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Abfab - Going It Solo
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Thanks in advance x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s anything like the old place then you have nothing to worry about. Staff are fantastic and people are friendly. I must admit I’m looking forward to chilling naked in the pool once more. And enjoy the atmosphere of the venue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friday nights is for all and Saturday nights are for couples and single ladies.
As members of staff you will be looked after and the nerves soon go. There is a big communal room where you can mingle.
You will be safe and you will have a great time. If you come on a Saturday night we will give you a tour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been there on my own before and had no problems. I'm going on Friday on my own as trim is working and I'm not the slightest bit worried.
I feel very safe there, but then I have been going there for several years with trim prior, to us it's like my local.
I've also been on the scene a long time and quite good at striking up conversation with strangers and equially good at turning guys down and making sure they know their boundaries in a respectful manner.
Trim wanders around and feels quite safe to leave me in the company of others as he knows I know the deal.
In terms of ages you'll see people from around your age and up. I've seen late 20s couples right to some in their 60s and everything in-between.
If you want a friend to chat too that's female feel free to say hi, I'm very friendly and will quite happily make sure your ok.
Your safety and enjoying the evening is important. Staff will send guys away that can't take no for an answer or make you feel uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll open my mailbox to single female only in case you want to meet there and have someone who is just friendly to hang out with whilst you find your feet.
This offer is for any single female scared to go on their own to abfabs on Friday and could do with none pushy friendly female. |
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Abfabs was the first club i went to year's ago i was made extremely welcome had a great time,along with some very naughty fun with two sexy couple's. It's great that the club is up and running again, don't worry about going solo i'm sure you will made very welcome, Enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll open my mailbox to single female only in case you want to meet there and have someone who is just friendly to hang out with whilst you find your feet.
This offer is for any single female scared to go on their own to abfabs on Friday and could do with none pushy friendly female."
I'd love to have someone to chat to there, thank you  I've tried to message you but I'm outside your age range x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll open my mailbox to single female only in case you want to meet there and have someone who is just friendly to hang out with whilst you find your feet.
This offer is for any single female scared to go on their own to abfabs on Friday and could do with none pushy friendly female.
I'd love to have someone to chat to there, thank you I've tried to message you but I'm outside your age range x"
I've updated to allow all ages to message me.
Single guys n couples... Your still blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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F used to go on her own and always had a great time
We will be there this Friday if any solos want to say he’ll and have a drink whilst getting used to the place |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
I went to the “old” place on my own and never had any problems. Everyone is really friendly; I wouldn’t try anywhere else on my own! Gutted I’m currently in America and can’t be there at weekend, but can’t wait to get back. |
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"I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Hi I am planning to go to kestrals when it reopens with a female friend or two, just to chill out. if you fancy some company and a day in using the sauna, pool, jacuzzi etc let me know x
Thanks in advance x"
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By *arco987Man
over a year ago
London (West) / Windsor |
I'd be shocked if you have a bad experience. As long as you can socialise you will be fine. And No means No. Go and enjoy it for sure. Gutted I can't be there... Off to Jo'burg, Hong Kong and Riyadh back in 10 days.... My head spins with all this travel. Wish it was spinning my way to Bath Road on Friday night..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always go to clubs as a single female, and I never have any problems... I used to go regular to the old abfabs so looking forward to Friday's opening.  "
Hey sexy, I remember lending trim out to you a couple of times at the old abfabs
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"Can someone please post the full address and any other info , I used to be a regular before it closed down and would like to renew membership ."
Fab’s won’t allow it but the website is up to date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine who used to live down there was telling me about it but she’s kinda back with her ex she met on here and is giving the rest of us fabbers a wide berth at the moment which is a shame so I might just have to come a visit solo |
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From experience you will have no problem with finding people to chat to and who will help look out for you. A couple of my friends are going (one of whom is a lady who I met on our first visit to the old club) and am sure there will be other regulars to put you at ease. The staff were also great at helping out with newbies.
Have a great night  |
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By *unkybbwWoman
over a year ago
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"I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Myself, my partner Newruss and a couple of friends are attending Friday, come and find us if you are feeling a bit over whelmed by it all. We are a friendly bunch as are most of the people who attend. I too will be very nervous even though I’m with friends. It’s a big step to take on your own but you won’t be lonely for long x
Thanks in advance x"
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"I always go to clubs as a single female, and I never have any problems... I used to go regular to the old abfabs so looking forward to Friday's opening.
Hey sexy, I remember lending trim out to you a couple of times at the old abfabs
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Hello beautiful, yes you did, and I thankyou, awesome times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Thanks in advance x"
It is definitely the right club for a first time.The owners and staff at the old club were exemplary at looking after newbies and single ladies in particular. I’m certain this will apply at the new venue. The single guys and couples all understand the etiquette at clubs and the staff enforces it throughout. I’m sure you will enjoy the environment created by staff and clientele alike. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Thanks in advance x
It is definitely the right club for a first time.The owners and staff at the old club were exemplary at looking after newbies and single ladies in particular. I’m certain this will apply at the new venue. The single guys and couples all understand the etiquette at clubs and the staff enforces it throughout. I’m sure you will enjoy the environment created by staff and clientele alike. "
A lot of the old staff from the old place are at the new place which I loved as I missed those guys, so nice to see them again. |
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"I've heard wonderful things about this club; everyone seemed so upset when it closed down!! So I've decided to go it alone. Anyone else doing the same?
It'll be my first time ever at a club so I hope I'm choosing the right one! Have any other single ladies done this before and/or have any tips on not shitting bricks?
Thanks in advance x"
Did you take the plunge and try it? Hope so and that you had fun |
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OP. I felt the same as you. Very self conscious, beyond nervous, sorta "oh shite what have a done"
5 mins later I was nervously talking to people, 10 mins after that the towel came off and hung over my shoulder. -Never looked back.
If the new club is like the old one in term of atmosphere and friendliness and can't see why it wouldn't be. You will imo have no problems. |
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