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1000 men to the 1 woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

Are you offering to get them in?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

Maybe men need to stop scaring the women away as just as many women and men join. But more men are active

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By *acky RacersCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

maybe if the men here were more appealing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Erm...will carefully spread the word to some females haha

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Try Tinder, match.com etc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

You'll be fine op, it'd take you quite a bit of your life just to fuck those of us here, without more joining

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life is a competition...if it was easy it wouldnt be fun!

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes but when you are in the 1000 and you end up meeting the 1 it’s worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Snooze you loose pal

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Actually if you count the 'active' guys on here who have established profiles, go to parties, don't already have several single profiles and don't have both single and couple profiles, you will find that it's not as bad as you think.

There are guys who create several accounts, guys who jump on and off, create new names, last 4 weeks then get off, play as singles and couples and a shed load of keyboard warriors who never meet and treat the site as wank fodder.

The actual 'real' guys who nurture their profiles, attend clubs and parties, get well verified, are in it for the long haul, spend time getting to know people properly, take part in interesting forum discussion and don't treat this place like a knocking shop are few and far between.

Which one are you??????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Bravo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe if some men left,evened up the numbers.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Great post looking forward to OPs answer!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish it was. More like 2000 to 1 or possibly more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Great post looking forward to OPs answer! "

Yep great answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Only roughly 2% of fab use the forums.

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By *n With LifeCouple over a year ago

Hadley Wood

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?"

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple over a year ago

Merseyside

Which one are you??????

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?"

Imagine if someone said that about the women of fab. Would be carnage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If more guys chose to actually read the forum rather than just stick up ANOTHER..... “whats wrong with my profile, or “what am i doing wrong” thread

Well research what swinging is and not just think “oh i know ill knock up a half assed profile cause thats sure to get me some poon tang”

WRONG all it does is make couples and single fems more guarded and more likely to delete the messages, because when you've taken the time to understand how this site is “supposed” to work you end up gaining a 6th sense and can spot a fake or a person that has no care who or how they fuck JUST BY THE MESSAGE AND PROFILE TEXT!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

It is when you factor in the fake blokes who pretend to be women

This is just a bit of fun to me, there's a big wide world out there full of beautiful women too

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By *acky RacersCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?

Imagine if someone said that about the women of fab. Would be carnage

people do...all the time...

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By *heshire DilfMan over a year ago

Cheshire

Which one are you??????

Only roughly 2% of fab use the forums. "

Defo true. I see the same names over and over on the forums. Makes you wonder how (clubs aside) anyone fosters any kind of relationship which would lead to a meet or otherwise, who doesn't use them.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Which one are you??????

Perfectly put

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Only roughly 2% of fab use the forums.

Defo true. I see the same names over and over on the forums. Makes you wonder how (clubs aside) anyone fosters any kind of relationship which would lead to a meet or otherwise, who doesn't use them. "

I find fab in general away from the forums works better for me

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By *and2aCouple over a year ago

aberdeen

It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am trying to get a swinging partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am not 1 who as lots of accounts. Just the 1 account. Changed my name recently as my original 1 U thought was a bit boring. I am looking for a partner partner to go the club's with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am not 1 who as lots of accounts. Just the 1 account. Changed my name recently as my original 1 U thought was a bit boring. I am looking for a partner partner to go the club's with. "

If your account was boring why not edit it rather than make a new one??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Try Tinder, match.com etc

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Erm nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Life is a competition...if it was easy it wouldnt be fun!"
It would be more fun ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From your responses and your profile to us you come across as a little “dickish” maybe soften your approach and you may have better luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am not 1 who as lots of accounts. Just the 1 account. Changed my name recently as my original 1 U thought was a bit boring. I am looking for a partner partner to go the club's with.

If your account was boring why not edit it rather than make a new one?? "
I said my username

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From your responses and your profile to us you come across as a little “dickish” maybe soften your approach and you may have better luck"
Not at all just how do you expect me to respond to replies like " use Tinder etc ".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Actually if you count the 'active' guys on here who have established profiles, go to parties, don't already have several single profiles and don't have both single and couple profiles, you will find that it's not as bad as you think. I am looking for a female partner to eventually go the club's with. I don't just want to fuck 1 straight away. I would rather get to know the female first and form a sort of friendship etc

Which one are you??????

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

Women OP, women. They could outnumber the men by 1000:1 and not one of them would want to fuck you. Get it?

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By *inky PinguWoman over a year ago

My Igloo!

Sounds like a fun gangbang

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?"

agreed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They may be high in numbers but not in quality..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They may be high in numbers but not in quality.. "

That's a bit cruel!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They may be high in numbers but not in quality.. "
hahaha yu saying I am ugly ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?

agreed "
So am I not appealing ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it."
so what opening line roughly appeals

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals"

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a few million threads on it with advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest."

Erm that's not my post it's a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's a few million threads on it with advice."
Aww thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

Maybe men need to stop scaring the women away as just as many women and men join. But more men are active "

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest.

Erm that's not my post it's a reply"

I know, I've been using these forums for nearly ten years, I know how they work. My comment is a reply to your comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest.

Oh right. Totally understand you there like ??????

Erm that's not my post it's a reply

I know, I've been using these forums for nearly ten years, I know how they work. My comment is a reply to your comment."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most. "

Who said it was a shag site as I certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????"

I said it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that..."

I knowwww it's not a shag site. Oh and thanks for letting me off. But I know it's not a shag site. I actually speak to a few females on here and not 1 are the conversations saying " hey fancy a fuck ". There's everything on here. Just because it says Fab Swingers does not mean swingers are the only people using the site as you probably all know.I have noticed a lot of the long-term users seem to speak down to the new users. Not saying you btw. They can actually be bad mannered simply because they have been on here a long time.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Shocking news.

Is the Pope still catholic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Shocking news.

Is the Pope still catholic?"

Probably the most politely reply so far haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

I think it depends on your personal definition of swinger

I think the longer you’re here, the more you hear the same stuff over and over and sometimes that can lead to a sharp tongue. The forum regulars are mostly a nice bunch so keep up with your posts and get to know them

Oh and my original message wasn’t for you but to the guy who answered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

I think it depends on your personal definition of swinger

Oh and my original message wasn’t for you but to the guy who answered."

Well you have been rather nice to me so I suppose I should say thanks for not biting my head off ???? And I totally understand the veteran users get fed up of this and but example I get a lot of messages off Tv's and Bi lads and have had gays messaging filth. I am 100% straight but I don't bite there head off or get anniyed. I actually laugh and politely wave them off haha x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I just personally sick of reading messages where men talk to me like i am an disposable object. They put very little effort in their profiles or intro conversation. I'm not asking for paragraphs. Just afew lines to show they are well mannered and genuinely interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just personally sick of reading messages where men talk to me like i am an disposable object. They put very little effort in their profiles or intro conversation. I'm not asking for paragraphs. Just afew lines to show they are well mannered and genuinely interested in me. "

I get you and that's only right to expect that. So good on you

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By *eralPete1Man over a year ago

marsworth

Stop worrying about it . It is what it is and it's been this way since the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Stop worrying about it . It is what it is and it's been this way since the start "

It takes a lot for me to worry mate. This post was not me saying " shit man I am worrying here as there ain't enough women ". I was just saying. I have even had stuoid replies sayin join Tinder etc They are exactly the same

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?

agreed So am I not appealing ??"

Didn't say you personally, its a generalisation

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

maybe if the men here were more appealing?

agreed So am I not appealing ??

Didn't say you personally, its a generalisation"

I get you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

I think it depends on your personal definition of swinger

Oh and my original message wasn’t for you but to the guy who answered."

Why you letting me off? I said it wasn't a shag site

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

I think it depends on your personal definition of swinger

Oh and my original message wasn’t for you but to the guy who answered.

Why you letting me off? I said it wasn't a shag site

Does it matter why she is letting you off ??? Least she ain't bickering or being start and is being ok and not over sensitive about the whole thing. Sorry I even posted anythin ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op I'd give in If I were you, you're not helping yourself lol.

As someone has said, swinging is primarily for couples, it's not a glorified shag site for most.

Who said it was a shag site as I

And she didn't even say it to you. She said it me because I am new so try keep up !

certainly didn't. Also there's lots of M/F just looking for fun with the opposite sex and many others seeking this and that. Not just swingers are on here. ????

I said it

I’ll let you off as you’re relatively new. Fab isn’t a shag site (well unless that’s all you want) it offers a lot more than that...

I think it depends on your personal definition of swinger

Oh and my original message wasn’t for you but to the guy who answered.

Why you letting me off? I said it wasn't a shag site

Does it matter why she is letting you off ??? Least she ain't bickering or being start and is being ok and not over sensitive about the whole thing. Sorry I even posted anythin ffs"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was hoping this was gonna be some mental gangbang thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was hoping this was gonna be some mental gangbang thread!

Muuuu this a swingers site blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

Maybe men need to stop scaring the women away as just as many women and men join. But more men are active "

And profiles like yours can scare use lads of. Not being being funny but fuck me , not asking for much are ye haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

Maybe men need to stop scaring the women away as just as many women and men join. But more men are active "

And profiles like yours can scare us lads of. Not being being funny but fuck me , not asking for much are ye haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Try Tinder, match.com etc

Bethefuckhave

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By *entlecaressMan over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

What have I got from fab in the last 3 years.

Great open conversations with people who talk openly about sexual matters.

Great friends who I meet on line, in clubs and in the bedroom.

Lots of fascinating topics in the forums.

It's fulfilled all I expected why has it worked for me, people have said, because

What you see is what you get an honest open guy who isn't just trying to get his leg over.

One who doesn't abuse others or be disrespectful.

Says happy fabbing to people who reject him and yes there are a lot who do.

Is responsive and who turns up when they say they will.

I believe they are a lot of guys like me and there the ones who just enjoy thier fab time. The silent ones with happy faces.

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By *orticiaWoman over a year ago

Wirral

"I am not 1 who as lots of accounts. Just the 1 account. Changed my name recently as my original 1 U thought was a bit boring. I am looking for a partner partner to go the club's with. "

You’re going about that wrong.

Don’t look for a partner to go to clubs with. Go to clubs as a single guy & meet up with real people who you can get to know & build friendships with. Much easier that way!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner."

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"
its only 2.5:1 but the problem is all the guys that think with their dicks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I was hoping this was gonna be some mental gangbang thread!

Muuuu this a swingers site blah blah blah"

And no reason why singles can't swing. Where would all the couples be without the single males and single females for their 3somes lol?! Or would they just borrow husbands and wives?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

Regardless of why or what people are on here for its people like you with shit attitudes scare people off. Try be a bit more welcoming. If ye cant manage a simple thing then keep off my post as can't doing with ye shitty replies .Thanks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

Wow, I tried to stick up for you then. I won't bother commenting again. My profile is geared towards helping people to get meets and I spend time helping them with cam veris to get them started here. Oh, and I also hold socials where single men are welcome to attend, but I'm guessing none of those things are helpful at all then?! Each to their own lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus man....you've got one pretty shitty attitude towards folk. Is it any wonder why you're getting no luck. There could be 1000 women to 1 man on here and you'd be shit out of luck with your attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

"
if you ever need help or advice I'm here for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, your replies in this thread and the direct messages you sent me show that you are the one with the shitty, entitled attitude. That's what's holding you back. Nobody else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, your replies in this thread and the direct messages you sent me show that you are the one with the shitty, entitled attitude. That's what's holding you back. Nobody else."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

Regardless of why or what people

are on here for its people like

you with shit attitudes scare people off. Try be a bit more welcoming. If ye cant manage a simple thing then keep off my post as can't doing with ye shitty replies .Thanks

I think I have got messages crossed when people are replying to other peoples comments to be honest . I thought they was replying to me but they wasn't they wasnt. They was replying to others

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple over a year ago

warrington

Which one are you??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to"

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

known many many women join only to leave because of abuse on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on."

This ^^^^^

Think you have probably made a lot of peoples block list with how you have portrayed yourself as a person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1000 men to 1 woman on here and I still have to go to clubs to get some fun

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

I know, it's awesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Bravo

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????

I know, it's awesome

Hahahha behave. It's ok for you women haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on."

How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on.

How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you"

Yip...well done. Prove me right!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on.

How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you"

Unfortunately, most will judge by posts and block/message accordingly, or not as the case may be. I do for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Apologies if I have offended anyone I genuinely havent meant to

I dont think you've offended anyone as such but you've shown your true colours.

Try taking advice and help. If you dont agree with it, say nothing and move on.

How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you

Unfortunately, most will judge by posts and block/message accordingly, or not as the case may be. I do for sure.

Oh well. Each to thier own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you"

You can actually tell quite a lot about a person by the way they respond on here. I wasn't insulting to you in any way and it still managed to get your back up. Not the sort of person I'd trust to meet.

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner."

This!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"How amazing you seem to be able to judge just by a post. That's so amazing of you

The forums are a good way of seeing people how they really are sometimes, some great threads that are filter threads too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 13/02/20 21:23:05]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our own personal opinion is that you seem to exude arrogance and that is a big off put for a-lot of people on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples. "

Thanks. Nice to get a reply for once that's not having a go of me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 13/02/20 21:33:54]

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples. "

You are right. I don't want a partner. I came out of a hor4ible relationship 6 months ago and decided I want to stay single, but also go on try things I have never done before and cross bounderies, but at the same time I don't want to get into a relationship and also don't just want to pick any random girl up if that makes sense.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples.

Makes perfect sense. Give yourself a break.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples.

I think you've blown your chances on this site. Or at least for anyone that has happened to read this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you've blown your chances on this site. Or at least for anyone that has happened to read this thread."

Tbf it might not be a high percentage of users who go on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our preference (atm) is single guys but slowly edging towards couples, unfortunately the decent guys are far outnumbered by the arrogant “fuck me now” assholes and think that women(as part of a couple) are easy lays and connection doesn't matter, as we've said before you eventually grow a 6th sense and can tell by wording, and responses what kind of guy that person may be (of course women too).

The forum is a great scope and just by how someone writes in a thread can determine the kind of guy you may well be.

You though, would not be on our list of potentials just by the way you come across (not saying we would be on yours either just to add balance)

Its a tough gig here for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do people not use 'dating' apps to find friend with benefits sort of deals? I don't really use them, but that might be a better option for you.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Do people not use 'dating' apps to find friend with benefits sort of deals? I don't really use them, but that might be a better option for you."

I think some people do, as a lot of them seem more geared towards that now rather than ltr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do people not use 'dating' apps to find friend with benefits sort of deals? I don't really use them, but that might be a better option for you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

also don't just want to pick any random girl up if that makes sense.

Do people not use 'dating' apps to find friend with benefits sort of deals? I don't really use them, but that might be a better option for you."

Not really. They want a relationship eventually

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

Which one are you??????

Only roughly 2% of fab use the forums. "

It's not really about them using forums i feel you can tell a genuine respectful guy by his profile and the message he sends showing he has read the ladies profile and understands it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not really. They want a relationship eventually"

I suppose you can make it clear from the offset that isn't an option.

However, very genuinely, try not to close yourself off from chances with people just because you had a shit time in your last relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not really. They want a relationship eventually

I suppose you can make it clear from the offset that isn't an option.

However, very genuinely, try not to close yourself off from chances with people just because you had a shit time in your last relationship."

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By *assionatepoetsCouple over a year ago

Highbridge

Perhaps the OPs profile containing comments like

"My attitude is " fuck reading words, come and find out for yourself". "

Might be making it seem like a thousand to one chance of hooking up with anyone.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They may be high in numbers but not in quality..

That's a bit cruel!"

Spot on though, it’s like some of them have never been socialised as kids lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah, it's about 15 men to each woman. Given that a lot of the blokes on here are unsatisfactory, for a man that understands ladies Fab can be an absolute breeze?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples.

I think you've blown your chances on this site. Or at least for anyone that has happened to read this thread."

Why has he blown his chances he has said nothing offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never said he said anything offensive. His attitude is stinking though and I'm not the only person to see that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

This!

Not everyone wants a partner, why should he have to get one? Swinging is no longer exclusive to couples. Lots are looking for single females/males as well as couples.

I think you've blown your chances on this site. Or at least for anyone that has happened to read this thread.

Why has he blown his chances he has said nothing offensive. "

I aint intended on pissin anyone off. I don't know if it's my Scouse mannerism or what ? But certainly ain't once intend on upsetting anyone

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By *uicy jugsWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Perhaps if men didnt try to use as a free prostitute site and actually used the site to swing they would get more positive results ... so many guys ask 4 a meet but only one on one they dont want to go to parties or clubs ...or neet with other couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps if men didnt try to use as a free prostitute site and actually used the site to swing they would get more positive results ... so many guys ask 4 a meet but only one on one they dont want to go to parties or clubs ...or neet with other couples"

IMO there's nothing wrong with some single men not wanting to go to parties or clubs, that sort of scene isn't for everyone. But it is probably the fastest way to get verified, which in turn gives a better chance at meeting.

The ones who send 'meet now?' are ridiculous chancers though, I agree.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Nah, it's about 15 men to each woman. Given that a lot of the blokes on here are unsatisfactory, for a man that understands ladies Fab can be an absolute breeze?

Exactly! You charmer.

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By *eachy123Woman over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bloody hell I give up

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By *uicy jugsWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

The ones who send 'meet now?' are ridiculous chancers though, I agree."

Not all swinging goes on in clubs and parties granted but swinging does tend to need more than one on one ... there are enough dating sites available for free for those who just want notches on bedpost

Every gen swinger i have met so far has been naughty but well.mannered and not pushy ..

every non swinger / i only meet one on one and at the last minute guy gets irrate when u turn them down like its their right to demand u meet that night without seeing a pic of them or chatting hence the ref to free prostitute etc ... luckiky i have met some very genuine guys couples etc who gives me the confidence to know those who misuse the site soon leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The ones who send 'meet now?' are ridiculous chancers though, I agree."

Think the only way this site would return to being a “swinging site” and not a fuck site would be to make it fully subscription only, we would welcome that for sure but logistically prob impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im not saying anymore. No matter what I say it's like someone is ready to pounce

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By *esparate danMan over a year ago

glasgow

You should try Caracas

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Not all guys, I talk to a fair few who have no motive other than to chat.

You have to understand clubs aren't for everyone, choose those who are into them.. I do.

Everyone swings in their own way & you can't say all guys use this like a free prostitute site as many don't at all. There are lots of chancers but there are equally lots of decent guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am not 1 who as lots of accounts. Just the 1 account. Changed my name recently as my original 1 U thought was a bit boring. I am looking for a partner partner to go the club's with.

If your account was boring why not edit it rather than make a new one?? "

Did you not read properly as I am sure if I didn't read somethin properly on here you would pounce and attack. I said my username

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From your responses and your profile to us you come across as a little “dickish” maybe soften your approach and you may have better luck"

I don't think it's me whos little dickish is it really ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds like a fun gangbang

Well it would be for a female haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They may be high in numbers but not in quality.. "

I don't know. Not sure if that was aimed at me or what haha. I guess you can't be everyones cup of tea x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest."

Excuses meee !!! I aint said that. Someone else said it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

if you ever need help or advice I'm here for you

Thanks. I appreciate it

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"At least half of that thousand men send 'hi' or 'fuk now' as their opener though, so the odds aren't that bad if you think about it. so what opening line roughly appeals

That is exactly why you are not getting any interest.

Excuses meee !!! I aint said that. Someone else said it

The bit you wrote was “so what opening line roughly appeals” which was in reply to another poster and I then said that is exactly why you’re not getting any interest.

You have shown many times throughout this thread that you’re simply not following where you’ve quoted and replied to someone and accused others of doing the same.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

if you ever need help or advice I'm here for you

Thanks. I appreciate it

He wasn’t saying that to you, he was replying to the previous bit written by another poster.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confuscious say:
"warrior who attains victory in pigsty still come out smelling like shit""

I may have paraphrased slightly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blocked over 350 so far.

If folk were much nicer I guess more meets would happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a swinging site not a male dating agency

Get yourself a partner.

Say the ones looking for SINGLE females lol. Oh, sorry, double standards are rife on here.

if you ever need help or advice I'm here for you

Thanks. I appreciate it

He wasn’t saying that to you, he was replying to the previous bit written by another poster."

I've crossed wires a lot on the posts

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By *aidForSharingWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

There aren't many attractive men on here.

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By *irtySexyDawgMan over a year ago

Welwyn

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By *irtySexyDawgMan over a year ago

Welwyn

"There aren't many attractive men on here."

Not aimed at you at all, just quoting you, but in fairness I could say the same...braced for the onslaught.

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By *uicy jugsWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Not all guys, I talk to a fair few who have no motive other than to chat.

You have to understand clubs aren't for everyone, choose those who are into them.. I do.

Everyone swings in their own way & you can't say all guys use this like a free prostitute site as many don't at all. There are lots of chancers but there are equally lots of decent guys. "

I then qualified my quote to say exactly that but many are not swingers they do just want notches and they think your wrong to turn them down ... which i always do politely but when you get bombarded with 100 messages a day at first its hard to get to the genuine guys on here before u get deflated and remove yourself from the foul mouthed guys who do treat it as a prossie site ... ie i am waiting for u at the layby at jnc 28 come now .... first message no pic and its 3am in the morning ... thankfully genuine guys have redeemed it for those who misuse the main focus of the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re right, it does seem that way. However, if your profiles good, pics are not all cock shots, your polite when needed, and look after yourself then you may have a little success

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By *orello-pieWoman over a year ago

southwest

Well said , and so true x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There aren't many attractive men on here."

Now if I said that about women. I'd be slaughtered on this forum by you all and you all know it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There aren't many attractive men on here."

Brutal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really need more females on here. It's like 1000 guys cracking on to the 1 woman ????"

You're right, it's a huge imbalance so must be difficult for some guys to get a look in. That said, there is a good number of men who are consistently succesful on here, so they must have figured out how to make themselves stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blocked over 350 so far.

If folk were much nicer I guess more meets would happen "

Golden Wonder, your quote above and then reading your profile did give me a laugh, such a demanding lady

do me a favour and make me your 351,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There aren't many attractive men on here."

pmsl happy to block this lady, done.

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Well this has been interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There aren't many attractive men on here."

Now if I said that about women. I'd be slaughtered on this forum by you all and you all know it

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"There aren't many attractive men on here.

Now if I said that about women. I'd be slaughtered on this forum by you all and you all know it"

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this has been interesting

It certainly has haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There aren't many attractive men on here.

pmsl happy to block this lady, done."

Maybe I should take offence. Pretty sure most of the women would, but I will just take it on the chin as they say. But fuck me if I posted that about women. I'd be hung on here

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Well this has been interesting

It certainly has haha x"

I’d love to reply but I wouldn’t know where to start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which one are you??????

*mic drop*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this has been interesting

It certainly has haha x

I’d love to reply but I wouldn’t know where to start

Meaning ?

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"Well this has been interesting

It certainly has haha x

I’d love to reply but I wouldn’t know where to start

Meaning ?

Which issue do I address first so many brought up !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm...will carefully spread the word to some females haha"

Well is this a cattle market to you? Do you want the ladies bussed in ???

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