"looking to get into club swinging but super nervous and feel like i need to be eased into it x"
It’s a really well run club, with some nice facilities. If you are lucky you might get some fun in the “rest rooms”. Do try and chat to people in the hot tubs rather than just lurk. |
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"It’s a naturist spa not a swinging club. It has enforceable rules on behaviour and etiquette. "
This ^^^
They have strict rules whilst in the spa area. Of you want to play then use the "rest rooms".
It's a naturist spa that tolerates swingers.
That said...we love the atmosphere. We find it very relaxing with the added bonus of playing if the need takes us.
My advice would be to go with no expectations. |
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over a year ago
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"It’s a naturist spa not a swinging club. It has enforceable rules on behaviour and etiquette.
This ^^^
They have strict rules whilst in the spa area. Of you want to play then use the "rest rooms".
It's a naturist spa that tolerates swingers.
That said...we love the atmosphere. We find it very relaxing with the added bonus of playing if the need takes us.
My advice would be to go with no expectations."
Absolutely this, 100%. |
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A suggestion.
Go on your own one quiet evening and have a spa session to see how it works.
If you go as a respectful naturist you will have a lovely time.
If you think for a moment that you are going to a sex club your visit will be brief before you find yourself escorted from the building.
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"A suggestion.
Go on your own one quiet evening and have a spa session to see how it works.
If you go as a respectful naturist you will have a lovely time.
If you think for a moment that you are going to a sex club your visit will be brief before you find yourself escorted from the building.
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It's a nice place but go there to relax and chat to people and see what happens. I met a nice couple there when I went there but nothing happened but I can definitely see that place being good in the summer laying in the solarium. |
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"It's a nice place but go there to relax and chat to people and see what happens. I met a nice couple there when I went there but nothing happened but I can definitely see that place being good in the summer laying in the solarium."
I'm gutted that we've never bumped into each other..... |
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Oh it's the best place I've been to. So clean and relaxing. Nothing to worry about. Happy to accompany any first timers but you must read the rules first |
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As naturists and swingers It’s definitely one of our favourite places as it ticks both boxes! Great facilities and very well run. Like others have suggested, go with no expectations and be respectful. More chance of being entertained in the rest area if you’ve already chatted in the spa (in our opinion). Give it a go, you won’t regret it. Only trouble is it can get addictive!!! Lol. |
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Nothing to add to what had already been said but to reiterate that it is a great place if you go with the right attitude. Had some great, unexpected, times and experiences there. Never disappointed as I enjoy the spa firstly. |
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"As naturists and swingers It’s definitely one of our favourite places as it ticks both boxes! Great facilities and very well run. Like others have suggested, go with no expectations and be respectful. More chance of being entertained in the rest area if you’ve already chatted in the spa (in our opinion). Give it a go, you won’t regret it. Only trouble is it can get addictive!!! Lol. "
Just second this bit about chatting beforehand.,We like a bit of a connection, unfortunately lots of single men can’t be bothered! |
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Many great comments and advice.
As a couple we've been lot's of times and only ever played once.
The hot water & spa area is just so relaxing.
Robin prefers the hot water
Starling loves the chilled area at the top.
Such a natural place to just "hang "
Chill, don't be pushy and you'll have a great time. |
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