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Right boys and girls I need some advice.
I recently joined a club near me with my partner in crime. It was her idea to do so and unfortunately the day we joined we couldn’t actually use the facilities due to prior commitment.
Now both of us have partners who don’t know what we are up to and now she is worried that if we go to the club we may bump into someone we know and she is scared they will then tell.
Any advice/experience who be helpful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right boys and girls I need some advice.
I recently joined a club near me with my partner in crime. It was her idea to do so and unfortunately the day we joined we couldn’t actually use the facilities due to prior commitment.
Now both of us have partners who don’t know what we are up to and now she is worried that if we go to the club we may bump into someone we know and she is scared they will then tell.
Any advice/experience who be helpful"
not much advice you can give if you bump into somebody you know in a club and you're also with somebody who isn't your partner then it's all pretty obvious what you're up to and what you've been up to lol wear a mask |
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It's very disrespectful to your loved one to be playing away.. But imagine if someone who knew you and your partner (your real partner) saw you. They would be in an incredibly awkward situation. Would you ask them to lie? Don't think for a second that this friend of yours thinks the shame of them being on the site is the same as the shame you should feel for cheating on your partner. Yours is way worse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It might be the fear of being caught that’s motivated your play partner to suggest joining a club. She might be subconsciously in turmoil about what she is doing to her other half.
Then again she might be a kinky sod and get off on the danger.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not much to add - as a single guy I attend clubs and thus far have never met someone from the vanilla world-
However I’m absolutely sure it WILL happen but beyond a bit of awkwardness nothing will come of it.
Your situation can blow up in your face.
Not judging but you’re absolutely playing with fire. |
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If you’re going to go to a club, you take the risk that someone you know will be there. We all do. The fact that it’s a particularly sensitive risk for both of you needs to be factored into your decision making process. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
If you think we`re going to say "go to a club further away" I can tell you that isn`t the answer either. I once saw someone from near me in a club 150 miles away! |
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"Swingers are about consensual sex.
We know the risks and choose to take them.
Putting your home partners at risk of an std without their knowledge and consent of the risk is pretty crap.
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Totally agree.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right boys and girls I need some advice.
I recently joined a club near me with my partner in crime. It was her idea to do so and unfortunately the day we joined we couldn’t actually use the facilities due to prior commitment.
Now both of us have partners who don’t know what we are up to and now she is worried that if we go to the club we may bump into someone we know and she is scared they will then tell.
Any advice/experience who be helpful"
It's the risk you take by going behind your partner's backs.
I'd suggest going to a club further away but again no guarantees that you don't bump into someone there, we do travel a fair bit to clubs.
I would state a few things about swingers and cheating but I don't want to get a ban from the forum's.
Let's just say 100% honesty policy is preferred amongst the swinging couples, myself included. I'd be mortified to find trim going behind my back but I'd gladly let him play if I know about it and it's in a club. |
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