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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In another forum a couple of days ago, we were discussing whether men people putting straight or bi-curious and stating that they love sucking cock made them fully bi or not, but we argued that they could just be orally bi, but there is no option on the profile form for this.
Both BamBam & I would consider ourselves to be orally bi at the moment but with curiosity for exploring our bi sides further.
There are a number of people using Fab who will look at the orientation of a person/couple before deciding whether they want to read more about them but sometimes the boxes we tick can be misleading, causing others to either overlook us or make contact when they're possibly not a good match.
I wonder whether there are other options that we would like the powers that be to consider adding to the profile checklist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed. M is orally bi, but we have had a few meets now so he wouldn't class himself as 'curious' anymore, but nor is he bi as he doesn't fancy guys or want to fuck/be fucked by them, it's purely playing orally when we meet, which btw, F finds so horny!!  |
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Even fantasising about having sex with the same sex (if you are also attracted to the opposite) makes you bi. It is not about "fancying". If you enjoy same-sex intimacy and enjoy it, there is definitely no escaping it. However, I do agree that it would be good to have some sort of "degrees of bisexuality" option as I am mainly orally bi myself. |
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I think your either bi or your not..if a male is happy to suck another males cock then he is bi surely?..
Its like saying I (male) dont like fucking other men..but I dont mind them fucking me...so Im not 'really' bi.. Im anally bi  |
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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
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"Its like saying I (male) dont like fucking other men..but I dont mind them fucking me...so Im not 'really' bi.. Im anally bi "
That would suggest that, in order to be useful, there should 4 male bi classifications: orally bi giving, orally bi receiving, anally bi giving & anally bi receiving? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its like saying I (male) dont like fucking other men..but I dont mind them fucking me...so Im not 'really' bi.. Im anally bi That would suggest that, in order to be useful, there should 4 male bi classifications: orally bi giving, orally bi receiving, anally bi giving & anally bi receiving?"
So how do you list as an orally bi male that likes to give anal?
Or an anally receiving guy who gives oral but not receives?
Don't think your classifications would work
So how about this
sexuality whether male or female
straight - as is
bi curious - curious but not really done it
bi playful - tried and will do it with the right likeminded people when they want to play.
bi sexual - Love bi fun, always game
gay - as is
Now the kicker..... Under interests amend them so you have
Oral - giving
Oral - receiving
Oral - same sex giving
Oral - same sex receiving
anal - giving
anal - receiving
strapon - giving
strapon - receiving
many others that can be added
also may benefit to have interests individually for both in a couple to be a little more concise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must live in a different world to everyone else
To me if you are male and you only like to fuck women you are straight and visa versa
If you are male and only fuck other men you are gay and visa versa
If you are male and suck cock ( or have anything else to do with it) and fuck women you are bi and visa versa
If you are male and think you might like to suck another cock you are curious and visa versa. Once you have done it you can decide whether bi or straight
There is no reason to create grey areas it's simple ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must live in a different world to everyone else
To me if you are male and you only like to fuck women you are straight and visa versa
If you are male and only fuck other men you are gay and visa versa
If you are male and suck cock ( or have anything else to do with it) and fuck women you are bi and visa versa
If you are male and think you might like to suck another cock you are curious and visa versa. Once you have done it you can decide whether bi or straight
There is no reason to create grey areas it's simple !"
if you look though, its not that simple
someone may want a bi guy that only does oral, could be beneficial and its not "grey" areas its removing grey areas to be more concise and thorough |
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"I must live in a different world to everyone else
To me if you are male and you only like to fuck women you are straight and visa versa
If you are male and only fuck other men you are gay and visa versa
If you are male and suck cock ( or have anything else to do with it) and fuck women you are bi and visa versa
If you are male and think you might like to suck another cock you are curious and visa versa. Once you have done it you can decide whether bi or straight
There is no reason to create grey areas it's simple !"
100% agree...like I said, you either bi, gay or straight...otherwise your going to end up with 'orally straight' gays' etc etc |
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