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"Looking to break my club cherry and attend one for the first time. But as a single guy I'm nervous as hell. Never felt I'm a great conversationalist and tend to be the one not saying much in a group until asked. Closest club for me is Angels in Melksham, has good reviews but does anyone have personal experience there as a single guy?" If you're not very chatty and wait to be approached, maybe the club environment wouldn't be suited to yourself. How have you mostly met women in your 55 years on this planet?, maybe utilise what already works for you. Clubs can be loud and busy and for people who aren't keen on approaching others, it can seem daunting, leaving you to feel left out or not included, when it's up to you to want to be included and approachable. It should be fun and exciting not daunting. Maybe try the club section for events and go on a select night, have a chat with some other single guys there. | |||
"Looking to break my club cherry and attend one for the first time. But as a single guy I'm nervous as hell. Never felt I'm a great conversationalist and tend to be the one not saying much in a group until asked. Closest club for me is Angels in Melksham, has good reviews but does anyone have personal experience there as a single guy? If you're not very chatty and wait to be approached, maybe the club environment wouldn't be suited to yourself. How have you mostly met women in your 55 years on this planet?, maybe utilise what already works for you. Clubs can be loud and busy and for people who aren't keen on approaching others, it can seem daunting, leaving you to feel left out or not included, when it's up to you to want to be included and approachable. It should be fun and exciting not daunting. Maybe try the club section for events and go on a select night, have a chat with some other single guys there." Thanks, past 12 years relationships gave come from chat rooms or dating sites. Chatting faceless through the internet I can do, so I break the ice that way. Before that it was bars, discos places like that usually where inhibitions were lowered because of alcohol. They do do singles night so maybe will try that out before taking the plunge for anything more active. | |||
"Looking to break my club cherry and attend one for the first time. But as a single guy I'm nervous as hell. Never felt I'm a great conversationalist and tend to be the one not saying much in a group until asked. Closest club for me is Angels in Melksham, has good reviews but does anyone have personal experience there as a single guy? If you're not very chatty and wait to be approached, maybe the club environment wouldn't be suited to yourself. How have you mostly met women in your 55 years on this planet?, maybe utilise what already works for you. Clubs can be loud and busy and for people who aren't keen on approaching others, it can seem daunting, leaving you to feel left out or not included, when it's up to you to want to be included and approachable. It should be fun and exciting not daunting. Maybe try the club section for events and go on a select night, have a chat with some other single guys there. Thanks, past 12 years relationships gave come from chat rooms or dating sites. Chatting faceless through the internet I can do, so I break the ice that way. Before that it was bars, discos places like that usually where inhibitions were lowered because of alcohol. They do do singles night so maybe will try that out before taking the plunge for anything more active. " Yes, that would be a good idea. Also approach people and chat to them, as you would in any of the places you mentioned. The only way people can get to know you, is if you allow them to, so don't hide in a corner or follow people around, mute....you'll only leave with a bad impression of the night when in fact you made no impression yourself. It happens a lot in clubs which is why some men can get a bad rep before they've even been to a club, just for being single. | |||
"Looking to break my club cherry and attend one for the first time. But as a single guy I'm nervous as hell. Never felt I'm a great conversationalist and tend to be the one not saying much in a group until asked. Closest club for me is Angels in Melksham, has good reviews but does anyone have personal experience there as a single guy? If you're not very chatty and wait to be approached, maybe the club environment wouldn't be suited to yourself. How have you mostly met women in your 55 years on this planet?, maybe utilise what already works for you. Clubs can be loud and busy and for people who aren't keen on approaching others, it can seem daunting, leaving you to feel left out or not included, when it's up to you to want to be included and approachable. It should be fun and exciting not daunting. Maybe try the club section for events and go on a select night, have a chat with some other single guys there. Thanks, past 12 years relationships gave come from chat rooms or dating sites. Chatting faceless through the internet I can do, so I break the ice that way. Before that it was bars, discos places like that usually where inhibitions were lowered because of alcohol. They do do singles night so maybe will try that out before taking the plunge for anything more active. Yes, that would be a good idea. Also approach people and chat to them, as you would in any of the places you mentioned. The only way people can get to know you, is if you allow them to, so don't hide in a corner or follow people around, mute....you'll only leave with a bad impression of the night when in fact you made no impression yourself. It happens a lot in clubs which is why some men can get a bad rep before they've even been to a club, just for being single." Thanks x | |||
