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By *ippa 63 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
St Helens |
This has probably been discussed previously. Why can't the verifications remain to view when the person or persons have left fab like the threads.
For example i have 14 verifications but only 6 visible. I'm sure if people could see the others they would be able to make a more informed view. |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave"
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving. 
Winston |
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By *ippa 63 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
St Helens |
I understand what you are saying. But there would be something on their profile to show they have been active and have a bit of a history. Might help some people to decide one way or another.
Just a thought. |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
london |
I know it would probably disappoint somewhat if a good veri disappears.
It kind of suggest you gotta keep active to remain relevant.
Hoverer if you’re someone with over 10 veri’s for example, losing one this way shouldn’t really matter a great deal (apart from the memories if you have not screen grabbed). |
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"I have been saying that for years the verifications should stay if the person leaves the site,at one point i had 6 think now am down to my last one,"
The verifications would still show in the summary if you're still using the same profile, you just wouldn't be able to show them/see them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've screenshot mine, then I can send them over Kik if needs be in the future
That's a good idea Pixie.  "
I should’ve done that I’ve lost quite a few with people leaving  |
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By *al kalMan
over a year ago
london |
"Any reason when I verify someone it's not showing up on there page?
Any suggestions "
As in your comments do not appear on their profile?
They may choose not to display it.
If that’s not the case and the other person agrees that they cannot see your verification, then suggest you ask admin to take a look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston"
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.  |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice. "
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston "
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later. 
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus |
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We've left verification that we've had really good meets with, however they've later became abusive because we didn't want another meet (we make it clear on my couples profile most meets will be one offs)
So obviously we've blocked them but I'd love to have deleted the verification because in no way would I want to endorse this person, even though my verification no longer shows the fact I've verified them as genuine makes me feel uneasy as I wouldn't feel safe in his company knowing how Jekel & Hyde he could be we could have put someone in a very vulnerable situation
So there's no way I'd want our positive words about the meet still being used (with or without our name) as his mood / attitude changed so quickly, imagine of that had happened during na actual meet |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus "
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices 
Winston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A verification to me proves your real and show up, whats written is none of my business, one persons ideal meet is another persons hell.. some people use the veris like a trip advisor.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices
Winston"
Some of my veris were from real live human beings. Nice people and good memories.
Anyway if I want to have some hot veris I'll just make them up.  |
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By *ippa 63 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"We've left verification that we've had really good meets with, however they've later became abusive because we didn't want another meet (we make it clear on my couples profile most meets will be one offs)
So obviously we've blocked them but I'd love to have deleted the verification because in no way would I want to endorse this person, even though my verification no longer shows the fact I've verified them as genuine makes me feel uneasy as I wouldn't feel safe in his company knowing how Jekel & Hyde he could be we could have put someone in a very vulnerable situation
So there's no way I'd want our positive words about the meet still being used (with or without our name) as his mood / attitude changed so quickly, imagine of that had happened during na actual meet "
I can imagine that is a concern of yours. Not sure if the fab police could remove the veri due to the circumstances. Or you could put something in your profile like some do about time wasters.
One bad person shouldn't put you off. Im sure for every bad ones there are plenty of good ones.
Happy Fabbing. |
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By *ippa 63 OP TV/TS
over a year ago
St Helens |
Thanks all that have contributed to the thread. We have had a well balanced view throughout.
I wonder if anyone has has a veri only to realise it was for the wrong person. That would be interesting. |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices
Winston
Some of my veris were from real live human beings. Nice people and good memories.
Anyway if I want to have some hot veris I'll just make them up. "
Winston |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices
Winston
Some of my veris were from real live human beings. Nice people and good memories.
Anyway if I want to have some hot veris I'll just make them up. "
Do some people get veris from robots?
Also I don't think not cherishing something like a verification is eyeroll worthy.
I don't need people I hold dear and care about to write paragraphs
about the intricate nuances of our encounters, so I can show them to other people I haven't met yet.
I kind of see your point though- its like keeping old birthday/Christmas cards. Some people have a neat pile and keep them forever, some put them in a bin a week after birthday/Christmas is over.
Missus
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices
Winston
Some of my veris were from real live human beings. Nice people and good memories.
Anyway if I want to have some hot veris I'll just make them up.
Do some people get veris from robots?
Also I don't think not cherishing something like a verification is eyeroll worthy.
I don't need people I hold dear and care about to write paragraphs
about the intricate nuances of our encounters, so I can show them to other people I haven't met yet.
I kind of see your point though- its like keeping old birthday/Christmas cards. Some people have a neat pile and keep them forever, some put them in a bin a week after birthday/Christmas is over.
Missus
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"I don't need people I hold dear and care about to write paragraphs
about the intricate nuances of our encounters, so I can show them to other people I haven't met yet."
Why arent your veris hidden then? 
Winston |
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"They have said before as the verification belongs to the person who sent it when they leave all traces if them leave
I've always thought the veri should still display, just say UNLOS.
I've lost some great veris due to people leaving.
Winston
Save them to a notepad app. I still have mine from my old profile. People said I'm nice.
I should have taken screenshots.
Winston
I can't imagine a single verification that would be precious enough to keep it in a separate app to then send it to someone else through a third app so someone can see what someone who's not even on site any more had to say about me a year (or whatever amount of time passed) later.
Call me crazy, but do people have this much too much time on their hands?
Missus
Some of my verifications were incredibly special to me, from people who are/were very special to me.
Moments in time, which are all too fleeting.
Would I send them to other people, not a chance in Hell.
Call me crazy, but are people way too judgemental about other people's decisions and choices
Winston
Some of my veris were from real live human beings. Nice people and good memories.
Anyway if I want to have some hot veris I'll just make them up.
Do some people get veris from robots?
Also I don't think not cherishing something like a verification is eyeroll worthy.
I don't need people I hold dear and care about to write paragraphs
about the intricate nuances of our encounters, so I can show them to other people I haven't met yet.
I kind of see your point though- its like keeping old birthday/Christmas cards. Some people have a neat pile and keep them forever, some put them in a bin a week after birthday/Christmas is over.
Missus
"I don't need people I hold dear and care about to write paragraphs
about the intricate nuances of our encounters, so I can show them to other people I haven't met yet."
Why arent your veris hidden then?
Winston"
Trying to be smart I see.
Majority of all our veris are from group social events, that we organise.
None of them are too personal.
We will never write, nor make public any veris describing sexual activities (intricate nuances) with anyone, no matter how well we get along with said people.
Welcome to read through every single one and call me a hypocrite. Might wanna make a cuppa as it'll take a while 
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"We've left verification that we've had really good meets with, however they've later became abusive because we didn't want another meet (we make it clear on my couples profile most meets will be one offs)
So obviously we've blocked them but I'd love to have deleted the verification because in no way would I want to endorse this person, even though my verification no longer shows the fact I've verified them as genuine makes me feel uneasy as I wouldn't feel safe in his company knowing how Jekel & Hyde he could be we could have put someone in a very vulnerable situation
So there's no way I'd want our positive words about the meet still being used (with or without our name) as his mood / attitude changed so quickly, imagine of that had happened during na actual meet
I can imagine that is a concern of yours. Not sure if the fab police could remove the veri due to the circumstances. Or you could put something in your profile like some do about time wasters.
One bad person shouldn't put you off. Im sure for every bad ones there are plenty of good ones.
Happy Fabbing. "
It doesn't put us off, we do still meet & leave verifications but I'm glad that that user can no longer display that verification (as we've blocked them) but I can't see any benefit on users being able to display verifications from those that have left the site or who have blocked them
It shows in the verification stats which is surely sufficient no one needs to see specific details of individual meets
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"Any reason when I verify someone it's not showing up on there page?
Any suggestions "
Whoever they are have chosen not to display it. Its their choice to show or not to show. |
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"We've left verification that we've had really good meets with, however they've later became abusive because we didn't want another meet (we make it clear on my couples profile most meets will be one offs)
So obviously we've blocked them but I'd love to have deleted the verification because in no way would I want to endorse this person, even though my verification no longer shows the fact I've verified them as genuine makes me feel uneasy as I wouldn't feel safe in his company knowing how Jekel & Hyde he could be we could have put someone in a very vulnerable situation
So there's no way I'd want our positive words about the meet still being used (with or without our name) as his mood / attitude changed so quickly, imagine of that had happened during na actual meet "
I think you'll find if you block them it dose dissapear from their profile. Just as some one else said it stays on the veri count mumber. No! It gets removed too. |
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