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Chams BBW Rocky horror Halloween bash 27th October 2019 part 3!
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BBW rocky horror Halloween bash
Venue : Chameleons (aka Chams) @ Darlaston
Date : Sunday 27th October 2019
The club opens at 2pm on a Sunday so it’s up to you if you arrive early or later in the day, the club is open till 1am.
Normal dress code for the night is lingerie or a towel for women and shorts or a towel for the guys although the theme for the night is Rocky horror Halloween party so give yourself over to absolute pleasure.
There is no pressure to play for those that just wish to socialise then grab a drink 'n chat the night away to your heart’s content, whilst for those that do wish to play there are plenty of rooms both 'open' and 'private' to play.
For those that have never been and are nervous, just chat with someone who's been before and they will soon put your mind at rest as there really is nothing to be nervous of, plus this is a great way to attend a club for the first time among friends you know.
LIST CLOSES AT 5PM ON WEDNESDAY 23RD OCTOBER!!
I have unfortunately had to disappoint late comers in the past so please get your name down early!
PLEASE NOTE THAT THERE CAN BE NO ANONYMOUS PLUS ONES...IF YOU WISH TO TEAM UP AS A COUPLE FOR THE NIGHT I WILL NEED TO HAVE A NAME FOR BOTH PARTIES!
YOU WILL ALSO NEED TO ARRIVE TOGETHER AND LEAVE TOGETHER. IF YOUR PLUS ONE CAN NO LONGER MAKE IT AND YOU WANT TO COME AS A SINGLE PLEASE LET ME KNOW BEFORE THE WEDNESDAY THE LIST CLOSES OTHERWISE YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO ATTEND.
Chameleons advise that the cost of entry will be:
Couples £23
Single Females £8
Single Males £36
Club membership is not required, though you must bring 2 forms of ID if you’re not a member and you must be on the guest list to receive the opportunity to attend without requiring membership.
The club have stressed that if you put your name down as a couple you MUST arrive and leave together. You cannot turn up and say your partner will be there later!!
Please remember you are there as a guest and any feedback of disrespect to people, staff, or the club premises will result in your name not being added to any future lists.
I would hope that this goes without saying but do not leave rubbish lying around, especially used condoms!! you spew the goo you clean it up!!!
that being said i hope its another great night! |
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Part bloody 3!
Will update this list when I'm back from my holibobs but it closes on WEDNESDAY! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was waiting for part 3 lol xx |
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"Was waiting for part 3 lol xx"
Sorry X lost track but Cheshire had my back and let me know part 2 had closed X |
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Hiya!
Sorry to mess you around but can you please put me back onto the guestlist please?
I've just found out that Sexpo has been cancelled so that means that i'll be able to make it to Chams after all! |
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Can I be put down as a highly likely maybe please, thankyou  |
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"Was waiting for part 3 lol xx
Sorry X lost track but Cheshire had my back and let me know part 2 had closed X "
I was waiting for part 3 lol and I was like should I start part 3,I thought no IL just let you know incase you hadn't had time to check in and notice, counting down the sleeps, perfect start to my week off and my trip to England is BBW |
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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago
Sussex |
Please also add Trrexx single Male
To the list Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in also. We cant wait for this event. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
Feel free to say hello. Even if I'm eating my chips! If you're nice to me I might even give you one...   |
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"Hiya!
Sorry to mess you around but can you please put me back onto the guestlist please?
I've just found out that Sexpo has been cancelled so that means that i'll be able to make it to Chams after all!"
Boomerang by name....;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not long now folk this will be my first time so please be gentle |
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Checking in, really looking forward to our first BBW night x |
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"Hiya!
Sorry to mess you around but can you please put me back onto the guestlist please?
I've just found out that Sexpo has been cancelled so that means that i'll be able to make it to Chams after all!
Boomerang by name....;-)"
Oh boomerang is just the right name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in xx |
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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago
Suffolk/Norfolk border |
Looking forward to this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw ting...okay! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking into part 3 xx |
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Can you add me to the list please xx |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Can you add me to the list please xx"
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This list is looking very naughty !  |
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Could you put my name on the list please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in xx |
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The name kinda stuck and it's more of an inside joke than anything! |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
" Checking in xx"
Part 3 all ready, can't wait only one more week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Checking in xx
Part 3 all ready, can't wait only one more week. "
Same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This time next week getting all excited for the Sunday landing at the premier inn around 4/5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you still have space for a couple? If so could you add me and Ragamuffin to the list please? |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in... |
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It's going to be epic as normal. Please be gentle with me as it will be day 5 of filth for me.. assuming I do nothing Monday and Tuesday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's going to be epic as normal. Please be gentle with me as it will be day 5 of filth for me.. assuming I do nothing Monday and Tuesday "
Careful you don't burn out beforehand, Cali x |
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"It's going to be epic as normal. Please be gentle with me as it will be day 5 of filth for me.. assuming I do nothing Monday and Tuesday
Careful you don't burn out beforehand, Cali x"
I'll do my best x if anyone wants to help me recover I'll most likely be in the hot tub... Or asleep in a room somewhere |
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Hi please can we have our names down as _ceofspades78 and sexypunk xxx |
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Hi please can we have our names down as _ceofspades78 and sexypunk xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a nose |
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I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay  |
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Add me and a +1 please Evie, I’ll message you now with the name! |
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I think i may have signed in, feel free to add me |
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"I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay "
Cos we're all going to be gutted at you wearing less clothing... |
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"I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay
Cos we're all going to be gutted at you wearing less clothing..."
Ha ha you sure  |
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"I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay "
Which half? |
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"I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay
Which half? "
The bottom half |
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"I’ve only half a costume!
Pesky eBay
Which half?
The bottom half "
Wont need to much clothing anyhow |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Having a nose "
Don't be shy. Come say hi! |
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This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a nose
Don't be shy. Come say hi! "
You’ve clearly not met me before far from shy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think I might attend! Haven’t been to chams before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in too. I so need this event, it's been too long |
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"This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot "
That sounds like a great way to start a holiday,
Cocktails and shots All round |
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"This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot
That sounds like a great way to start a holiday,
Cocktails and shots All round "
It's always a great way to start or finish my holidays,although IL leave any cocktails and shots or any other alcoholic beverages to the rest of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot
That sounds like a great way to start a holiday,
Cocktails and shots All round
It's always a great way to start or finish my holidays,although IL leave any cocktails and shots or any other alcoholic beverages to the rest of you"
Mocktails girl!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Checking in! |
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"This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot
That sounds like a great way to start a holiday,
Cocktails and shots All round
It's always a great way to start or finish my holidays,although IL leave any cocktails and shots or any other alcoholic beverages to the rest of you
Mocktails girl!!!! "
We will need a cheeky beer after a long drive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you still have space for a couple? If so could you add me and Ragamuffin to the list please?"
Hi Evie,
Not sure we ever got onto the list but if so please take us off. Change of plans. One year I’ll make the Halloween party! |
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Checking in, and coming along, but pretty sure Evie is more than aware of that....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope we are all ok and looking forward to a week today |
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"This time next week IL already be in the midlands ready for BBW just got to get though six more days and six more shifts, then I've a week off planned around starting with see you lovely lot
That sounds like a great way to start a holiday,
Cocktails and shots All round
It's always a great way to start or finish my holidays,although IL leave any cocktails and shots or any other alcoholic beverages to the rest of you
Mocktails girl!!!!
We will need a cheeky beer after a long drive "
Ask any of the staff they will tell you fizzy vimto or apple tango for me |
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I've been invited to this event by a couple of friends who are already on the guest list and I'd like to be added to the list too please? Really looking forward to attending. |
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By *k2018Couple
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
Can we added to the list pls. First Sunday visit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Party week countdown everybody excited |
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Can you add me and Atta70 to the guest list please? looking forward to seeing you all on Sunday xx
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By *JonaMan
over a year ago
walsall |
Add me on please Evie see you all Sunday |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Can you add me and Atta70 to the guest list please? looking forward to seeing you all on Sunday xx
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Please can you add enjoylife79 as my plus one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can u add us to the list please x |
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This is crazy in a good way, this looks like its going to be busier than the last one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to seeing you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is crazy in a good way, this looks like its going to be busier than the last one "
Don’t be hiding in the corner |
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Can I be put down as a maybe please |
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No corners I'm coming for you, if I can just work out who you are |
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By *ianomanMan
over a year ago
Southampton |
Please add me to the list if not too late for another single guy?
Been before With my Partner as plumpercouple
Can’t wait! |
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Also checking in my first time a little nervous and also looking forward to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No corners I'm coming for you, if I can just work out who you are "
Haha...  |
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If any Londoners want a lift & share the costs, pls pm me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Add us. Thanks. |
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I've been invited to this event by some friends who are on the guest list - please can you add me to the guest list as I really don't want to miss out? |
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I've been invited to this event by some friends who are on the guest list - please can you add me to the guest list as I really don't want to miss out? |
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Damn if only you said this months before lol |
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"Can you add me and Atta70 to the guest list please? looking forward to seeing you all on Sunday xx
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Looking forward to meeting you both XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Party week countdown everybody excited "
Oh yesssss checking in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t wait xxx |
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Hi Evie, can you remove us from the list? Cant make it now  |
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I'm getting a lot of private messages from the ladies
So if you see me please don't be scared to say hi and have chat et |
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By *inky pixieWoman
over a year ago
sourh midlands worcestershire |
Please add myself and my grockle69 to the going list, and single lady aliceinwebland thank you x |
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"Also checking in my first time a little nervous and also looking forward to it. "
It is such a friendly event I can assure you that there is nothing to be nervous about.
If required I'll hold your hand for the 20 minutes or so it'll take for you to feel at home |
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Anyone arriving Saturday night fancies meeting up with three blondes ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone arriving Saturday night fancies meeting up with three blondes ??"
I wasn't but am now reconsidering...! |
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Can you put us on the list please x |
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Please put us on the list, we have a room booked too |
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Checking in please add to list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please can I be added to the list x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please can I be added to the list along with the lovely Jess above x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore "
Whys that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore "
You & me both! |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that"
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm getting a lot of private messages from the ladies
So if you see me please don't be scared to say hi and have chat et "
If we knew what you looked like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers"
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way"
Glad I'm not the only one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one! "
Not at all
And I know people will say it’s for “admirers” too but don’t gimme that BS |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one! "
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one!
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big "
12/14 is not bloody BBW!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I come as well please ??? |
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Please kindly add me to the list, I'm looking forward to it. |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one!
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big
12/14 is not bloody BBW!!! "
Not in my mind but Ive seen it |
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one!
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big
12/14 is not bloody BBW!!!
Not in my mind but Ive seen it"
Well if that's the case then it's no wonder guys are moaning when women describing themselves wrong |
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Please put my name down on the list Evie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dam... some people leave it to the last minute |
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Mmm depends on the person for example size 12 is big for a chines person size 12 is skinny for a south African and Mexican,size 12 is plus size in fashion. People have different limets as well it all depends on the individual |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
Don't forget that the club is also open to members.
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one!
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big
12/14 is not bloody BBW!!!
Not in my mind but Ive seen it
Well if that's the case then it's no wonder guys are moaning when women describing themselves wrong "
I'm sorry that you feel this event is not the BBW night you want it to be anymore and I am also sorry that you felt unable to bring this up with me privately rather than slate the guest list on the public forum. Especially as a long time supporter of it.
The night is and always has been for bigger women and admirers of them but it is also open for any one to attend. We don't have sole use of the club. Never have.
I want to make the list inclusive and so will not introduce entry requirements such as weight/BMI/dress size etc. Where would I even begin with such an idea?
I mean, you don't have to prove you're bi to go to a bi night. You just have to be comfortable with it.
The subject of when BBW starts is always subjective and contentious. I've always believed it to be the woman's choice to be honest. Shoot me if you think I'm wrong.
As bigger women we ask for inclusivity in events and many a thread in these forums has descended into nastiness when other groups have tried to exclude us (killing kittens for example). I am not looking to create a BBW version of killing kittens where you have to pass certain criteria to get in. If there is a market for that then i wish someone all the best in setting it up.
These night are just about having fun....who knows, perhaps the skinnier ladies have heard we party like crazy and want some of that atmosphere!
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Yes!! Preach Evie, thank you xxx |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore
Whys that
You only have to flick through the list to see.
This has always been an event for BBW and BBM to feel comfortable at. I'm gonna be shot down or slated but there are other events the more slender ladies can attend to get their fix of chocolate. This event is for bbw's and their admirers
Been saying this for a long time! You aren’t alone in feeling that way
Glad I'm not the only one!
I think the problem is I've seen ladies no bigger than a size 12/14 refer to themselves as BBW and I've also seen guys who state all over there profile including in their user name that they are in to bbws only for them to tell bigger ladies they arent in to woman that big
12/14 is not bloody BBW!!!
Not in my mind but Ive seen it
Well if that's the case then it's no wonder guys are moaning when women describing themselves wrong
I'm sorry that you feel this event is not the BBW night you want it to be anymore and I am also sorry that you felt unable to bring this up with me privately rather than slate the guest list on the public forum. Especially as a long time supporter of it.
The night is and always has been for bigger women and admirers of them but it is also open for any one to attend. We don't have sole use of the club. Never have.
I want to make the list inclusive and so will not introduce entry requirements such as weight/BMI/dress size etc. Where would I even begin with such an idea?
I mean, you don't have to prove you're bi to go to a bi night. You just have to be comfortable with it.
The subject of when BBW starts is always subjective and contentious. I've always believed it to be the woman's choice to be honest. Shoot me if you think I'm wrong.
As bigger women we ask for inclusivity in events and many a thread in these forums has descended into nastiness when other groups have tried to exclude us (killing kittens for example). I am not looking to create a BBW version of killing kittens where you have to pass certain criteria to get in. If there is a market for that then i wish someone all the best in setting it up.
These night are just about having fun....who knows, perhaps the skinnier ladies have heard we party like crazy and want some of that atmosphere!
Anyway.....list closes tomorrow people so if you do want to come, get your name down!"
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"Mmm depends on the person for example size 12 is big for a chines person size 12 is skinny for a south African and Mexican,size 12 is plus size in fashion. People have different limets as well it all depends on the individual "
Size 12 I'd not plus size I'm fashion!! 16/18+ is!! |
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By *ianomanMan
over a year ago
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100% agree Evie. Size and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My OH has in the past been rejected for being both too big and too slim in the same weekend at different events, when she was a size 20! So we loved your inclusive attitude last time we came. And thank you for the time you take to organise. There’s always enough people of all varieties at your events for everyone to find their ideal (if they must), But in my opinion it’s irrelevant because sexy is a state of mind not a certain dress size. If anyone looks at me with fire in their eyes Sunday, I’ll be falling in to them not checking any measurements.... |
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"Mmm depends on the person for example size 12 is big for a chines person size 12 is skinny for a south African and Mexican,size 12 is plus size in fashion. People have different limets as well it all depends on the individual
Size 12 I'd not plus size I'm fashion!! 16/18+ is!!"
Can we please get away from this on here. This is a thread for the guest list. If you want to debate what makes a BBW then you can always start your own thread. Don't really want this one derailing.
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By *ENOMMMan
over a year ago
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Indeed I agree. Let's move on |
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Can you please add me to the list many thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wtf is been said is really a size a problem what’s inside what counts if it’s a size 6,8,10,12.14.16 yad yada yada. Just enjoy the company your with |
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I asked to have my name added to list for the 27th but yet to hear something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my personal point of view, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, should it therefore not matter if you are a size 0 or on some other arbitrary scale a 40 or 4000?
Each of us will like, be attracted to, and get on with what or who we are happy with.
Labels and definitions mean shit when you get down to it so big, small, other don't really matter or can even be definitively defined?
How about getting back to the aim of the event which is to have fun? |
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If you asked to be added on the list in the guest list you are on the list don't worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I be added to the list please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also I’m a noob! When you say dress code is lingerie or a towel, is there somewhere to get changed inside?! C |
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Yes hun there are changing rooms
Could always use our room wink wink lol x |
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"Also I’m a noob! When you say dress code is lingerie or a towel, is there somewhere to get changed inside?! C"
Yes, there is a changing room and you will be given a locker when you arrive. When buying soft drinks or food you put it against your locker number then pay the balance when you leave X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks guys! I’m very nervous...coming alone (pun intended) and it’s my first ever time stepping foot inside a club like this! Eeeep. Is there parking as I will have to drive?! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooh also how much is it for membership?! X |
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If want to send us message hun can tell details all in one message x |
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"Thanks guys! I’m very nervous...coming alone (pun intended) and it’s my first ever time stepping foot inside a club like this! Eeeep. Is there parking as I will have to drive?! X"
There is parking although as it gets busier you may have to park on the street etc. If you park in the main carpark you'll need £5 in change for the pay and display machine but if you year the bottom of the ticket off you get £4 back from the club X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you so much guys! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Missed the last few bbw's so really looking forward to Sunday xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If want to send us message hun can tell details all in one message x"
Message sent x |
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"Thanks guys! I’m very nervous...coming alone (pun intended) and it’s my first ever time stepping foot inside a club like this! Eeeep. Is there parking as I will have to drive?! X"
These events are super friendly, zero pressure & I'm sure you'll settle into the swing of things quickly.
I'd be more than happy to show you around & chat with you whilst you get used to the place
As for parking I would advise getting there early if you want to use the main car park & have £5 in change (you will get £4 refunded by the club when you show ticket stub).
There is another car park 1 minutes walk away & lots of local street parking.
Drop me a message if you want any more information or just to chat the nerves away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys! I’m very nervous...coming alone (pun intended) and it’s my first ever time stepping foot inside a club like this! Eeeep. Is there parking as I will have to drive?! X"
Hi. I tried to PM you but women can’t lol
You are welcome to met up with me and my friends also if you like |
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over a year ago
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"Thanks guys! I’m very nervous...coming alone (pun intended) and it’s my first ever time stepping foot inside a club like this! Eeeep. Is there parking as I will have to drive?! X"
Hey Hun can you pm please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a room booked at the Travelodge in West Brom for that night that is surplus to requirements.
If anyone would like it, please pm me, I'm only looking to recoup some of its value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I be added to the list please x"
Glad you decided to take the plunge following your previous thread on here. I'm sure you'll be fine, and there are plenty of decent people who will help you feel welcome. As for the club, someone there will do a show round so you know what is where |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to wonder whether this is actually a BBW event anymore "
There are far more important things to be wondering about Snow than what size someone is this Sunday.
There is a World Rugby Cup semi final to get through and the Bluebirds are playing the Jacks.
Nervous excited scared but forever believing dreams can come true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jai Ho xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a room booked at the Travelodge in West Brom for that night that is surplus to requirements.
If anyone would like it, please pm me, I'm only looking to recoup some of its value."
I'm interested is this still available? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guest list please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You not attending anymore x |
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