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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, single guy but my opinion is still valid.
How about a "Thanks but no and delete" button next to the delete button, the new button would send a boiler plate mail to the sender to say no thanks and delete the message from your inbox. There could also be a "Thanks but you're don't match our criteria" message, maybe you could store your own.
I know it says on here that deleting messages without a reply isn't rude but... if you read a profile that asks you for a personal message with clear face pic for a reply and you respond with exactly that, and they still delete without reply, that is rude because they aren't keeping up with your promises. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Because the messager would still message back with 'But wwwwhhhhyyyyyyyy?'
If the FAQs state that no answer is a no, then thats fine by me. Its not rude, its just the way it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because the messager would still message back with 'But wwwwhhhhyyyyyyyy?'
If the FAQs state that no answer is a no, then thats fine by me. Its not rude, its just the way it goes."
Completely accept no answer is a no but when you follow the instructions for a reply, write a proper english note, attach a clear face pic and you still get deleted with no response, that is simply rude. I wouldn't want to meet anyone that ignorant anyway and I'd be perfectly happy with a thanks but no, sent a few myself.
If you get a 'But wwwwhhhhyyyyyyyy?' then simply block them. You could even auto block with a new button.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because the messager would still message back with 'But wwwwhhhhyyyyyyyy?'
If the FAQs state that no answer is a no, then thats fine by me. Its not rude, its just the way it goes."
i think it be a good idea, but if they use this option then the person is blocked for 30 days from contacting them.
so its like a button that says not for us, and stops them from getting in touch for a short period of time, maybe a week maybe a month like the winks, for when you want to knock someone back without comeback but not block them for good |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Admin have answered this before and said they have it on another site...and they get complaints on the forums of people saying they hate the automated reply !
Can't win I don't think 
We have a few mail replies saved to word and copy and paste them when I am ready to answer a few mails together, it only takes a minute. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Completely accept no answer is a no but when you follow the instructions for a reply, write a proper english note, attach a clear face pic and you still get deleted with no response, that is simply rude. I wouldn't want to meet anyone that ignorant anyway and I'd be perfectly happy with a thanks but no, sent a few myself."
The problem is when people assume that, just because they fit the criteria set out on the profile, they are owed a response. No-one on here, even me, is owed a response. They don't want to meet you - move on. |
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