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Secrets 19th Nov - FIRST TIMERS!
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By *Mxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Hi! So we are thinking of delving into the world of parties, having only had a couple threesomes, we are quite nervous!
We've seen amazing reviews of Secrets so think it will be a great place to start.
Can anyone tell us about their first time at Secrets and how it went down? Thanks  |
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It was our first secrets party last month, it's a very relaxed and friendly place, think of it a bit like a house party with play rooms!
We enjoyed it so much we are heading back again this month!
If you want to know anything specific feel free to post here or message us directly |
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Hi guys, it's very hard not to have a great time at Secrets. We had our very first swinging experience there and haven't looked back.
Like _ieryfoxes said, think house party with playrooms. It's super friendly and you can pick and choose what you do. If you just want to hang out in the kitchen and chat, that's fine. If you meet someone you click with, take it upstairs. It's so easy going.. large enough that you'll have plenty of couples to choose from, small enough to feel like a house party.
If you want any more detailed advice, drop Mrs E a message and she'll happily talk you through the practicalities. See you there! X |
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By *irtybitCouple
over a year ago
cornwall |
"Some of our best nights have been at Secrets..great venue with great hosts always well attended it's the perfect place to dip your toes in the party scene..Enjoy "
Absolutely, there is no place or party like a Secrets party. That's why people travel hundreds of miles to attend. You guys sound like you have a nice place. Long time since we have had a Blackpool trip, have to try and put that right next year |
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By *irtybitCouple
over a year ago
cornwall |
"Hi! So we are thinking of delving into the world of parties, having only had a couple threesomes, we are quite nervous!
We've seen amazing reviews of Secrets so think it will be a great place to start.
Can anyone tell us about their first time at Secrets and how it went down? Thanks "
Understandably there will be a nervous excitement, just look at it as a house party with friends you don't yet know. Stay fully clothed all night, or not, you would not feel out of place or awkward either way. Take it at your own pace and for us at any new club after the tour round we like to find a place to sit, if possible, and take it all in and talk to each other about your 1st thoughts, Chris or Teresa will certainly offer you a tour round being new. Good communication with each other is always important and goes towards helping setting the early nerves.
Once you feel more relaxed and over the initial nerves don't just sit in a corner, don't be afraid to chat with others. Just because you chat with people there would never be any pressure or expectations. Politely introduce yourselves to people and say it's your 1st time here, the rest will then just naturally flow. It's not all about quick chat and straight into anything. Mingle and you will meet some great people and get to hear some great stories. Try not to have too much nervous numbing alcohol at the start. Too much to early can spoil your experience of what is always a great night/morning |
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By *EandLLCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
"Hi! So we are thinking of delving into the world of parties, having only had a couple threesomes, we are quite nervous!
We've seen amazing reviews of Secrets so think it will be a great place to start.
Can anyone tell us about their first time at Secrets and how it went down? Thanks "
Fellow Secrets newbies here, come and say hi if you spot us |
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By *Mxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
" Understandably there will be a nervous excitement, just look at it as a house party with friends you don't yet know. Stay fully clothed all night, or not, you would not feel out of place or awkward either way. Take it at your own pace and for us at any new club after the tour round we like to find a place to sit, if possible, and take it all in and talk to each other about your 1st thoughts, Chris or Teresa will certainly offer you a tour round being new. Good communication with each other is always important and goes towards helping setting the early nerves.
Once you feel more relaxed and over the initial nerves don't just sit in a corner, don't be afraid to chat with others. Just because you chat with people there would never be any pressure or expectations. Politely introduce yourselves to people and say it's your 1st time here, the rest will then just naturally flow. It's not all about quick chat and straight into anything. Mingle and you will meet some great people and get to hear some great stories. Try not to have too much nervous numbing alcohol at the start. Too much to early can spoil your experience of what is always a great night/morning "
Thanks for such a great reply that's really helpful xxx |
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"Hi! So we are thinking of delving into the world of parties, having only had a couple threesomes, we are quite nervous!
We've seen amazing reviews of Secrets so think it will be a great place to start.
Can anyone tell us about their first time at Secrets and how it went down? Thanks
Understandably there will be a nervous excitement, just look at it as a house party with friends you don't yet know. Stay fully clothed all night, or not, you would not feel out of place or awkward either way. Take it at your own pace and for us at any new club after the tour round we like to find a place to sit, if possible, and take it all in and talk to each other about your 1st thoughts, Chris or Teresa will certainly offer you a tour round being new. Good communication with each other is always important and goes towards helping setting the early nerves.
Once you feel more relaxed and over the initial nerves don't just sit in a corner, don't be afraid to chat with others. Just because you chat with people there would never be any pressure or expectations. Politely introduce yourselves to people and say it's your 1st time here, the rest will then just naturally flow. It's not all about quick chat and straight into anything. Mingle and you will meet some great people and get to hear some great stories. Try not to have too much nervous numbing alcohol at the start. Too much to early can spoil your experience of what is always a great night/morning "
Very good account of Secrets this. It's a great place for New people to have their first 'club/party' experience.
As soon as you get there and inside, you'll be wondering what you were nervous about |
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By *Mxx OP Couple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
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Very good account of Secrets this. It's a great place for New people to have their first 'club/party' experience.
As soon as you get there and inside, you'll be wondering what you were nervous about "
Eeek feeling excited now  |
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