I’ve registered for xstasia and I’m thinking of going this Friday I’m a single male 41
I’ve never done anything like this before and wondering what the dos and don’ts are
Kind of. Nervous person any advice please would be appreciated |
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You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.
Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.
Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.
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"You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.
Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.
Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.
Is there naked people walking about or it Everyone dressed and then go off to do what they want
Will people be having sex right in front of me or not ?
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"You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.
Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.
Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.
Is there naked people walking about or it Everyone dressed and then go off to do what they want
Will people be having sex right in front of me or not ?
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I doubt it. You're advised (and it's good advice) to avoid the areas people go to have sex in, unless you're invited to do so. By all means have the odd look round once or twice, but I'd leave it at that, stick to more social areas of the club is probably best advice your guide will give you.
You may see a bdsm display if you're lucky, it scared me a bit if I'm honest, but I got to talk to the couple in smoking area afterwards.
It's a bit if an exhibitionist's club, there arent really many places you can have sex in complete privacy. So there is a possibility you'll see it going on.
I saw glimpses, but I was trying to stay on the right side of being social. That was my reason for going in the first place. |
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Xtasia is a great club, focused around socials before play, you expect to play your letting yourself down. Never walk into any club and expect play, expect laughs drinks. |
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