So should there be a box to say someone is open to/looking for a fwb ‘relationship’ on here so if it’s something you’re looking for it’s easier to find each other?
Like an interest box ?
I trust you right minded intelligent people to give me the answer
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I would quite like a box that indicates to profile visitors that I am not looking for ONS or FB - but more a person with whom to do some activities (besides the obvious).
As many people do not read profiles it can get missed, and putting it it the status update always sounds a bit ranty.  |
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"I would quite like a box that indicates to profile visitors that I am not looking for ONS or FB - but more a person with whom to do some activities (besides the obvious).
As many people do not read profiles it can get missed, and putting it it the status update always sounds a bit ranty. "
I think this is also a good idea - makes matching aa little easier - and the comment from Ranger about posting in the admin thread - thanks for that - if we get a load if suggestions
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I would quite like a box that indicates to profile visitors that I am not looking for ONS or FB - but more a person with whom to do some activities (besides the obvious).
As many people do not read profiles it can get missed, and putting it it the status update always sounds a bit ranty.
I think this is also a good idea - makes matching aa little easier - and the comment from Ranger about posting in the admin thread - thanks for that - if we get a load if suggestions
In
Here then i’ll flag the thread up for them to have a look "
Done, Thanks Ranger and Agent |
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"I would quite like a box that indicates to profile visitors that I am not looking for ONS or FB - but more a person with whom to do some activities (besides the obvious).
As many people do not read profiles it can get missed, and putting it it the status update always sounds a bit ranty.
I think this is also a good idea - makes matching aa little easier - and the comment from Ranger about posting in the admin thread - thanks for that - if we get a load if suggestions
In
Here then i’ll flag the thread up for them to have a look
Done, Thanks Ranger and Agent"
Does the fact that admin will read this mean i cant whisper filth in your ear now? Xx  |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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The problem is that sooo many guys have ideas of schemes they hope make it easier for them and admin/feedback is inundated with them.
The same for all, l how do you police it? Check box for people looking for a relationship/fwb or whatever.
Like people are not going to tick it if they think they'll gain from it. Everyone is honest about their intentions here.
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"So should there be a box to say someone is open to/looking for a fwb ‘relationship’ on here so if it’s something you’re looking for it’s easier to find each other?
Like an interest box ?
I trust you right minded intelligent people to give me the answer
And also send a message to fab that we won’t put up with it any more!! Or just definitely the first bit "
No because I'm not looking for that from every meet.... Although I guess I'm not looking for all of my other interests at every meet either though.
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"I would quite like a box that indicates to profile visitors that I am not looking for ONS or FB - but more a person with whom to do some activities (besides the obvious).
As many people do not read profiles it can get missed, and putting it it the status update always sounds a bit ranty.
I think this is also a good idea - makes matching aa little easier - and the comment from Ranger about posting in the admin thread - thanks for that - if we get a load if suggestions
In
Here then i’ll flag the thread up for them to have a look
Done, Thanks Ranger and Agent"
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Some good feedback here - i guess i was saying it would be a search option so if you were open to a fwb arrangement then you would tick it. If You get a msg From a guy saying wuu2 or Fuck? They’re probably not going to be looking at a fwb arrangement outside of 25 seconds of grovelling apologies. And then disappearing.
But for those that like to get to know
People and meet mire than once as a friendship develops it might just be a ‘ nice to have’
I knew I could trust yiu lot to come up with balanced feedback
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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While I can see the logic and benefits that such a tick box could provide - as others have said I can see it would just become another box that the majority of single guys tick and the majority of women leave unticked to fend off the "I see you're looking for..." type messages.
Thing is too where do you stop with "interests" tick boxes? All of which on their own have their merits but collectively would make things very unwieldy and probably serve the opposite purpose to that intended. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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How could it be made to be fit for purpose?
Like "Please tick this box only if you are genuinely looking for a bit more than ONS"?
Suggestions welcome - or please feel free to update on the Suggestion thread also called "Friends with Benefits" |
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