FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Club/Event ads > BMFC (Black Mans FanClub) @ Xtasia 8th June 2018
BMFC (Black Mans FanClub) @ Xtasia 8th June 2018
Jump to: Newest in thread
If you fancy the sound of this and don’t wanna miss out on the fun, get your names down on the guestlist!! You can do so via the BMFC website www.blackmansfanclub.co.uk
OR if you’re an XTASIA member, you can just turn up as usual without being on the guestlist!!
If you can’t make the next one, the BMFC are at XTASIA every 2nd Friday of the month..
See you all there   | |||
 Hotel already booked. | |||
To book, please see the Accommodation page on our web site.
We expect to be hosting the afterparty! | |||
"Pleased to announce our new hotel rooms are also available on a first come, first served basis.
To book, please see the Accommodation page on our web site.
We expect to be hosting the afterparty!"Woohooo!! After party!! | |||
"Pleased to announce our new hotel rooms are also available on a first come, first served basis.
To book, please see the Accommodation page on our web site.
We expect to be hosting the afterparty!"We are already booked at the Prem Inn - you know us - like to plan ahead lol | |||
"Pleased to announce our new hotel rooms are also available on a first come, first served basis.
To book, please see the Accommodation page on our web site.
We expect to be hosting the afterparty!
We are already booked at the Prem Inn - you know us - like to plan ahead lol"Look forward to getting our rooms into your advanced diary, lol. | |||
| |||
"It’s my birthday 8th June - would be rude not to attend!" Hopefully you can have a birthday bang or two  | |||
 | |||
| |||
"Me and Lexi will be there. Love this event and the people who attend. Great music,could do with some food in the night lol,but hey it is what it is "They do sell snacks plus toasties / pizzas if you ask at the bar - big signs everywhere haha | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
"Me and Lexi will be there. Love this event and the people who attend. Great music,could do with some food in the night lol,but hey it is what it is
They do sell snacks plus toasties / pizzas if you ask at the bar - big signs everywhere haha"I've tasted them. That's why i said FOOD and not pizza and toasties. And yes i clocked the signs haha | |||
| |||
"Sooo looking forward to experiencing BMFC @_tasia this Friday! "I dont think you will be disappointed - but i KNOW when they guys see you there, they will be FAR from disappointed | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
"Thanks for the plugs guys, all appreciated. Rooms are now all open, so after party time is on, no issues. Next door seem to be getting a little uptight now with them, so time for a change eh! So, we're offering the rooms to book as hotel rooms for the night, plus room 1 which is a playroom up to 2am, and then we do a full clean down and it becomes a bunk room for anyone wishing to stay over. £15 per head. Will point out though, we can only allow those who are booked in to stay. Sorry, but fire regs are stipulating this. Time to Paaaarrrrttttyyyy. "Sounds good to me. That's a good idea guys | |||
"Yes I had a look at the new rooms and there lush and the massive playroom is awesome.. maybe for next bmfc we can pay £15 each n organise a really fantastic after party...wat do you all think..." I had a tour of the rooms and I was incredibility impressed, very high standard. You know how me and my 'sister' love an after party | |||
| |||
| |||
"Making tonight a chance to tour the rooms, just ask Staff to pop over and have a look around. "Very good idea! | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
See you all again soon | |||
..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point  . Always | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always "Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!! Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!! Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away. | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away. "What’s the situation with the chill out room? | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
What’s the situation with the chill out room? "Situation? It’s just a chill out room. Quieter music, can easily chat, somewhere to sit away from the ‘nightclub atmosphere / dancefloor area’. | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away. "Yes i understand that totally hun. And must be hard to be everywhere at once. Hence we didn't make a big deal of it and just left. I can get a couple asking a male to join them in there,even though there's other rooms but the amount of guys in there did not equal the amount of couples,so even if 1 or 2 were invited by couples the rest surely weren't. But oh well. You live and learn . | |||
| |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
Yes i understand that totally hun. And must be hard to be everywhere at once. Hence we didn't make a big deal of it and just left. I can get a couple asking a male to join them in there,even though there's other rooms but the amount of guys in there did not equal the amount of couples,so even if 1 or 2 were invited by couples the rest surely weren't. But oh well. You live and learn . "Couples shouldn’t be inviting them in anyway. And even if they do the guys should say no!! I’ll speak with the owners and see if we can figure something out to stop it. Bloody rule breakers spoiling something so simple  | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
Yes i understand that totally hun. And must be hard to be everywhere at once. Hence we didn't make a big deal of it and just left. I can get a couple asking a male to join them in there,even though there's other rooms but the amount of guys in there did not equal the amount of couples,so even if 1 or 2 were invited by couples the rest surely weren't. But oh well. You live and learn . "The Couples Only room, is for "Couples Only". Those who arrive as a couple, and are a couple tomorrow. Not for singles and couples to hook up together on the night and use it as a room. If we catch that occurring, we stop it. two "single" members, does not make a couples membership. | |||
| |||
"We’ve had a quick chat and the best thing we can do is REMIND all guests at next BMFC that the couples room is for COUPLES ONLY! It’s a simple rule. Any singles found in there during the evening will be told to leave the club. Hopefully it’ll deter them from going in there. And if not, it’s a hard lesson learned! " | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
Yes i understand that totally hun. And must be hard to be everywhere at once. Hence we didn't make a big deal of it and just left. I can get a couple asking a male to join them in there,even though there's other rooms but the amount of guys in there did not equal the amount of couples,so even if 1 or 2 were invited by couples the rest surely weren't. But oh well. You live and learn .
The Couples Only room, is for "Couples Only". Those who arrive as a couple, and are a couple tomorrow. Not for singles and couples to hook up together on the night and use it as a room. If we catch that occurring, we stop it. two "single" members, does not make a couples membership. "I get what your saying. But how do you police that?!! Are u saying two people who meet on the night in the club can’t enter the couple room ? Or anyone who isn’t married or hold a couples account can’t enter?? | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
Yes i understand that totally hun. And must be hard to be everywhere at once. Hence we didn't make a big deal of it and just left. I can get a couple asking a male to join them in there,even though there's other rooms but the amount of guys in there did not equal the amount of couples,so even if 1 or 2 were invited by couples the rest surely weren't. But oh well. You live and learn .
The Couples Only room, is for "Couples Only". Those who arrive as a couple, and are a couple tomorrow. Not for singles and couples to hook up together on the night and use it as a room. If we catch that occurring, we stop it. two "single" members, does not make a couples membership.
I get what your saying. But how do you police that?!!
Are u saying two people who meet on the night in the club can’t enter the couple room ?
Or anyone who isn’t married or hold a couples account can’t enter??
"Can't really. Unless they pay someone to sit in the chill out area and now and again enter the couples room. Two people who meet on the night aren't a couple are they,so why should they be allowed in there?. I Think it's pretty fair don't you?. Is that your definition of a "couple"?. Someone who meets another single on the night?  | |||
| |||
| |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
What’s the situation with the chill out room?
Situation?
It’s just a chill out room. Quieter music, can easily chat, somewhere to sit away from the ‘nightclub atmosphere / dancefloor area’. "Sorry I should have been more clear. I was only asking because there was a mini gang bang in the corner. I get that people can do what they want it just didn’t seem like a chill out area. | |||
"Easiest thing to do is have a Noah’s Ark rule.... people can enter the room in twos and leave in twos. Then you’re catering to all types of couple wether married or long term relationship/ buddies etc, and won’t get a disproportionate number of single guys in that room (which I’m guessing is the point of that room in the first place)" Noah was a clever man lol. But makes perfect sense. It's about overwhelming numbers of single guys just lurking and wanking. Many were not even playing and were hoping to be invited to play by a couple or two couples | |||
"My question was in response to this : The Couples Only room, is for "Couples Only". Those who arrive as a couple, and are a couple tomorrow. Not for singles and couples to hook up together on the night and use it as a room. If we catch that occurring, we stop it. two "single" members, does not make a couples membership. So are you saying - it’s ok for two singles to arrive as a couple to use the room?? (Obvs as well as couples!!l) But not 2 people who have known each other for years, or maybe months, who meet up in the club that night, to enter the room?? It’s not clear cut - I thought, maybe wrongly it seems, that as long I was in a couples room with a guy then I was following the rule of clubs and their couples room!! " That's not what happened though hun. So while you are right to a certain extent. If the rules state couples as in a relationship why don't people abide by those rules. Because it doesn't suit them? | |||
"Wow!. What a night. One of the best ones I've been to so far ..as always great job ladies. As above said bit too much hungry single guys and i didn't know that you could wear trainers with air bubbles in. So next time it will be air max 95s for me then ha. Single guys all over the couples room which stopped myself,my girl and a couple playing in there and left early to do just that. Someone needs to police the room. We wasn't the only ones who said that either. Apart from that it was an awesome night. Music was tun up. DJ did himself proud this time. Bashment was on point . Always
Appreciate the brilliant feedback. Also appreciate critisism, but if we aren’t told on the night, we can’t do anything about it. You know what I’m like, I woulda turfed the single guys out no problem!!
Everybody that comes KNOW that it’s a couples only room and we do tell newbies that on tours. Regulars know that it’s a Couples only room too. When we do patrols, if we see any single guys in there, they’re told to leave. The rules are there and these are ADULT parties. We expect ADULTS to adhere to the rules, we shouldn’t need to police the room. It’s a huge club and we do try our best to be all over the place throughout the evening. Believe it or not, 90% of the single guys that we have removed from the room in the past say that ‘couples invited’ them in there... Go figure... I know it still doesn’t make it right though!!
Once again, we do need to be told on the night if there are any issues as you know we wouldn’t just ignore anybody with a problem. We’d deal with it straight away.
What’s the situation with the chill out room?
Situation?
It’s just a chill out room. Quieter music, can easily chat, somewhere to sit away from the ‘nightclub atmosphere / dancefloor area’.
Sorry I should have been more clear.
I was only asking because there was a mini gang bang in the corner. I get that people can do what they want it just didn’t seem like a chill out area. "Chill out just means away from the main areas. Don't think it means no sexual activity in there . How you choose to chill out is your business no? | |||
"Easiest thing to do is have a Noah’s Ark rule.... people can enter the room in twos and leave in twos. Then you’re catering to all types of couple wether married or long term relationship/ buddies etc, and won’t get a disproportionate number of single guys in that room (which I’m guessing is the point of that room in the first place) Noah was a clever man lol. But makes perfect sense. It's about overwhelming numbers of single guys just lurking and wanking. Many were not even playing and were hoping to be invited to play by a couple or two couples " Telling ya, I’m a genius | |||
"Easiest thing to do is have a Noah’s Ark rule.... people can enter the room in twos and leave in twos. Then you’re catering to all types of couple wether married or long term relationship/ buddies etc, and won’t get a disproportionate number of single guys in that room (which I’m guessing is the point of that room in the first place) Noah was a clever man lol. But makes perfect sense. It's about overwhelming numbers of single guys just lurking and wanking. Many were not even playing and were hoping to be invited to play by a couple or two couples Telling ya, I’m a genius "Let's not get ahead of ourselves my dear haha | |||
"Easiest thing to do is have a Noah’s Ark rule.... people can enter the room in twos and leave in twos. Then you’re catering to all types of couple wether married or long term relationship/ buddies etc, and won’t get a disproportionate number of single guys in that room (which I’m guessing is the point of that room in the first place) Noah was a clever man lol. But makes perfect sense. It's about overwhelming numbers of single guys just lurking and wanking. Many were not even playing and were hoping to be invited to play by a couple or two couples Telling ya, I’m a genius
Let's not get ahead of ourselves my dear haha" | |||
"Easiest thing to do is have a Noah’s Ark rule.... people can enter the room in twos and leave in twos. Then you’re catering to all types of couple wether married or long term relationship/ buddies etc, and won’t get a disproportionate number of single guys in that room (which I’m guessing is the point of that room in the first place) Noah was a clever man lol. But makes perfect sense. It's about overwhelming numbers of single guys just lurking and wanking. Many were not even playing and were hoping to be invited to play by a couple or two couples Telling ya, I’m a genius
Let's not get ahead of ourselves my dear haha " | |||
"My question was in response to this : The Couples Only room, is for "Couples Only". Those who arrive as a couple, and are a couple tomorrow. Not for singles and couples to hook up together on the night and use it as a room. If we catch that occurring, we stop it. two "single" members, does not make a couples membership. So are you saying - it’s ok for two singles to arrive as a couple to use the room?? (Obvs as well as couples!!l) But not 2 people who have known each other for years, or maybe months, who meet up in the club that night, to enter the room?? It’s not clear cut - I thought, maybe wrongly it seems, that as long I was in a couples room with a guy then I was following the rule of clubs and their couples room!! That's not what happened though hun. So while you are right to a certain extent. If the rules state couples as in a relationship why don't people abide by those rules. Because it doesn't suit them?" So you mean just couples in a “loving relationship” can enter the couple room??? Does that go for every club or just Xtasia!! | |||
| |||
| |||
