Hi lovelies were a fairly new couple only had two couples meets but we been thinking of doing a club at some point so trying to get general feel to what clubs seem to be a good atmosphere and we would be comfortable in |
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Have a look on the club reviews page. Finding a club you’re comfortable with is essential, but you also need to choose an event that sounds like it’s a good fit.
The club reviews are a good indication, but I’d also recommend doing your own research - check out the different club websites & see what attracts you.
There are lots of clubs to choose from in the North West, and on threads like this, people usually recommend their favourite club, but everyone is different!
Also, don’t just go with one - try a few & judge for yourselves!
Ultimately, there’s no obligation to do anything in a club - even if you just have a drink, socialise, chat & go off together to play. So there’s no risk to going along & trying it out! 
Clubs are great fun & the social side is fantastic - hope you enjoy! 
M x |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
As said above look at club pages dont go by the reviews you make your own opinion up then .clubs are a great way of meeting people and is a great social. Whichever you try.enjoy
Downside at the moment is that they prob quiet due to the coronavirus . Not stopping us tonight though .k |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
Ad was mentioned above, it's more about choosing the 'right' event for your first couple of visits.
There are lots of amazing clubs around, each offer different things for different people and everyone will have a preference.
But the wrong event at the best club will be a terrible experience.
And by that, you mentioned getting a feel and checking out the atmosphere.
So maybe something a little more relaxing and social? Possible midweek (your time permitting) as these tend to be a little less full. (Sometimes people don't want it to be too busy).
With all clubs, you (outside the rules of the club) set your own rules. So being in a club doesn't mean you have to or will do anything! You can sit around chatting, checking the atmosphere and maybe having a little wander and see what takes place.
Other events may be a lot more focused on dressing down and a little more frantic towards playing (nothing wrong with that) or you might stumble to BDSM theme which might not interest you or could scare you off.
You also on your profile have not looking for single guys, so again look for an event that is couples only. Well most are couples and single ladies only, so no single men.
The hardest part is stepping through the door for that first time...
Once you've done it once, you'll realise it's a relaxing laid back atmosphere of like minded people there to enjoy themselves however they want.
Then you can go explore other clubs or other events that might take you on new journeys.
Check out the club pages and reviews but also upcoming events and don't be afraid to tell people you are new and just checking things out.
Hopefully you make it along at some point and enjoy yourselves.
Have fun.
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Thank you for all the advice you lovely people really putting our minds at ease with the advice think the midweek visit seems a good option to have a first visit and see what it is like in a club with it been less busy xx |
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