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We turned up to one and it wasn't even open...
Website said 'fet night'
Both wearing full on fet gear plus contacts etc..
Dropped off in a very dodgy part of brum... taxi driver said 'u sure you will be ok here?'
Found our way in and was given a tour by the owner (who was refurbishing)...It eas shut he said.. He then told us of his exploits as a 'top porno director'... place was like a scene from Hostel..and seedy as fuck.
We buggered off sharpish and got an expensive taxi to Chams.. had a great night so not a dead loss.
Another one crossed off the list. |
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"We turned up to one and it wasn't even open...
Website said 'fet night'
Both wearing full on fet gear plus contacts etc..
Dropped off in a very dodgy part of brum... taxi driver said 'u sure you will be ok here?'
Found our way in and was given a tour by the owner (who was refurbishing)...It eas shut he said.. He then told us of his exploits as a 'top porno director'... place was like a scene from Hostel..and seedy as fuck.
We buggered off sharpish and got an expensive taxi to Chams.. had a great night so not a dead loss.
Another one crossed off the list."
That must have been Valhalla, dreadful place! |
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over a year ago
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Yes twice. On the advice of many on the forums concerning single guys getting verified and known by some when I first joined fab. Went to one was a disaster, just ignored when trying to strike up a conversation. Thought it was maybe me, so tried another. Same response. Never chanced it again.
Big mistake |
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Yes. Once, years ago at the old Kestrels in Stanwell Moor.
I was driving by on a cold November midweek afternoon at about 4pm and decided last minute to pop in. When I arrived a couple was just leaving and so was one single guy. For about 90 minutes I was Billie No Mates thinking to my self what a loser. Enjoyed the heated pool, sauna, chatted with Mark and was about to get dressed and leave when in walked a couple. Got chatting and..... |
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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago
Ruislip |
Yes I've done the Kestrels thing on my own as well mid-week at the old venue. The dungeon block was quite eerie on your own with just the kestrels club classics soundtrack or Heart radio playing in the background. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes,once,went to get us a drink n sweet fked off to a room to shag some guy.
Walking round the club with drinks in hand wondering where the hell she was. |
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"We turned up to one and it wasn't even open...
Website said 'fet night'
Both wearing full on fet gear plus contacts etc..
Dropped off in a very dodgy part of brum... taxi driver said 'u sure you will be ok here?'
Found our way in and was given a tour by the owner (who was refurbishing)...It eas shut he said.. He then told us of his exploits as a 'top porno director'... place was like a scene from Hostel..and seedy as fuck.
We buggered off sharpish and got an expensive taxi to Chams.. had a great night so not a dead loss.
Another one crossed off the list."
Was it In Dudley ? |
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Yes!
We went to PussyCats Pleasurerooms in Liverpool years ago (got shut down as they didn't have permission to open and Liverpool are stuffy like that)
We waited and chatted with Jacqui behind the bar for an hour and decided to make use of the facilities ourselves. It was like having an adult playground all to ourselves... brilliant! Like any night out..it's what you make it! |
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We went to the Sunday Service at Amores a few years ago. It was just us and the barman for 2 hours  We hopped in the hot tub, had a play in each of the rooms and then bumped into another couple on their first club visit  |
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I’ve (male) been to a couple of Clubs on my own whilst working away. I have found them to be much more friendly and fun than sitting in a hotel bar or alone in my room! Plus I get to check out Clubs for us to go to as a couple next time 
I’ve been to Chams, Xstasia, Angels, VA, Hellfire and the old AbFabs on my own. We still need to get to Chams & Hellfire as a couple  |
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"Yes twice. On the advice of many on the forums concerning single guys getting verified and known by some when I first joined fab. Went to one was a disaster, just ignored when trying to strike up a conversation. Thought it was maybe me, so tried another. Same response. Never chanced it again.
Big mistake"
I feel your pain mate, have suffered similarly. Unless you’re in to gangbangs/greedy girl events, the club scene is pot luck for single guys. Try to avoid couple-heavy times  |
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I went to a "Greedy Girls" night at a club in Blackpool some years ago - about fifteen men turned up but no women! We all stood around looking sheepish and then went home. One guy asked the proprietor of the club for a refund and got bounced out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was going to a fetish club in Dublin a few years ago.3 if us in the car. I had been 5 time's before. But we stopped at a tranny bar for a while before. The other two stayed in the bar and I went to the club.i had fun but that was not the norm for me. To scary to go fully dressed alone. |
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
We have been the only customers at a club a couple of times years ago at a club in Sunderland with only the owners to keep us company. Strangely enough the owners said we should have been there the night before . The club closed down despite all those busy nights when we were not there! |
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"We have been the only customers at a club a couple of times years ago at a club in Sunderland with only the owners to keep us company. Strangely enough the owners said we should have been there the night before . The club closed down despite all those busy nights when we were not there!"
Two separate clubs have said to me "You should have been here last week, the place was packed with single women" |
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"We have been the only customers at a club a couple of times years ago at a club in Sunderland with only the owners to keep us company. Strangely enough the owners said we should have been there the night before . The club closed down despite all those busy nights when we were not there!
Two separate clubs have said to me "You should have been here last week, the place was packed with single women" "
Maybe they were seeing double |
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"We have been the only customers at a club a couple of times years ago at a club in Sunderland with only the owners to keep us company. Strangely enough the owners said we should have been there the night before . The club closed down despite all those busy nights when we were not there!
Two separate clubs have said to me "You should have been here last week, the place was packed with single women"
Maybe they were seeing double "
Some might say; they shared the same vision  |
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"We have been the only customers at a club a couple of times years ago at a club in Sunderland with only the owners to keep us company. Strangely enough the owners said we should have been there the night before . The club closed down despite all those busy nights when we were not there!
Two separate clubs have said to me "You should have been here last week, the place was packed with single women"
Maybe they were seeing double
Some might say; they shared the same vision "
Prob did |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
The first three occasions I visited a swingers club (all different ones) I went all by my lonesome and didn't feel intimidated. First couple of instances served to socialise and get a feel for how things were. Third time I got lucky...with the sexiest lady present no less! Happy memories |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
"The first three occasions I visited a swingers club (all different ones) I went all by my lonesome and didn't feel intimidated. First couple of instances served to socialise and get a feel for how things were. Third time I got lucky...with the sexiest lady present no less! Happy memories "
I think the OP was referring to being the only person at a club, not simply going on their own, something which many people do as a matter of routine without drama!
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
One of the very first times I went to a club there was one other person plus me.
I stayed a couple of hours but didn't take my coat off, when I left the owner gave me a free entry ticket for next time.
I was a little bit surprised that more people weren't there.
I have been back to the venue many times over the years and it has been a lot busier. |
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"I think the OP was referring to being the only person at a club, not simply going on their own, something which many people do as a matter of routine without drama!
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Yes, I've done both of these. The owners were lovely though, so I still had a good time. I've been back since and will continue to do so. |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"I think I may had been the only punter in Temptations in Bournemouth for an hour or so!"
Same...and been close to the only one there on a couple of other occasions. As far as my experience goes, it's easily the quietest club I've ever been to. |
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You should keep trying most clubs are good and it’s not the club it’s the people on the night so don’t give up go on the forum page and see who is going chat and you just might find you like each other been to a few north west hotel meeting as well might be in Blackpool at a club sx party soon text chat if you’re interested I could be your plus one |
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"We turned up to one and it wasn't even open...
Website said 'fet night'
Both wearing full on fet gear plus contacts etc..
Dropped off in a very dodgy part of brum... taxi driver said 'u sure you will be ok here?'
Found our way in and was given a tour by the owner (who was refurbishing)...It eas shut he said.. He then told us of his exploits as a 'top porno director'... place was like a scene from Hostel..and seedy as fuck.
We buggered off sharpish and got an expensive taxi to Chams.. had a great night so not a dead loss.
Another one crossed off the list.
That must have been Valhalla, dreadful place!"
Lol yeah that was it...
One of those 'never again' places.
And, yes... Dudloi if I remember. |
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