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# # # # # PANDORA HALLOWEEN BALL # # Thread 2. It's looking like a busy night ahead
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys. Tickets are selling fast. Please contact me directly to get your ticket allocated to ensure you can get in. Halloween is arguably our busiest night of the year and we had to turn members away last year as we were full. To avoid this happening again we have tickets available to ensure you get in. Send me a direct message and ill sort the rest |
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"Guys. Tickets are selling fast. Please contact me directly to get your ticket allocated to ensure you can get in. Halloween is arguably our busiest night of the year and we had to turn members away last year as we were full. To avoid this happening again we have tickets available to ensure you get in. Send me a direct message and ill sort the rest"
Got my ticket I'm so excited for this night couldn't get the Sunday night of work lol but I don't care it won't spoil my night lol xxx |
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"We also have ticket and very excited , does anyone will have Halloween costumes , it’s our first club and we never been in such a club during Halloween "
A lot of people dress up and a lot don't it's not mandatory just come in what your comfortable in no one will think bad if you don't dress up xxx look forward to seeing you there xx |
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"Would love to come, would anyone (single or couples) like to meet beforehand for a drink and go together? "
we are hoping to go for a drink beforehand but not 100% sure yet, depends what time we manage to get to the hotel.. will post on here on sat if we think we are going to make it out prior if thats any help |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Just paid for the tickets, two minutes on’t net saves £10 quid,
See you Saturday!!!!!
Can't wait xx"
Ha ha L is going as a witch as well.
So in the likelihood of us playing again, we must find a room with lights…. it’s always good to know which witch is which. (sorry couldn’t resist it). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys. Thank you so much for jumping on this. Already over 150 attendees have paid for tickets and there is still plenty of time yet for that number to go up not to mention walk ins on the night. |
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"Just paid for the tickets, two minutes on’t net saves £10 quid,
See you Saturday!!!!!
Can't wait xx
Ha ha L is going as a witch as well.
So in the likelihood of us playing again, we must find a room with lights…. it’s always good to know which witch is which. (sorry couldn’t resist it)."
Are bringing SEGWAY?  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Just paid for the tickets, two minutes on’t net saves £10 quid,
See you Saturday!!!!!
Can't wait xx
Ha ha L is going as a witch as well.
So in the likelihood of us playing again, we must find a room with lights…. it’s always good to know which witch is which. (sorry couldn’t resist it).
Are bringing SEGWAY? "
We have lost the adapter to charge, we have a big box of adapters and lost that as well.
Will have a serious scout round for it tomorrow.
It would e great to get it out. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Anyone got a sack cart?
L has packed her toy bag and it’s almost too heavy to lift.
However, what is worrying, is her packing it two days before the event, she must have something on her mind. |
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"I am going as a sexy police women in látex boots and he’s my naughty prisoner.
What costumes have yous got picked 
Who’s wearing the vampire teeth?"
I got some vampire teeth lol just Woking how to fit them lol |
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"Anyone got a sack cart?
L has packed her toy bag and it’s almost too heavy to lift.
However, what is worrying, is her packing it two days before the event, she must have something on her mind."
Lol wonder what goodies she has in there today haha xxx cya both sat xxx |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Anyone got a sack cart?
L has packed her toy bag and it’s almost too heavy to lift.
However, what is worrying, is her packing it two days before the event, she must have something on her mind.
Lol wonder what goodies she has in there today haha xxx cya both sat xxx"
Just know the smart meter is going through the roof, everything is on charge.
However I suspect the fishing tackle was first in.
Catch ya soon and can you not incourage her, saying that you are just as bad. Lol
Kisses. |
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"Anyone got a sack cart?
L has packed her toy bag and it’s almost too heavy to lift.
However, what is worrying, is her packing it two days before the event, she must have something on her mind.
Lol wonder what goodies she has in there today haha xxx cya both sat xxx
Just know the smart meter is going through the roof, everything is on charge.
However I suspect the fishing tackle was first in.
Catch ya soon and can you not incourage her, saying that you are just as bad. Lol
Kisses."
Lmao you love it xx |
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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
Hey, myself, my partner and a couple of our friends who aren't on Fab are attending. We've bought our tickets, our friends have not yet. A couple of you might have met us already, I usually have light brown hair but it's currently bright red for Halloween!
I'm coming dressed as a Sailor Scout/Japanese school girl so please feel free to say hi to me if you see me, I love making friends as well as playmates!  |
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"Hey, myself, my partner and a couple of our friends who aren't on Fab are attending. We've bought our tickets, our friends have not yet. A couple of you might have met us already, I usually have light brown hair but it's currently bright red for Halloween!
I'm coming dressed as a Sailor Scout/Japanese school girl so please feel free to say hi to me if you see me, I love making friends as well as playmates! "
My hair is blue please come and say hello!!! Awesome you guys are coming going to be a brilliant night |
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"Hey, myself, my partner and a couple of our friends who aren't on Fab are attending. We've bought our tickets, our friends have not yet. A couple of you might have met us already, I usually have light brown hair but it's currently bright red for Halloween!
I'm coming dressed as a Sailor Scout/Japanese school girl so please feel free to say hi to me if you see me, I love making friends as well as playmates! "
I'll be the one dressed in black with short red hair. You definitely won't miss me x |
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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
I'm in two moods - on the one hand I just would like to find someone who is a really good kisser
....but on the other hand I'm in a certain kind of costume so I clearly want to be taken advantage of  (in an entirely consensual way) |
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Hoping there may be one or two lovely ladies attending tonight who admire and would like to get to know a polite gentleman (Me) with and epic beard (well maintained and soft).
I promise to be a gentleman, unless you ask me not to be |
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"Getting ready now! Please feel free to say hi if you see me in Pandoras! X "
I shall keep my eyes open for you  it would be a pleasure to meet you and hopefully get to know you if you would like.
I look forward to seeing you at the party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely incredible. Officially my first visit to Pandora & definitely the busiest & best run event I've ever been to.
I was the one in a sheer red top looking a lot like a fish out of water for the first hour & a half or so btw. Next time I'm bringing a friend!
Everyone I met was friendly as anything though, and I unexpectedly got invited to play with an amazing couple. And did. Beginner's luck? Lol
The only detractor would be some single guys letting their side down, but tbh I take that for granted everywhere so isn't a reflection on the venue or organisers (who really know how to put on a party!!)
So thanks Pandora & co you made a newbie very happy. |
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"Absolutely incredible. Officially my first visit to Pandora & definitely the busiest & best run event I've ever been to.
I was the one in a sheer red top looking a lot like a fish out of water for the first hour & a half or so btw. Next time I'm bringing a friend!
Everyone I met was friendly as anything though, and I unexpectedly got invited to play with an amazing couple. And did. Beginner's luck? Lol
The only detractor would be some single guys letting their side down, but tbh I take that for granted everywhere so isn't a reflection on the venue or organisers (who really know how to put on a party!!)
So thanks Pandora & co you made a newbie very happy."
I noticed some single guys being a bit too brazen next event I won't be keeping quiet lol they will be told haha |
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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
Hi,
Yeah when it was really busy and I was playing in an area with the curtains drawn (clearly making it obvious that I wasn't wanting an audience), single men kept pulling the curtains wide open and I had to stop what I was doing and ask two men to stop trying to creep in without being invited. I do feel like when it's that busy and there are so many single men there it would be handy to have a staff member on one of the higher floors to help police that if its getting out of hand because it does put you off.
It's not like I don't play publicly when the mood is right so there will be other opportunities to watch me buck naked .
But thank you Pandora for giving me an opportunity to wear my Sailor Moon costume out, I'll be honest I'd wear costumes every time if I could get away with it  . |
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Well as a single guy who went last night I'm going to comment.
Yes there are dickhead they're everywhere.
Couples.. If you don't like single guys in clubs fuck off somewhere else! Go to couples only nights or set your own club up.
Next there were some obnoxious women as well pissed up. I don't enjoy walking around and getting my balls whacked!
Next.. Some of the women were enjoying the guys.
Right that's better rant over. |
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"Well as a single guy who went last night I'm going to comment.
Yes there are dickhead they're everywhere.
Couples.. If you don't like single guys in clubs fuck off somewhere else! Go to couples only nights or set your own club up.
Next there were some obnoxious women as well pissed up. I don't enjoy walking around and getting my balls whacked!
Next.. Some of the women were enjoying the guys.
Right that's better rant over. "
Oh and just to add this is one single guy who won't be going again. |
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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Well as a single guy who went last night I'm going to comment.
Yes there are dickhead they're everywhere.
Couples.. If you don't like single guys in clubs fuck off somewhere else! Go to couples only nights or set your own club up.
Next there were some obnoxious women as well pissed up. I don't enjoy walking around and getting my balls whacked!
Next.. Some of the women were enjoying the guys.
Right that's better rant over. "
I prefer nights that single men are welcome to. I quite often play with single men and was last night. But it is impolite and predatory to try and join people when they have made it clear they are not inviting others to play.Similarly, it is disrespectful not to respect things like closed doors and pulled curtains - and it was single men doing that. Consent and respecting others boundaries is so important in the scene and the majority of people that go understand that and do not feel offended (as you clearly do) when it is pointed out that a small minority didn't act respectfully.
As a woman who goes swinging quite often and plays with both couples and single men, I have a right to say that some single men's behaviour can put you off or feel threatening. And I am sorry that some women were not respecting your bodily autonomy either, that's not cool. |
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"Well as a single guy who went last night I'm going to comment.
Yes there are dickhead they're everywhere.
Couples.. If you don't like single guys in clubs fuck off somewhere else! Go to couples only nights or set your own club up.
Next there were some obnoxious women as well pissed up. I don't enjoy walking around and getting my balls whacked!
Next.. Some of the women were enjoying the guys.
Right that's better rant over.
I prefer nights that single men are welcome to. I quite often play with single men and was last night. But it is impolite and predatory to try and join people when they have made it clear they are not inviting others to play.Similarly, it is disrespectful not to respect things like closed doors and pulled curtains - and it was single men doing that. Consent and respecting others boundaries is so important in the scene and the majority of people that go understand that and do not feel offended (as you clearly do) when it is pointed out that a small minority didn't act respectfully.
As a woman who goes swinging quite often and plays with both couples and single men, I have a right to say that some single men's behaviour can put you off or feel threatening. And I am sorry that some women were not respecting your bodily autonomy either, that's not cool. "
I don't do that. I take the time to talk to someone if they're not interested fine. But seems we're all tarred with the same brush. Plenty of couples are disrespectful as well. |
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A chatted to quite few couples and went into room with couple of them
Great experience for me
Good disco with sorted tunes
For single gent it was good event
Anyone I met please vertication me
Many thanks
On the down side I think got massive speeding coming my way from m62 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't do that. I take the time to talk to someone if they're not interested fine. But seems we're all tarred with the same brush. Plenty of couples are disrespectful as well. "
Exactly! Anyone stepping out of line should be dealt with accordingly. But wouldn't it be nice if everyone just followed the simple rules in the first place?
It's not just a case of all single guys, just like not all couples are pure as the driven snow.
Anyone can have a part to play here - we can't rely on events having staff everywhere. We can be etiquette police too. |
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As a single gentleman who was at the party on Saturday night I can honestly say that I was disgusted with the behaviour of a LOT of the other single men there for several reasons,
1) not dressing down properly if at all.
2) constantly following couples and single ladies all night excepting to play with them without having the decency to talk to them socially and treating them like people and not jus a piece of meat
3) constantly trying to open a closed/locked door to get in. Its locked because they want some privacy.
4) I saw 1 lad basically climb all over a single lady just to sit next her without asking politely if he could join her and spilt his drink on her (no repect)
5) men trying to invite themselves and join in with other people playing without even asking if they can join or being invited.
So, for any of you men who can't show respect, have some manners and follow the club rules and etiquette, just do everyone else a massive favour, FUCK OFF. you're not welcome or wanted.
I personally enjoy the social aspect of our Lifestyle and never expect to play with anyone. If I'm invited to play then its a bonus to my evening.
Rant over. |
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"As a single gentleman who was at the party on Saturday night I can honestly say that I was disgusted with the behaviour of a LOT of the other single men there for several reasons,
1) not dressing down properly if at all.
2) constantly following couples and single ladies all night excepting to play with them without having the decency to talk to them socially and treating them like people and not jus a piece of meat
3) constantly trying to open a closed/locked door to get in. Its locked because they want some privacy.
4) I saw 1 lad basically climb all over a single lady just to sit next her without asking politely if he could join her and spilt his drink on her (no repect)
5) men trying to invite themselves and join in with other people playing without even asking if they can join or being invited.
So, for any of you men who can't show respect, have some manners and follow the club rules and etiquette, just do everyone else a massive favour, FUCK OFF. you're not welcome or wanted.
I personally enjoy the social aspect of our Lifestyle and never expect to play with anyone. If I'm invited to play then its a bonus to my evening.
Rant over."
I absolutely love this! |
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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
"As a single gentleman who was at the party on Saturday night I can honestly say that I was disgusted with the behaviour of a LOT of the other single men there for several reasons,
1) not dressing down properly if at all.
2) constantly following couples and single ladies all night excepting to play with them without having the decency to talk to them socially and treating them like people and not jus a piece of meat
3) constantly trying to open a closed/locked door to get in. Its locked because they want some privacy.
4) I saw 1 lad basically climb all over a single lady just to sit next her without asking politely if he could join her and spilt his drink on her (no repect)
5) men trying to invite themselves and join in with other people playing without even asking if they can join or being invited.
So, for any of you men who can't show respect, have some manners and follow the club rules and etiquette, just do everyone else a massive favour, FUCK OFF. you're not welcome or wanted.
I personally enjoy the social aspect of our Lifestyle and never expect to play with anyone. If I'm invited to play then its a bonus to my evening.
Rant over."
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Sadly you might all be preaching to the converted.
I looked back at the party night on the website and the issue is that it was a non member night.
If you look at what membership needs for Pandoras (for single guys) there is a 48 hr cooling off period, there is the expense itself and there is a 3 month probation period. Not to mention all new members will get a tour where the rules are laid out.
Also they have to be members of fab and verified.
On Saturday it was pay £40 and your in.
No cooling off, no threst of loosing membership for poor behaviour, no fab verifications required.
So I suspect there was a larger number of non swingers or newbies who had no idea of swinging (yes this will mean some couples too but mostly single men) certainly the locker thief had hedged bets and thought £40 was a good price to pay to try and make some money.
So as I say we may be talking to the wrong people. A normal night would have members who know all this were as last Saturday was unfiltered. |
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"Sadly you might all be preaching to the converted.
I looked back at the party night on the website and the issue is that it was a non member night.
If you look at what membership needs for Pandoras (for single guys) there is a 48 hr cooling off period, there is the expense itself and there is a 3 month probation period. Not to mention all new members will get a tour where the rules are laid out.
Also they have to be members of fab and verified.
On Saturday it was pay £40 and your in.
No cooling off, no threst of loosing membership for poor behaviour, no fab verifications required.
So I suspect there was a larger number of non swingers or newbies who had no idea of swinging (yes this will mean some couples too but mostly single men) certainly the locker thief had hedged bets and thought £40 was a good price to pay to try and make some money.
So as I say we may be talking to the wrong people. A normal night would have members who know all this were as last Saturday was unfiltered. "
I've just seen that on the website about single males. It's new as it wasn't there when we did our membership online 2 months ago. |
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have to agree feel the issue is the open door policy and not being members or verified prior. We are non members (although happy to become a member) was our first time there on halloween, although we loved how big the club was and had a great night we never played much as have to agree with it not feeling great upstairs. we tried to find the couples room but assumed there wasent one as was single males in every room we could see. later found out where the couples room is but makes sense why we never realised as it was full of single males standing around.
Hasent completely put us off we will visit again but will defo not visit on a open door night as i feel the nights ran by clubs that do vet there single males or keep it to members only have a much better vibe. (not against single males as know its not you all just a select few that wont even be on fab) Have to say there where a few very polite single males there so hats off to you polite guys, it gets you a long way. |
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oh forgot to say we where the one with wings and the dr, if you chatted to us say hi, or if you are interested in maybe meeting up on another club night drop us a message.
thats guys.... despite it all i had a fab halloween xx |
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"oh forgot to say we where the one with wings and the dr, if you chatted to us say hi, or if you are interested in maybe meeting up on another club night drop us a message.
thats guys.... despite it all i had a fab halloween xx"
It was great chatting with you, had a great night x (we were the playboy bunnies ) |
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"oh forgot to say we where the one with wings and the dr, if you chatted to us say hi, or if you are interested in maybe meeting up on another club night drop us a message.
thats guys.... despite it all i had a fab halloween xx
It was great chatting with you, had a great night x (we were the playboy bunnies )"
Hi Bunnies, great talking to you guys, yous where a great set of bunnies |
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look forward to meeting you both x
