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We’re contemplating visiting a club soon and not sure how it all works? We’re only looking to play with another girl , is there some kind of etiquette we should know about? Was planning on just having a drink in the bar and see how things go....as you can imagine we’re both really REALLY nervous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're new to the scene too but once we managed to get thorough the door (after sitting in the car for ages deliberating) it was a nice and relaxed experience. You will most likely be shown around the venue by the owners and made to feel at ease.
It's best not to go with any expectations really. |
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On my first visit I just had a tour. I went back the next night and all I did was get into the hot tub. Just getting naked and talking to strangers who were also naked was enough.
I didn't play until my 3rd visit.
My friend only got as far as the hot tub when I took him for the first time.
Just seeing the place and what goes on is sufficiently interesting for a first visit. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I just think of it as a friendly pub or nightclub experience where people are more liberated. Ask for a tourism the venue and be friendly and approachable. It is enough on your first night just to be there, you can always go back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would recommend going along to your local club and they will show you around. There may be other new members to talk to but please don't sit on your own and think that a lady will come and talk to you. You may not play on your first visit and use it as an experience. Try to talk to people and mix. Just because you are talking doesn't mean you will have to play. Always remember no means no . There's never any pressure to do that in a club. Hope you have fun. Please feel free to inbox me for club recommendations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’re contemplating visiting a club soon and not sure how it all works? We’re only looking to play with another girl , is there some kind of etiquette we should know about? Was planning on just having a drink in the bar and see how things go....as you can imagine we’re both really REALLY nervous "
If you wanted to stay local la chambre have a social on Saturday, might be an idea to break the club cherry so to speak x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were all newbies at one point. The nerves are normal. Once you go you’ll wonder why you were ever nervous.
- Enjoy it
- Remember it’s all for your pleasure
- Don’t put pressure on yourselves
- No expectations
Have fun guys xx |
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"Read the reviews, thanks for posting them.
Never been to a club and looking to go but have cold feet.
Would not mind going with someone who has been, looking for a companion to go with?"
You can come with me next time I go to Kestrels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
Any advice to a single lady visiting a club by herself, it would be much appreciated....
Very nervous ??xxx"
So wish we lived closer, would love the chance to escort a lovely single to a club and help with any nerves |
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By *ree angelWoman
over a year ago
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Hi I am thinking about visiting a club in the near future probably club F but not with my partner as he is a bit nervous ,so going to go with my sister but she is going to meet with men and I am going to meet with women put only identification is a expired passport birth certificate and utility bills as don't drive would that be enough to get in the club |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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"only identification is a expired passport birth certificate and utility bills as don't drive would that be enough to get in the club "
Best to contact the club and ask them. There's a phone number in the 'club reviews' section.
It's a great club. I hope you can sort something out |
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