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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can we have these? Constantly having to remove messages from people 100/ 200 miles away asking for meets when its unrealistic and clearly states on our profile we wont message back if you are not local |
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By *ittle LunaCouple
over a year ago
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This would be good for us. We won't meet anyone outside our area just becauaenits not practical. Not folks who claim they are happy to drive 200 miles for a meet... utterly unrealistic for so many reasons. It would save us having to politely point out we made it clear on the profile already 
If we want to play elsewhere we can move our location and make connections before we get there.
We don't mind people from the other end of the country seeing our profile but at least having a clear warning before emailing would be good.
"This profile is not seeking people a million miles away. If you email don't be surprised or offended if you don't a reply"
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By *ittle LunaCouple
over a year ago
London (future visits not now) |
"I wrote a similar posting insofar as what would you class as local? For me it would be within one hours drive so about sixty miles."
If you can set a search parameter based on location a filter should be able to work that way too and show a polite "think twice" message if distance is greater than your preferred limit. It can be off by default and just those of us who think it would help reduce awkward admin work could can turn it on. Some weirdos might change their own location to bypass it but it would be a start and help reduce some unrealistic expectations. |
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"I wrote a similar posting insofar as what would you class as local? For me it would be within one hours drive so about sixty miles.
If you can set a search parameter based on location a filter should be able to work that way too and show a polite "think twice" message if distance is greater than your preferred limit. It can be off by default and just those of us who think it would help reduce awkward admin work could can turn it on. Some weirdos might change their own location to bypass it but it would be a start and help reduce some unrealistic expectations."
I think you are right. Anyone that is looking for something more than a “one shot” needs to be able to regularly travel the distance. I have seen some lovely looking ladies on here but they may as well live on the moon. I tried a long distance relationship before and experience says they are unsustainable. But you will always get tryers and some of them will succeed in getting a lay or whatever it is they are after, so they will carry on calling on every lass that tickles their fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mil% needed.
My profile clearly states local only, also states i will not reply if you're 100s miles away. Then ALSO states dont have a hissyfit and call me ignorant if i dont reply. And yet DAILY this happens. The filter isnt gonna happen tho, i've seen this suggestion so many times.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wrote a similar posting insofar as what would you class as local? For me it would be within one hours drive so about sixty miles."
I suppose you can set the filter you want and change it to suit
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"I wrote a similar posting insofar as what would you class as local? For me it would be within one hours drive so about sixty miles. I suppose you can set the filter you want and change it to suit"
If I do a search, it’s normally within 30 miles, but I will still get lasses popping up in Blackpool or Newcastle. It’s a bit strange lol. Mind you very few of the buggers want to talk anyway hahaha.
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"Can we have these? Constantly having to remove messages from people 100/ 200 miles away asking for meets when its unrealistic and clearly states on our profile we wont message back if you are not local "
Yes please, this would be so helpful x |
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"I wrote a similar posting insofar as what would you class as local? For me it would be within one hours drive so about sixty miles."
Central London is only 56 miles from Me but takes 2 hours normally but distance would be about right or maybe 70 miles
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