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Hi everyone
Dilemma time.... we are in Torquay tomorrow and trying to decide whether to go to Club Utopia for their throw back evening or Greedy Girls night at Within Temptation.
We do like meeting up with guys so ......
Let us know what you are doing xxx
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile  "
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!! |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!"
Then don’t go it’s quite simple  not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx "
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards! |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards!"
I don’t seem to have you on any of our guest lists, if you would like to send us a private message and explain your issues with our shuttle service that would be appreciated. And like you have kindly pointed out There are other ways of getting to the venue once the car park is full like arranging your own taxi or car share.
Kind regards |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards!
I don’t seem to have you on any of our guest lists, if you would like to send us a private message and explain your issues with our shuttle service that would be appreciated. And like you have kindly pointed out There are other ways of getting to the venue once the car park is full like arranging your own taxi or car share.
Kind regards "
Prefer to keep it in public actually because you might actually do something about it.
The click is alive and real both in the club and in the telegram groups. |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards!
I don’t seem to have you on any of our guest lists, if you would like to send us a private message and explain your issues with our shuttle service that would be appreciated. And like you have kindly pointed out There are other ways of getting to the venue once the car park is full like arranging your own taxi or car share.
Kind regards
Prefer to keep it in public actually because you might actually do something about it.
The click is alive and real both in the club and in the telegram groups. "
You are right the Utopia community is thriving, we are very proud to be building a positive swinging community in the southwest |
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By *tsl32Man
over a year ago
Exeter |
"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards!
I don’t seem to have you on any of our guest lists, if you would like to send us a private message and explain your issues with our shuttle service that would be appreciated. And like you have kindly pointed out There are other ways of getting to the venue once the car park is full like arranging your own taxi or car share.
Kind regards
Prefer to keep it in public actually because you might actually do something about it.
The click is alive and real both in the club and in the telegram groups.
You are right the Utopia community is thriving, we are very proud to be building a positive swinging community in the southwest "
You guys are definitely doing something right, I've met some awesome people through Utopia and my whole experience has been nothing but positive. |
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"You have to be in the Clique to get in.......
I don’t think you need to be in a clique you just need to be more than a silhouette and a hidden profile
Perhaps we prefer to be discrete. Rather than being picked up in a public car park with UTOPIA in massive letters all across it!!
Then don’t go it’s quite simple not sure why people need to bring up the negatives on things that don’t interest them in the first place ??
We find the shuttle works better that being dressed in scantily clad clothing and getting into a taxi with a complete stranger xx
The shuttle where you have to wait in a public car park while scantily clad and the driver lears in, makes smutty remarks and expects a kiss from every lady! I would say a taxi driver has a lot higher standards!
I don’t seem to have you on any of our guest lists, if you would like to send us a private message and explain your issues with our shuttle service that would be appreciated. And like you have kindly pointed out There are other ways of getting to the venue once the car park is full like arranging your own taxi or car share.
Kind regards
Prefer to keep it in public actually because you might actually do something about it.
The click is alive and real both in the club and in the telegram groups.
You are right the Utopia community is thriving, we are very proud to be building a positive swinging community in the southwest
You guys are definitely doing something right, I've met some awesome people through Utopia and my whole experience has been nothing but positive. "
Awww bless.....Your in the Clique, have you got your badge and your unicorn mask yet? |
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By *ingah90Woman
over a year ago
plymouth |
I must say, Club Utopia isn't at all clicky. One of the most welcoming places I've ever been to.
And the shuttle drivers are some of the loveliest people I've ever met! I can't believe someone would slander them in such a disgusting way.
I hope people can make their own decisions about the club and not listen to these horrible lies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always felt safe using the shuttle so much so we asked for there service for another event! As for the clique...there isn't one..everyone is lovely and talks to everyone. Utopian community is the best and I've met some lifelong friends there. Utopia will always be my fav place to visit x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey so just want to say that the driver is absolutely lovely. If women are giving him a kiss it's because they know him and feel happy to do so.
Utopia is a really safe place for all swingers and the only place I feel safe as a single female (nothing wrong with other places but Utopia has super strick rules when it comes to people trying to pressurise or force play). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely feel totally safe at Utopia and using the shuttle service.
Never have I or any of my friends been propositioned or intimidated by the drivers.
It’s a fantastic service and certainly safer than waiting around for a private taxi firm xx |
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We have used the shuttle many times and find the guys respectful and friendly. The shuttle is your choice, we love it and find it convenient, there are plenty of other ways to get to the club.
The club is fantastic , we have been going for a while and don’t feel part of a clique, and haven’t seen any there.
There very hot on unacceptable or weird behaviour and we have seen people asked to leave and be told not come back.
One would assume that the person on the attack in this forum meets those conditions, particularly since the last new verification on their burner account was 15 years ago.
Doesn’t sound like someone who has ever been to Utopia or as mentioned about was probably asked to leave and now bitter ?? Thanks for your review of the club, might have been better to have gone to the owners if you had genuine concerns and not used a fake fab account. |
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We’re not aware of any clique, we turned up our fist night - didn’t even know about the chats and were made to feel welcome. Love this club as they’re strict on the single males they let in - which has eradicated ’the wanking dead’ vibe, which makes being half naked far more comfortable as a woman. The shuttle drivers we’ve met are all lovely - not had any be remotely sleazy or leering. The more social of the regulars are active in the telegram chats, but we’ve always felt included - maybe because we actually get involved ???????
The club has a great community that is totally inclusive and has a great support network.
Long love Utopia! Lol  |
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We’ve been to utopia once and that was on the Saturday just gone. So can’t be accused of being a member of any cliques. However I don’t believe one exists here, I can imagine it would appear that way if you didn’t actively socialise and stood on the side just watching. Nobody owes you anything, it’s for you the newcomer to be active and get involved in the conversations.
We didnt know anyone but you can clearly see there are people who have made connections and built relationships at these party’s. So it’s natural they will be drawn to each other and reacquaint themselves. However they were not a closed shop and was more than happy to welcome any newcomers. I’m not sure that’s a ‘clique’.
We have got into this to make new friends and meet new people, in my opinion It’s for a newcomer to build their own connections and network.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No cliques as far as I’m concerned!
People just get to know each other the more they attend.
I certainly welcomed first timers on Saturday night just gone,love meeting people and showing them around.
As for the shuttle drivers,I attend the club without hubby sometimes and I have never felt uncomfortable or worried for my safety or drivers trying to grope or kiss me!
Note to self “must try harder next time” ha ha ha
Thank you J&G for putting so much time into making Utopia the most amazing club to go to xxx
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By *andK1Couple
over a year ago
plymouth |
We attended _lub utopia for our 4th time and what can I say great vibe, great people, great fun.
We don’t know everyone at the club but we are alway felt welcome and included.
One of the main things that impress us is the ease of getting to and from our hotel via the shuttle service. The drivers are always communicating via the app to prevent you from waiting around and always professional. Keep up the good work guys.
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