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Townhouse Friday 14th feb
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We're off to townhouse on Friday 14th Feb
A great club and we like the buzz there
But for some reason , we never seems to so that well
We turn up , looking and smelling good , we chat and we don't push it
So this time we thought we would say we are going and see if any one fancies bumping into us ?
We don't hunt people down in club's and are much happier having a chat and seeing where things lead
So do take a look and say hi , because if we get on , you never know ........
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House party will be a great night!!
Best bet is to get chatting to people in the bar, but beat in mind it can be quite tricky for a couple. As a single, you don’t know what their dynamic is, whether you are looking to swap separately, swap as a couple, play as separates or together in a threesome. So you might need to be a bit more forthcoming with people you’re interested in & ask / explain when you’re looking for?
Communication is the key, and no one is going to take offence if you ask, or if they ask & you say no.
I also think it’s harder for couples to hook up with couples than singles. All 4 of you have to be into the play, because you don’t want someone ‘taking one for the team’
Stick with it ... when I went from single to being in a couple, it was a couple of months before we hooked up with another couple! It’ll happen, but in the mean time you will have a great night out either way! 
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I struggle with initial contact in a club too. I attend with my husband but we play separately. He seems to have no problems but I’m quite shy in reality and tend to play with people I’ve chatted with on here or kik etc. And as mentioned couple dynamics can vary..The event listings are great for seeing who is gonna be around etc. Maybe jump on that and get chatting? But I’ll be following this for tips as We are attending Townhouse on the 15th. |
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Definitely agree - chatting on the thread is a great start. But don’t overthink it. Just be yourselves. Maybe when you’re chatting to couples, ask how they go about it, or what their dynamic is, see where they takes you.
Unfortunately I’m not there on the 14th but will be there with my partner on 15th.
Hope you have a great night though - the list looks amazing  x |
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"Definitely agree - chatting on the thread is a great start. But don’t overthink it. Just be yourselves. Maybe when you’re chatting to couples, ask how they go about it, or what their dynamic is, see where they takes you.
Unfortunately I’m not there on the 14th but will be there with my partner on 15th.
Hope you have a great night though - the list looks amazing x"
See you on the 15th x |
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We are hoping to go to for this event, not a definite yet but fingers crossed xx
We spend most of our time chatting and dancing the night away, having lots fun and we meet people who want more then great if not we are happy getting to know others and having a great time on that dancefloor xx |
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"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport
Lou xx 
Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while. "
I know I'll be in Bury that weekend |
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We struggle with the same thing. We are happy to play but are very quiet when we are in the club unfortunately we won't be there on the 14th but will be on the 15th so anyone that can break the ice here first fab. |
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"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport
Lou xx
Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while.
I know I'll be in Bury that weekend"
Someone guy offered me a lift to the party |
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"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport
Lou xx
Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while.
I know I'll be in Bury that weekend
Someone guy offered me a lift to the party"
You best contact the host then and see if she has a place for you |
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"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening "
We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha |
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"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening
We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "
Haha. I might try this option for the actual hubby x |
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"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening
We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "
I'm sure that's a totally appropriate place for a 3yo! Seriously, we'd love to come though. |
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"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening
We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "
Now this is an option we could consider  |
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"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening
We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha
Now this is an option we could consider "
This is the hardest bit about swinging for us - childcare! |
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