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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hey fab
i am thinking about attending a swinging event but ive never been to one
was woundering what its like for single guy going on there own???
are they welcome there or do couples an others rather them turn up with a partner or friend??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll be fine. Just go along to your local club. Talk to people and be polite. Have no expectations . Let them know it's your first time and like someone has just said don't be one of those walking dead towel wanking zombies. Have fun I've never looked back |
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I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon  |
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If you can walk into a pub, strike up a conversation with people you've never met before, and present a good impression of yourself, you'll be fine.
A swinging club is little different, other than the rewards that come with it. |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
"If you can walk into a pub, strike up a conversation with people you've never met before, and present a good impression of yourself, you'll be fine.
A swinging club is little different, other than the rewards that come with it."
Couldn't of put it better and just be respectful is the utmost important thing x |
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"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon "
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social? "
I've been doing these on a small scale. I have a set amount of single male spaces to keep ratios fairly even. I also keep a waiting list for them, so if any drop out then I can invite the next on the list and so on. Hope this helps. X |
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"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social? "
That's a great idea us singles will make our own events and leave you couples too it ... no more sf for couples  |
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"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social?
I've been doing these on a small scale. I have a set amount of single male spaces to keep ratios fairly even. I also keep a waiting list for them, so if any drop out then I can invite the next on the list and so on. Hope this helps. X"
 bet they not near me lol x |
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"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social?
That's a great idea us singles will make our own events and leave you couples too it ... no more sf for couples "
Please do. Everybody happy then. Still plenty of females who are part of a couple for ffm, less drama we have found too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hey fab
i am thinking about attending a swinging event but ive never been to one
was woundering what its like for single guy going on there own???
are they welcome there or do couples an others rather them turn up with a partner or friend???"
they love single guys especially if they walk around like zombies with hardons  |
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Being honest, it's a great experience but it's not without flaws.
Do expect to pay for it. Don't expect anything else!
About welcoming, it depends who's on the door. I've had one experience with someone who was rude, but for the most part, they're very welcoming.
You're likely to be with a lot of other men. Don't expect many women to be there.
If there are women there who are approachable, be very cool with them, chat with them and just talk to them like you talk to your friends.
Now this is something for you to think about; one of the last times I went to a club, there were around 15 guys in a room, there were about 3 or 4 women. One of them was hot and walking around completely naked. I was thinking to myself "omg, if only".
An hour later, I fucked her and her friend infront of about 10 guys. It was surreal.
Anyway, don't expect anything... But these things can and do happen! |
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"I love single males at clubs and socials just a shame most organised socials centre around couples and single females and always restrict single males as if us single females are always after playing with a couple... and seem to notice there is always more couples than men and wemon
Swinging is mainly a couples event. Why don't you organise a singles only social?
That's a great idea us singles will make our own events and leave you couples too it ... no more sf for couples "
Great suggestion
Hahaha seems some people need to be careful what they write  |
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"Being honest, it's a great experience but it's not without flaws.
Do expect to pay for it. Don't expect anything else!
About welcoming, it depends who's on the door. I've had one experience with someone who was rude, but for the most part, they're very welcoming.
You're likely to be with a lot of other men. Don't expect many women to be there.
If there are women there who are approachable, be very cool with them, chat with them and just talk to them like you talk to your friends.
Now this is something for you to think about; one of the last times I went to a club, there were around 15 guys in a room, there were about 3 or 4 women. One of them was hot and walking around completely naked. I was thinking to myself "omg, if only".
An hour later, I fucked her and her friend infront of about 10 guys. It was surreal.
Anyway, don't expect anything... But these things can and do happen!"
Fair play to you mate, it's great to hear these things do happen sometimes! I've rarely seen more than 2 or three single females in any club, and have never been fortunate to play with any. In fact, out of a total of 15 club visits as a single guy, I've only played with 3 women, all of whom were part of a couple. |
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"Being honest, it's a great experience but it's not without flaws.
Do expect to pay for it. Don't expect anything else!
About welcoming, it depends who's on the door. I've had one experience with someone who was rude, but for the most part, they're very welcoming.
You're likely to be with a lot of other men. Don't expect many women to be there.
If there are women there who are approachable, be very cool with them, chat with them and just talk to them like you talk to your friends.
Now this is something for you to think about; one of the last times I went to a club, there were around 15 guys in a room, there were about 3 or 4 women. One of them was hot and walking around completely naked. I was thinking to myself "omg, if only".
An hour later, I fucked her and her friend infront of about 10 guys. It was surreal.
Anyway, don't expect anything... But these things can and do happen!
Fair play to you mate, it's great to hear these things do happen sometimes! I've rarely seen more than 2 or three single females in any club, and have never been fortunate to play with any. In fact, out of a total of 15 club visits as a single guy, I've only played with 3 women, all of whom were part of a couple. "
Yeah... It's just a case of 'have a chat and see what happens'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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cheers lads
puts another spin on it putting like that
im not going for the sex but wouldnt turn it down if it came along
been reading a few of the profiles that set up these events,,think its about finding the right one for me
im keen an not so keen at the same time after reading a few bits an bobs about it
cheers again |
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thanks again xx