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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, going through a barren spell since splitting up with my ex. not been to a club before but there's a couple not far from me, are they worth a visit, can you go just to watch without feeling like a muppet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it ok to just go and watch?? I imagine it’s full of people having fun?? Would it not be a bit weird if you just turn up and sit in the corner?? I’d be really nervous not knowing anyone.....  |
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There’s nothing to be worried about, just treat it like a normal night out at the local, have a drink chat and socialise, the only difference will be the amount of nakedness and eye opening fun!!
If you’re super lucky you may even get invited to join in. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all, going through a barren spell since splitting up with my ex. not been to a club before but there's a couple not far from me, are they worth a visit, can you go just to watch without feeling like a muppet? "
It ok to go watch, just be respectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There will be plenty other muppets watching so don't feel that you're out of place.
Personally, I do enjoy a bit of bork bork in my Swedish Chef outfit"
Hahaha  |
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"I'm in the same dilemma.
Want to go to Quest but having never been am unsure as a single male if I'd be made welcome etc etc  "
Quest is a really friendly place, you'll be made to feel welcome. Maybe better to choose to go on an event night or weekend rather than mid week at first, more people to have conversations with  |
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"Is it ok to just go and watch?? I imagine it’s full of people having fun?? Would it not be a bit weird if you just turn up and sit in the corner?? I’d be really nervous not knowing anyone..... "
It's fine to just go and watch. Some people like to be watched, some people have no intentions of playing with others, they just like to be watched!
It's rare for anyone to approach a single guy in a club to open conversation, so if you enjoy sitting in corners by yourself, you'll find it easy to do so! Some will think you are weird, and avoid you even more, others might think "He just likes to watch", and also leave you alone.
It does take a bit of gusto to visit one of these places by yourself, and not knowing anyone, but you'll never know what these places are like, unless you give one a go! You may be amazed, you may be disappointed! Just look through the clubs listings in here, check when single guys are 'welcome', and look for those which don't tie you in to outlandish memberships on your first visit  |
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