will take any time finding out why and to be fair they don’t even care. Why!!! Because as one member leaves they have another 10 join and therefore that’s all the site cares about. It’s about time the site asked what the real members thought about it, listened to them, did something about it and not wrap them on their knuckles for having an opinion that they don’t like "
that's really sad ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely think there should be a dating section!"
Good idea, I also think being able to like messages would be good. |
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"I think the site should go back to a swinging site. It has become commercial and all about the money now. Pay your subscription and you can pretty much do as you like with no repercussions. I am leaving after my subscription runs out after 8 years and not one of the site supporters will take any time finding out why and to be fair they don’t even care. Why!!! Because as one member leaves they have another 10 join and therefore that’s all the site cares about. It’s about time the site asked what the real members thought about it, listened to them, did something about it and not wrap them on their knuckles for having an opinion that they don’t like "
This is such a shame  so sorry your experience has been crap x |
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When looking in meets and organised events section radius rather than general area North West is a large area |
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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago
Chester |
"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
Agreed xx |
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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago
Chester |
Also a option to put ' bi playful '.
Being on the club scene for only a year, we have met soooo many that are not bisexuals or bi curious but are definitely bi playful like myself xx |
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Have push notifications again, was handy and useful. Still miss them |
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Being able to block all smokers |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
There should definitely be more use of distances on the site
ie Block messages more than x-number of miles away.
New photos sorted within x-number of miles away.
Hot photos by closest etc. |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had
Different age ranges for different sexes
I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.
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Searchable on all profile data fields, is an essential need |
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"Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had
Different age ranges for different sexes
I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.
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do you want an infinity of buttons..ha |
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I suppose when it comes down to choices it's the most obvious that will get chosen or the list will be endless ..and you cant please everyone. |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
I'd like to see the software stopping people showing in multiple chat rooms at once and why do certain members on cam not show up on mobile chat |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
"Ooh ooh ooh I thought of another I always wish we had
Different age ranges for different sexes
I have completely different age preferences for single men (younger) than I do for single women & (same/older) for example.
do you want an infinity of buttons..ha "
No, but I would just like a way of blocking messages from significantly older guys who havent read my profile but allow messages from older women who have. |
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I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who meet  |
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Be able to have "offline mode" that allows you full access but prevents the ravenous hoards of guys pouncing on your inbox as soon as they see "online" |
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Oh and please please make East Anglia a region, we're not "East Midlands" - it takes 4 hours to drive to Nottingham from Norwich!!! |
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"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in."
I think this forum should be infinite and auto delete when either event finished or after 6 month
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"People who meet "
there's only so much a site can facilitate  |
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Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous. |
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"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."
It's baffling that this hasn't already been implemented |
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"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
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Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them. |
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"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them."
They show next to your username. |
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Add age on the names in the rooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to see an option to search photographs by location
Nothing worse than scrolling thru hundreds of pics just to see any from locals |
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Improvement on the filters ,so they can't be bypassed by adding a pic and then removing it.or being able to change your age to get round a filter. |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
And as many people have said elsewhere... A Nudist section in the Forum. Yes there are nudists forums elsewhere on t'internet but there's even more options online for discussing Covid, yet we still have a Virus section.
And, yes, Swinging and Naturism are two totally different things, but whether the hardcore nudists like it or not there is some crossover and it is relevant |
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Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options) |
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"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."
This  |
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"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in."
Disagree with this... We're very much on and off this site depending on what's going on in our regular life. We have fab friends going back years.. If we have to start a new profile from scratch everytime then i don't think we'd bother coming back at all
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By *assyscot1Woman
over a year ago
South Lanarkshire |
Having a go to bottom option in messages so you can go to oldest message first without having to select next and scroll down. The option to go to top is there so going to bottom should be simple to do to
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If you could change the sites name what would you rename it?? |
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"I would also like a feature where your profile is automatically deleted after a set time of not logging in.
Disagree with this... We're very much on and off this site depending on what's going on in our regular life. We have fab friends going back years.. If we have to start a new profile from scratch everytime then i don't think we'd bother coming back at all
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I’ve been thinking about it.
It would be helpful to receive an email reminder to log in otherwise your account will be deleted. Then you just log in and keep account alive.
My point was rather in case of someone passing, when you go, your account goes too, hope it makes sense. |
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By *loydyMan
over a year ago
British |
To be able to reply to a message saying no thanks so it doesn't cost you a message |
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"To be able to reply to a message saying no thanks so it doesn't cost you a message"
Already exists.
No reply is your reply in itself, as stated by Fab FAQ. |
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What about a picture or video league table for those who want to be noticed by others?
We don’t all want the attention.... but some crave it lol.... |
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"To be able to hide the “online” blue dot and “last seen” as well.
Can't say I've seen either of these functions and having done a brief search still haven't found them.
They show next to your username."
Still can't see them. Maybe because I'm not using a mobile version. Anyway, I won't lose any sleep over it. Lived all this time without knowing about these features! |
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"Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options) "
agree
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Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us. |
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"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us."
Agree with this |
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"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us."
Unworkable. Most of the time there is a natural offset in favour of male partners being slightly older than the female. Rightly or wrongly, that's how it seems to be. |
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"Apply the same age filters onto who can view us as those we choose that can message us.
Unworkable. Most of the time there is a natural offset in favour of male partners being slightly older than the female. Rightly or wrongly, that's how it seems to be."
Unless, of oourse, you are talking of applying it as an option, in which case why not. |
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Option to hide online now and last seen feature
Options to limit who can view your profile
More options to limit who can message eg body type/ height/ sexual orientation/ ethnicity
Tighter blocking features so would be unable to see forum posts, profile pics, status updates
Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc
A ‘no thanks’ button, as some still don’t take the hint when you just ignore or delete their message
Remove the feature to show that messages are read/ unread. |
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By *ueanddave2Couple
over a year ago
Broughton-in-Furness |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
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Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc
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YES!!!
this is essential, absolutely mad that you have to delete a post and re write it to make a correction! |
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"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
As above it works well, another site does this..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Restrict messaging until you’re photo verified
Knowing who’s hot list you are on
Restrict messages from people out of your range |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Restrict messaging until you’re photo verified
Knowing who’s hot list you are on
Restrict messages from people out of your range"
Also being able to keep ongoing conversations at the top so you don’t lose them |
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By *a4558Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
I'd say more options for meets. Like . House party . Private party bi female party etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dark mode. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dating section
Dating options in account details
More specifics on the search facility
Options to filter messages more so only those that fit the criteria of what you’re looking for come through rather than everyone solely based on gender
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Definitely hide the blue dot.
And a better filter to stop those with no public pics to be able to bypass filters.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos."
That would most likely lead to more abuse. |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
A next pic button when viewing galleries would be handy... or at least so im told  |
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"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.
That would most likely lead to more abuse."
...potentially, but other sites that have this feature leave it up to the owner of the picture whether or not to display the comment. A report button would give further control, but that puts more on the admin. |
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Option to ‘edit’ rather than delete forum posts even if only for a few mins for typos etc
YES!!!
this is essential, absolutely mad that you have to delete a post and re write it to make a correction!"
Great idea. I'm always deleting to avoid being shamed by my slapdash errors! |
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you mean like this..hehehe
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Having the functions already available actually working correctly especially in relation to who and who can’t message you or view your profile would be a good start. Clear separation demarcation between those who just want to chat and post pictures verses those who actually want to meet would be useful. Name and shame section for the abusive, the perpetual no shows etc |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Being able to view the entirety of your hot/block list is something that really needs to happen, just to combat the spam. |
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instant chat messenger be good,so you can chat right there and not having to wait on replies by normal messaging |
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By *heggMan
over a year ago
South Brum |
"Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc"
This. Definitely this. |
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Get your geography right please.
Northamptonshire is not in the West Midlands. This messes with searches! West Midlands comprises Staffordshire, Warwickshire, Shropshire, Herefordshire, and Worcestershire. The East Midlands includes the counties of Lincolnshire, Northamptonshire, Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, and Rutland.
Ethnicity would be a useful filter please. What's the point of it being part of our details when it's not something that can be used in searches/filters.
Also a filter to block smokers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous."
This is the most worrying for me. How blocked accounts can see an interact with you on forums so you are reluctant to discuss things as they can see.
Also blocked accounts should be blocked. I can still see if they are online and when last on as well as status updates so presumably they could see me if they know and blocked as a sort of loophole?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a Tinder style Like/Dislike would be perfect to le out the riff raff from your searches.
The ability to message any women means they're getting inundated by all sorts of weirdos.
And then men would have better luck getting replies as they're actually messaging those with a mutual attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A way of liking people's statuses, good for example looking for a fuck and being able to like statuses to show intrest |
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By *arlofunMan
over a year ago
darlington |
You should receive feedback from admin if you have reported another member, like what action was taken. Because at the moment you just report someone and that’s it. |
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"A way of liking people's statuses, good for example looking for a fuck and being able to like statuses to show intrest "
such tact gets you no where !! Be respectful!!
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"Get your geography right please.
Northamptonshire is not in the West Midlands. This messes with searches! West Midlands comprises Staffordshire, Warwickshire, Shropshire, Herefordshire, and Worcestershire. The East Midlands includes the counties of Lincolnshire, Northamptonshire, Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire, Leicestershire, and Rutland.
Ethnicity would be a useful filter please. What's the point of it being part of our details when it's not something that can be used in searches/filters.
Also a filter to block smokers "
I'm nothing to do with admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would permanently remove wonko from the site
The man is a waste of bandwidth |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Also to make it impossible for people you blocked to see your forum posts (eg. comments on social or meet up threads) as they are still able to track you down, I find it borderline dangerous.
This is the most worrying for me. How blocked accounts can see an interact with you on forums so you are reluctant to discuss things as they can see.
Also blocked accounts should be blocked. I can still see if they are online and when last on as well as status updates so presumably they could see me if they know and blocked as a sort of loophole??"
Anyone can set up a new profile in a heartbeat.
So people you block can easily set up a second profile and browse the forums at will. There's no workaround for that at all. Any site member can see anything posted by anyone in the forums. This isn't bookface where you can select posts to be visible to a select audience.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I think a Tinder style Like/Dislike would be perfect to le out the riff raff from your searches.
The ability to message any women means they're getting inundated by all sorts of weirdos.
And then men would have better luck getting replies as they're actually messaging those with a mutual attraction "
There's a simple way of doing this.
When you're browsing just block anyone you'll never be interested in. Stops them showing up in future searches and prevents them ever messaging you.
The solutions to most things people ask for in here are often already there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Show if I'm on someone's hot list |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Improve the meet search - so you can search for meets that are looking for your type, age, etc
This. Definitely this."
You already can.
Choose browse and 'advanced search'.
You can search by distance, age (and if you meet their age preferences), sexuality, smoking status, interests....pretty much everything. You can tick the 'Looking to meet' box too to show who's actively looking.
Again. These things are already there.
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"Show if I'm on someone's hot list"
I like this
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"Show if I'm on someone's hot listI like this "
I don't. Our hot list is also a 'not' list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a not meeting/meeting/just camming indicator. Like a red/amber/green indicator. Easier to see who is actually meeting |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Show if I'm on someone's hot listI like this
I don't. Our hot list is also a 'not' list"
Yep. Ours is multi use.
Hot.
Not.
Forum mods in case of emergency.
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Be able to go in a private room with another user for private can fun . |
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Better gender categories.
Better forum location threads - my choices are London / UK...
Be able to use emoji from my keyboard rather than the provided ones.... I'm seeing so many ?? now and like it or not they're commonplace pretty much everywhere else.
Maybe a feature to turn off winks, so many people say they don't like them...
And be able to stop genders from fabbing your pics (same as message filters). I block guys from messaging and winking, but then they just fab every pic to try and get your attention that way! |
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By *hily2Man
over a year ago
Ivybridge |
How about bringing back the map option to search but make it a bit more interactive…….i know it will still be a rough area as no one wants to know if their neighbours are on here…..or do you???lol |
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"How about bringing back the map option to search but make it a bit more interactive…….i know it will still be a rough area as no one wants to know if their neighbours are on here…..or do you???lol"
Absolutely not… think this could be very dangerous in the wrong hands. No one needs to see someones (even approximate) location on a map. If someone wants you to know where they are, they can share that information themselves. I would be outta here if Fab brought that feature in  |
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By *hily2Man
over a year ago
Ivybridge |
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By *hily2Man
over a year ago
Ivybridge |
I never meant that it should show your street name….. I meant give or take a 5 mile radius…. Like what we have now but just graphically represented! |
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
Redhill |
Photo verification as standard, which checks on the pic being photoshopped. Would cut out a lot of the jokers. |
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Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult. |
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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
Mail separated into 'Friends' and 'Others'. I want to prioritise replies to friends and not have to scroll to find them lurking in the depths |
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"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult. "
Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too |
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"Oh and please please make East Anglia a region, we're not "East Midlands" - it takes 4 hours to drive to Nottingham from Norwich!!!"
This above anything else! |
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"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult.
Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too "
Couldn't you just not look at them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be able to filter your hotlist by location (and other options) "
+1 I would also like to see this, we move all around the country it would make it easier to keep track of people in that area we would like to meet when there. |
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"Be able to turn off the wink function. Can turn off the fab function on pics so can't be that difficult.
Would be great to be able to turn off the friend request option too
Couldn't you just not look at them?"
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I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "
You want locations published publicly on the Internet for anyone to browse?
Probably not the best idea is it.... 
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "
Theres already a very popular website with a chat function just for that purpose. |
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By *i4twoMan
over a year ago
Taunton |
Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.
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By *1newcdTV/TS
over a year ago
France |
To filter/search for people based on sexual preference (straight, bi, gay, all etc). It seems like such a necessary feature, and I can’t imagine it being a massive thing to add.
That, and separating out the TV/TS gender. They shouldn’t be joined together. |
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Don’t allow hidden profiles to wink you. Seems completely pointless. Perhaps they could also be a bit more discerning with the forum posts. It must take up quite a bit of bandwidth allowing people with posts like “what’s your favourite flavour custard” or “who has double glazing.” |
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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago
Stanford-le-Hope |
"To seperate TS from TV/CD"
Agree
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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago
Stanford-le-Hope |
The option to like a status without having to send a message. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Additional information in the FAQ for those struggling on here so are some basic guidance to assist them to create their own bio. As the forums gets flooded time and time again asking the same question |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"The option to like a status without having to send a message. "
Like this aye  |
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By *1newcdTV/TS
over a year ago
France |
If you delete a comment in a thread, that thread still appears in your “Recent Threads you posted to” section. Quite annoying as I’ve no interest in said thread, I posted accidentally in it.
It’s not a major issue I’ll admit but still annoying. |
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I appreciate that everything people suggest can’t be done but there are hardly any updates done to this site which is a shame. Things such as updating gender and geographic locations are tiny changes that could be made in a day.
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"Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.
People over 6ft scare me "
Haha love it :- |
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"Being able to search by height, if possible when searching for couples to separate M and F by height.
People over 6ft scare me
Haha love it :- "
sometimes it's just a bridge to far |
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"I never meant that it should show your street name….. I meant give or take a 5 mile radius…. Like what we have now but just graphically represented!"
How could this be shown graphically without showing exact location? I'm probably just being dim! |
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Yes. Individual photo feedback would be mint. |
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Being able to search meets with a wanting to meet tv filter x  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Being able to turn off/on photos within the message filters would stop people receiving unwanted photo's |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Different areas for different kinks, so you don't have to wade through tons of irrelevant stuff? |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.
That would most likely lead to more abuse."
Seems to work ok on dozens of other sites.... |
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When messaging someone, the additional function of being able to "add a direct private VIDEO".
Currently you can only add a direct private photo. |
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The option to hide specific photos as you come across them, rather than just seeing or hiding them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy that posts 10 pictures weekly of himself in inappropriate underwear |
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By *mg 321Man
over a year ago
Blackpool |
A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences. |
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"I think a nice cruising attachment would be good where people can see where to go cruising etc and possibly have meets "
The site specifically doesn't permit the posting of venues, other than swinging clubs. Posting other details gives an opportunity for people to be targeted, including for violence etc |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"If you could change the sites name what would you rename it??"
The fifth dimension |
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"The guy that posts 10 pictures weekly of himself in inappropriate underwear "
just block them and all pics disappear too ..
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"If you could change the sites name what would you rename it??
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Swab Fingers.
Then nobody in the outside world would realise it wasn't just about keeping your mitts clan! |
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The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.
Also, bring back having your message history showing in the messages. It used to be the main reason i paid for site support, so i could see the previous conversations I’ve had with people. Now all i can see is that I replied 3 months ago but not what I actually said. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.
Also, bring back having your message history showing in the messages. It used to be the main reason i paid for site support, so i could see the previous conversations I’ve had with people. Now all i can see is that I replied 3 months ago but not what I actually said. "
It does via the group messages in mailbox settings |
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"The ability to filter or organise my inbox, such as having all messages from friends go to a separate inbox or to the top.
Also, bring back having your message history showing in the messages. It used to be the main reason i paid for site support, so i could see the previous conversations I’ve had with people. Now all i can see is that I replied 3 months ago but not what I actually said.
It does via the group messages in mailbox settings "
That only shows messages from a few days, in the past they kept the full message history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.
The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.
Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money. |
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"Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.
The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.
Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money. "
Along a similar vein (but worse, IMO) are the catfishes and abusive people. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve reported a fake profile - often with verification - because they’ve used a photo from the internet. I realise they can just create another profile but in the very LEAST they should get the boot for that. Perhaps being able to attach images to reports would be an idea, so we can include screenshots. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
They should have an “I’m the ethnicity they’re looking for”. You can search for people by ethnicity as it is, so would be good to be able to search for people whose preference you fit. |
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A yes or no tick box similar to the smokers one for will meet married without consent. |
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came to say this. Sometimes I recognise a profile picture but can’t remember how the conversation went, it would be really helpful to click on their profile and see all correspondence between you |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"A yes or no tick box similar to the smokers one for will meet married without consent. "
This would be ideal though many people will not be happy with it. |
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I see often that admin don't have the time. I understand that, but, I'd imagine there could be quite a few designers here who could volunteer to possibly make things happen that admin may agree with |
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Being able to like someone's status and comment on it |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Improved mods. It's shocking the amount of times single women get away with advertising for '£££' and nothing happens.
The other side of nothing happening to them is I get chastised for a photo which one of the mod team thinks is from a website.
Equal treatment for all please. We all pay the same money. "
The crazy thing is that if you reload that pic or vid it will often be accepted on the second/third/fourth attempt. A photo/video is either acceptable or it’s not. No consistency and no-one seems to know what they’re doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Comments on pics or vids would be hilarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a waste of time never any response or action 9n suggestions |
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Be consistent with banning pic, I had pic remover that have been on my people for years as it said that faces on my pics did not hide woman's faces enough, then you look at some pics shown with less than 10% of the coverage that I had on mine. |
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"This is a waste of time never any response or action 9n suggestions"
I'm nothing to do with this site ..but you never know who's watching ..you grump
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By *axyMan
over a year ago
Great Ayton |
"People who meet "
Problem if someone's a paid member!
Also why? |
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When you add to your own hotlist,being able to SORT them into order of , say, name or proximity would be good |
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Please move ‘Shrewsbury’ to SHROPSHIRE not WALES |
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By *izredCouple
over a year ago
mid cornwall |
Ability to go straight to messages you've exchanged when looking at someone's profile.
Eg be able to click through to messages from the "you messaged them" section |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d like to have the facility to be able to comment on individual photos.yep ..feedback is good most of the time "
This would be good. Also being able to Fab a Status update. |
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A search on height would be great. |
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Why not have a 'Perfect Match' algorithm? |
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By *piceyMan
over a year ago
your marital bed given the chance |
Regions aligned. For example I’m in Norfolk but nearest region as an option is East Midlands, which is at minimum a good hour away. |
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"A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences. "
There is a tick box in the search for looking to meet today but that needs people to have a meet posted maybe a tick box on your profile for meet today to do that for you
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"A meet now search option would be good along with a filter of distance and preferences.
There is a tick box in the search for looking to meet today but that needs people to have a meet posted maybe a tick box on your profile for meet today to do that for you
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You don't need to have a meet posted. There's literally a tick box option to be added to the 'meet today' list for 1,3,6,9 or 12 hours.
It's been a feature for years.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being able to block all smokers"
Not sure how helpful that would be to be honest. When I used to meet as a single outside of clubs, I met a fair amount of single guys who did smoke but lied about it on their profiles. |
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