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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never been to a club before. What's the atmosphere like? I maybe just want to have a drink and relax first time until i feel comfortable. Do you get hassled if you are just looking? Is voyersym frowned upon? I am not ugly but not attractive either,will I be made to feel welcome? |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Never been to a club before. What's the atmosphere like? I maybe just want to have a drink and relax first time until i feel comfortable. Do you get hassled if you are just looking? Is voyersym frowned upon? I am not ugly but not attractive either,will I be made to feel welcome?"
Not at all. Best approach is to go with an open mind, not expect anything, enjoy the 'new' exhilirating vibe you'll experience, talk to people and watch..Walk around; get a feel and with all that feel incredibly relaxed.
Hope you enjoy it.
I'm there next month as a contingency plan should other plans fall through (happens from time to time) so if I end up there I very much am looking forward to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never been to a club before. What's the atmosphere like? I maybe just want to have a drink and relax first time until i feel comfortable. Do you get hassled if you are just looking? Is voyersym frowned upon? I am not ugly but not attractive either,will I be made to feel welcome?
Not at all. Best approach is to go with an open mind, not expect anything, enjoy the 'new' exhilirating vibe you'll experience, talk to people and watch..Walk around; get a feel and with all that feel incredibly relaxed.
Hope you enjoy it.
I'm there next month as a contingency plan should other plans fall through (happens from time to time) so if I end up there I very much am looking forward to it. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never been to a club before. What's the atmosphere like? I maybe just want to have a drink and relax first time until i feel comfortable. Do you get hassled if you are just looking? Is voyersym frowned upon? I am not ugly but not attractive either,will I be made to feel welcome?
Not at all. Best approach is to go with an open mind, not expect anything, enjoy the 'new' exhilirating vibe you'll experience, talk to people and watch..Walk around; get a feel and with all that feel incredibly relaxed.
Hope you enjoy it.
I'm there next month as a contingency plan should other plans fall through (happens from time to time) so if I end up there I very much am looking forward to it. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We went for the first time last night. Had a brilliant time. Staff are so friendly. Great bar area to socialise in.
Try it. Nothing to lose."
Just got to make that first step. It's nerve racking for a single guy. |
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