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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Can we have the option to stop people from sending us a friend invite.

Until after we have messaged them or replied to a message from them.

It could be a check box to allow unsolicited friend invites of not

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

Use your filters..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Use your filters.."

I can't find a filter for.

Only allow friend invite if we have messaged them.

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By *ankie303Woman  over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

There sadly isn't a filter for that although it would amazing if there was! If you have "looking for" set, age, sex etc then anyone outside of that can't send them, but it doesn't stop everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There sadly isn't a filter for that although it would amazing if there was! If you have "looking for" set, age, sex etc then anyone outside of that can't send them, but it doesn't stop everyone else "

Exactly our point.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

It's a good idea. It would allow our preferences of what we do and don't accept to be supported by site features.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a good idea. It would allow our preferences of what we do and don't accept to be supported by site features. "

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan  over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

I used to get a lot on an old couple profile. Just ignore them then delete all in one click. Notifications can be turned off.

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By *ankie303Woman  over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I used to get a lot on an old couple profile. Just ignore them then delete all in one click. Notifications can be turned off."

If you don't delete them then they cant resend.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

On my friend list only people i have met in person that's why i accepted their friend request

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By *j_markCouple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Totteridge/Whetstone


"Can we have the option to stop people from sending us a friend invite.

Until after we have messaged them or replied to a message from them.

It could be a check box to allow unsolicited friend invites of not"

It's a good idea

Admin

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman  over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It would be a great feature although these random friends requests act similar to a filter, anyone sending one is already in my 'not interested' list

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to get a lot on an old couple profile. Just ignore them then delete all in one click. Notifications can be turned off.

If you don't delete them then they cant resend."

They can, after several months has passed.

Drives me mad!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to get a lot on an old couple profile. Just ignore them then delete all in one click. Notifications can be turned off.

If you don't delete them then they cant resend.

They can, after several months has passed.

Drives me mad!"

They can after 4 weeks.

The friend request issue has been brought up soo many times and nothing is done about it. Seems the onus is on the receiver to just ignore the requests as thats all you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to get a lot on an old couple profile. Just ignore them then delete all in one click. Notifications can be turned off.

If you don't delete them then they cant resend.

They can, after several months has passed.

Drives me mad!

They can after 4 weeks.

The friend request issue has been brought up soo many times and nothing is done about it. Seems the onus is on the receiver to just ignore the requests as thats all you can do. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can you not just ignore friend requests??? And only invite people you are interested in and attracted to

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff

I’d like something like this as well, at the moment I delete them all but it’s pretty annoying. There’s one guy who’s sent me a request and a wink every single week for months, except when my profile was hidden. He’s never messaged me or had any kind of interaction with me, just a weekly friend request you could set your watch by. I know everyone will say “block him” but it seems like a small thing to block someone over, I usually save that for people who are abusive or inappropriate. It’s like having a bit of grit in your shoe though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’d like something like this as well, at the moment I delete them all but it’s pretty annoying. There’s one guy who’s sent me a request and a wink every single week for months, except when my profile was hidden. He’s never messaged me or had any kind of interaction with me, just a weekly friend request you could set your watch by. I know everyone will say “block him” but it seems like a small thing to block someone over, I usually save that for people who are abusive or inappropriate. It’s like having a bit of grit in your shoe though!"

If you don't delete the friends request, he can't send another for a set amount of time.

He can't be winking you weekly though, as winks can only be sent to the same person once every 28 days.

I would block him too.

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff


"I’d like something like this as well, at the moment I delete them all but it’s pretty annoying. There’s one guy who’s sent me a request and a wink every single week for months, except when my profile was hidden. He’s never messaged me or had any kind of interaction with me, just a weekly friend request you could set your watch by. I know everyone will say “block him” but it seems like a small thing to block someone over, I usually save that for people who are abusive or inappropriate. It’s like having a bit of grit in your shoe though!

If you don't delete the friends request, he can't send another for a set amount of time.

He can't be winking you weekly though, as winks can only be sent to the same person once every 28 days.

I would block him too."

He does, I delete all my winks as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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It's a good idea

Admin"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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It's a good idea

Admin"

So, will it be discussed by all the page Admin and will you let us all know if it’s a yes or a no ??

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man  over a year ago

rotherham

agree with tick box option as for some its their preference for first attempt at contact with someone,saves typing a long detailed message for it to get instantly deleated where as a simple click of friend request if accepted then ensures a better chance its worth time sending a message

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By *irginieWoman  over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I just never look at my friend requests. Solves the problem. If I want to be friends. I send one.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we have the option to stop people from sending us a friend invite.

Until after we have messaged them or replied to a message from them.

It could be a check box to allow unsolicited friend invites of not

It's a good idea

Admin"

Could we do this for winks too

I find them totally pointless and would like the option to turn them off

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

Personally i never look at my friend requests or winks ever lol. Then again i'm pretty bad at checking my messages too these days, i only tend to come on here now for the forums.

just ignore your friend requests it's easy once you're in the habit of not checking them xx

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"It would be a great feature although these random friends requests act similar to a filter, anyone sending one is already in my 'not interested' list "

Same here. It even says on our profile not to send an FR unless we've met.

And yet they keep coming in....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just delete, its not difficult

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"Just delete, its not difficult"

How many friend requests do you get every day?

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By *affa CakesCouple  over a year ago

Tidworth Wiltshire


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If you don't delete them then they cant resend."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just delete, its not difficult

How many friend requests do you get every day?

E"

Even if you receive lots it only takes a minute to delete requests

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By * Plus ECouple  over a year ago

The South


"Just delete, its not difficult

How many friend requests do you get every day?

E

Even if you receive lots it only takes a minute to delete requests"

I'll ask the question again. How many do you get every day?

E

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just delete, its not difficult

How many friend requests do you get every day?

E

Even if you receive lots it only takes a minute to delete requests

I'll ask the question again. How many do you get every day?

E"

From females or couples id be lucky to get a couple a month but from guys 2 or 3 a day

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