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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R  She has not come up with anything yet. Can't we just have a good night without any of drama the forum brings . It won't appeal to everyone. I am however  "
I have no interest in drama! I was just looking for clarification. |
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over a year ago
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going. "
Eh so what's B going to do that night lol |
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going.
Eh so what's B going to do that night lol"
The Onega lol strong and feisty x  |
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"After asking cj she has agreed to have a cougar's night . Dates to be confirmed but it will be in March . At Cjs .. Who's interested in going.
Eh so what's B going to do that night lolThe Onega lol strong and feisty x "
Onega ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I will defo be up for going to that
hopefully she will also do an afternoon for it as well as I work nightshifts  "
Look forward to seeing you there x |
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R "
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x |
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x"
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Lol Well I will be there go along and see what it’s like
Good for cj for trying something different see how it works on the night can always tweak it for future
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R "
I’m sure you’ll pass !  |
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R
I’m sure you’ll pass ! "
Awww, thank you  , but more concerned about the age of the cubs  
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x"
Or it could be a night like kink night which is essentially just a "fun for all" but the name of the night encourages people who are into kink to attend so it kind of also becomes the theme too
... so it might encourage more older women and younger men to approach each other since there will be an assumption they came to that theme night because it intrigues them |
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"So how is that going to work? As in only ladies over a certain age & guys under a certain age? And is proof of age required?
R
Ye i was wondering this too. Is it gonna be another night like couples n single fems night its gonna be hard to regulate x
Or it could be a night like kink night which is essentially just a "fun for all" but the name of the night encourages people who are into kink to attend so it kind of also becomes the theme too
... so it might encourage more older women and younger men to approach each other since there will be an assumption they came to that theme night because it intrigues them "
Thanks for helping to clarify cx |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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Sry but im one of the people who wonder how this night will be achieved/worked to differentiate it from an ordinary open night. Its literally just been proposed as a possibility and someone said will it be an ordinary night but with an added kink which in my view it would not be a cougar and cub night. Will follow thread with interest and wish cj good luck if it goes ahead. |
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I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work
And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide
I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it
Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here  |
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work
And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide
I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it
Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here "
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through |
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work
And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide
I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it
Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through "
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This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped
People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back
You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events
I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled |
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work
And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide
I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it
Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through "
Yep... well said as ever Max  |
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped
People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back
You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events
I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled "
Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?!
If you mean the thread closed... why?
And what makes you think the thread is not going well??
I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin.
Max San lol |
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped
People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back
You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events
I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled
Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?!
If you mean the thread closed... why?
And what makes you think the thread is not going well??
I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin.
Max San lol "
Should have said that I can see the plug being pulled on the event
My point still stands though that the bitching will reach the level it has done in the past when something new has been proposed. The plug gets pulled by the organiser, who can blame them when it's much more hassle than it's worth |
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"This will probably go the way of other night which have been proposed and eventually had to be scrapped
People who aren't in the category for the particular theme proposed will kick and scream till they get there way. It was the exact same with the intended singles nights a couple years back
You rarely if ever see us single guys kicking up a fuss that we can't attend the couples and single female events
I hope I'm wrong as it seems like a great idea but the thread isn't going well and can the plug being pulled
Sorry if I get this wrong but... why should the plug be pulled?!
If you mean the thread closed... why?
And what makes you think the thread is not going well??
I only see a bunch of people having different opinions and expressing them.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yin and Yang comes to mind. Yin can learn from Yang and Yand from Yin.
Max San lol
Should have said that I can see the plug being pulled on the event
My point still stands though that the bitching will reach the level it has done in the past when something new has been proposed. The plug gets pulled by the organiser, who can blame them when it's much more hassle than it's worth"
I see what you mean!
However... Don't think this organisor is going to let themselves be intimidated though  |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
Of course they wont cancel because of differing opinions in a forum. It will all hinge on the format as far as im concerned. How will it be policed ie by age etc. And most importantly what will make it different from an ordinary open night where you just ask what the person is into. I think you WILL get interest in it from females and males alike but GUARANTEED males will outnumber females attending so some males WILL be left dissapointed and will then probably decide to just go back to open nights where they have chances of meeting a wider spectrum of females or couples. This will in turn LOWER the numbers attending cougars only nights. Definitely not meant as a negative viewpoint just my thoughts on what would happen. Its just not such a different night from any other open club night for me. |
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"I didnt ask will it be a kink night ... i just said that running it the same way the kink nights do would be one option that could work
And that was literally just something that i thought about in my head ... nobody advised me what the actual plans are and surely that will be for CJs to decide
I dont understand why a new night has been suggested by people and agreed by cj but a date not even given yet and already everyone is jumping on the negative side of how it may not work ... if you think it will be crap its literally only one night you would have to just not attend ... if its something that would be up your street then go along and give it a try and make a decision about going back after you experienced it
Jees we are a bloody negative lot on here
I agree there are only 2 Clubs in Scotland!
Should not we be supportive of more varied nights?!
Is this not in our interest after all?!
If one can't workout in their heads how it is gonna work (am one of those people) surely that does not mean one has to be negative about it!
Actually the way I see it, it doesn't matter if I can't work it out how it's gonna work, I don't have to organise it! Lol... as long as the person organising it has an idea how they are going to go about it, that's all that's needed!
Hope this makes sense.
Respect to CJs for listening and proposing a night, no dates so far I understand.
You have to try things. If it works it works, if it does not you learn from it! Tweak it or give up the idea!
Hopefully it will be on a night I can go through "
I agree with you Max. As punters, all we need to do it turn up and enjoy. Why worry about the how’s, the what’s and the what ifs.
If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work!
Be fun to trial it though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Glad im not the only one who thinks it will be a fun night . Every night in cjs is good ,but be nice to try something different. I have no idea why the bitching is always going on. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I know i aint the only one who has a fondness for the cubbys |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"Glad im not the only one who thinks it will be a fun night . Every night in cjs is good ,but be nice to try something different. I have no idea why the bitching is always going on. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. I know i aint the only one who has a fondness for the cubbys "
It would be of help if you clarified what constitutes " bitching" . Or is it just any reply or opinion that does not allign with your own chain of thought. Ps im not bitching, i hope, just seeking some clarificaton so as not to end up in the bitching category. |
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