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Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x "
I’m the same. I’m not really into women (well a bit in the right circumstances) and much prefer nights that have solo guys too.
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over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x "
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them. |
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over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them."
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.  |
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x "
Yep, well said, not a huge fan of couples nights either |
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over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided. "
Yes we prefer couples only nights at clubs, single females in occasion, have not been well behaved when we’ve hosted or been to club nights, as for the plaything etc comments, so far removed from the truth for us, we are about equal way dynamics in any play combination and lots of playmates including a considerable amount of single ladies we’ve played with would testify to that, sweeping generalisations that are so far from the truth are ridiculous. |
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided. "
Dating@!! Are you having a laugh you are part of couple so how can you say what we want ? Nope I don't want a relationship i want NSA fun and were a couple dont treat us like performing monkeys x |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided. "
Someone's a bit passive aggressive 
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Dating@!! Are you having a laugh you are part of couple so how can you say what we want ? Nope I don't want a relationship i want NSA fun and were a couple dont treat us like performing monkeys x "
Ok forget the term ‘dating’... i also did not say that you were looking for a relationship!
I’m saying there are a lot more places/opportunities for single girls/guys to meet for NSA fun..
You can’t go making generalised statements about what couples want or don’t want ....
we are not all the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy "
Exactly that....
Nobody should be made to feel like a sex object... or a plaything for anyone...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy "
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!! |
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Dating@!! Are you having a laugh you are part of couple so how can you say what we want ? Nope I don't want a relationship i want NSA fun and were a couple dont treat us like performing monkeys x
Ok forget the term ‘dating’... i also did not say that you were looking for a relationship!
I’m saying there are a lot more places/opportunities for single girls/guys to meet for NSA fun..
You can’t go making generalised statements about what couples want or don’t want ....
we are not all the same.
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I beg to differ every single couple has dropped me like a hat when done with... yea makes me feel really good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided. "
100% agree, wise words, said correctly. When I go with my partner we only go to couples night and since we learnt about Eureka not doing couples night anymore we have avoided and waiting for them re instate the couples nights |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided. "
Lol. That's where you're wrong. FAB is called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits! So us single women looking for single guys are in exactly the right place! Dating sites are for exactly that...dating. Nightclubs aren't for pulling. Can be but that's not what they were invented for. I never intentionally went clubbing to pull. I went to socialise with friends. Dance, drink and enjoy the music scene. Not to find a fuck buddy! This site is for that. Everyone knows the score on here. Or not as your case seems to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Yes we prefer couples only nights at clubs, single females in occasion, have not been well behaved when we’ve hosted or been to club nights, as for the plaything etc comments, so far removed from the truth for us, we are about equal way dynamics in any play combination and lots of playmates including a considerable amount of single ladies we’ve played with would testify to that, sweeping generalisations that are so far from the truth are ridiculous."
Not ridiculous at all when that's been the only experience some or all of us single women have had from couples. There's a good reason myself and others have blocked them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Lol. That's where you're wrong. FAB is called fab for a reason... Friends And Benefits! So us single women looking for single guys are in exactly the right place! Dating sites are for exactly that...dating. Nightclubs aren't for pulling. Can be but that's not what they were invented for. I never intentionally went clubbing to pull. I went to socialise with friends. Dance, drink and enjoy the music scene. Not to find a fuck buddy! This site is for that. Everyone knows the score on here. Or not as your case seems to be "
I think you should read my post again.... I was talking about eurekas cancelling couple nights.
I wasn’t talking about this site... where it appears that not everyone knows the score |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (c) like having single giys joining us, but the onr night we went to Eureka we got followed by single guys everywhere we went. It would make a big difference if they upped the minimum age.
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"I (c) like having single giys joining us, but the onr night we went to Eureka we got followed by single guys everywhere we went. It would make a big difference if they upped the minimum age.
X"
We like having single guys around too but being followed around in the clubs puts us off. Most behave well though and know how to approach couples. Its difficult getting the balance right x |
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x "
True ! |
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"I (c) like having single giys joining us, but the onr night we went to Eureka we got followed by single guys everywhere we went. It would make a big difference if they upped the minimum age.
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We like having single guys around too but being followed around in the clubs puts us off. Most behave well though and know how to approach couples. Its difficult getting the balance right x"
We have been going to clubs for 13 years but this was the worst..put us off going back |
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Whilst I can appreciate what everyone is saying - particularly that some singles on here aren’t looking for couples, I find it odd that a club would alienate an entire group like that.
Just like many singles chose not to play with couples, there are many couples who are only actively looking for other couples!
Couples nights are only normally 1 night per week. Why not change it to a different night rather than just get rid of it all together? Strange! |
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"Whilst I can appreciate what everyone is saying - particularly that some singles on here aren’t looking for couples, I find it odd that a club would alienate an entire group like that.
Just like many singles chose not to play with couples, there are many couples who are only actively looking for other couples!
Couples nights are only normally 1 night per week. Why not change it to a different night rather than just get rid of it all together? Strange!"
As per our post earlier we have temporarily put the night on hold whilst we revamp it, this includes a possible move to maybe another evening, we want a complete revamp to make the night more enjoyable for all |
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Thank you for replying _urekaparties. Hopefully they will be back soon - as there are clearly people who like them (us and some other friends were really looking forward to them). stating the obvious from the comments on here, but people like all kinds of different things, and you do clearly cater for that throughout most of the month, and people can pick and choose what type of evening they like to attend. The world would be a dull place if we all liked the same things (and club nights), but it would be a shame for those who like couples nights not to have one once a month?
But hopefully see you soon after the “re-vamp” |
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!!"
You do know that some people block single men from messaging as they prefer to approach people themselves rather than having to trawl through mass mail !
Hardly double standards , it's a clever thing to do if you want to find the right men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!!
You do know that some people block single men from messaging as they prefer to approach people themselves rather than having to trawl through mass mail !
Hardly double standards , it's a clever thing to do if you want to find the right men "
Sorry, it isn't clever thing. It's double standards. It's like you claim to be on diet yet one eat sugar everyday  |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!!"
So blocking single men from time to time from messaging me (currently not blocked by the way) makes it a double standard? Ermmm... What?
I have verifications from single men, I message single men I like the look of, I play with single men at clubs and parties. I am not open legs to every single guy that messages me.
Just because I run my profile and govern my body the way I see fit does not make that a double standard... Do you know what a double standard is?
Double standard would be me being called a slut/whore for being sexually liberated and a man being called a stud/player for the same sexual openness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!!
So blocking single men from time to time from messaging me (currently not blocked by the way) makes it a double standard? Ermmm... What?
I have verifications from single men, I message single men I like the look of, I play with single men at clubs and parties. I am not open legs to every single guy that messages me.
Just because I run my profile and govern my body the way I see fit does not make that a double standard... Do you know what a double standard is?
Double standard would be me being called a slut/whore for being sexually liberated and a man being called a stud/player for the same sexual openness."
Clearly it isn't double standards to use message filters. It's common sense. Double standards is completely different. Also the analogy of sugar/diet is wrong and not reflective of the scenario. Finally, would like to say vanilla women would have a few choice words/thoughts about a guy who is on here and liberated. We are all in this together  |
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By *andT995Couple
over a year ago
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As a couple that prefer attending couples/singles females nights (which are few and far between) it baffles us why anyone who doesn’t like them thinks it’s a good idea to get rid of them,if you don’t like those nights just don’t attend and let those that do have there fun night out.theres plenty of events that we are not keen on but we’d never suggest they should be done away with just because there not for us,we just wouldn’t attend but hoped that everyone that did attend had a great night.
We are also very interested in the woman on this thread that feel couples have used them or made them feel like a sex toy,what in your experience has happened that made you feel like this as when we have played with a single female we both like to give all our attention to the female and would be gutted if she felt like we didn’t make her feel like she was the most important part of the night.its a shame couples night has gone at eurekas as we like it there but maybe it’s the push we needed to try somewhere else that has a couples night. |
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over a year ago
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"As a couple that prefer attending couples/singles females nights (which are few and far between) it baffles us why anyone who doesn’t like them thinks it’s a good idea to get rid of them,if you don’t like those nights just don’t attend and let those that do have there fun night out.theres plenty of events that we are not keen on but we’d never suggest they should be done away with just because there not for us,we just wouldn’t attend but hoped that everyone that did attend had a great night.
We are also very interested in the woman on this thread that feel couples have used them or made them feel like a sex toy,what in your experience has happened that made you feel like this as when we have played with a single female we both like to give all our attention to the female and would be gutted if she felt like we didn’t make her feel like she was the most important part of the night.its a shame couples night has gone at eurekas as we like it there but maybe it’s the push we needed to try somewhere else that has a couples night."
Go to pleasures near Maidstone. Saturday night is couples only and much nicer than Eureka |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x
Exactly the same as you. Had enough of couples trying to use me as an extra Ann summers toy. And or for their hubby to wank off too whilst watching on. So I blocked couples on here as well as I no longer go looking for them.
Sorry... but single girls looking for single guys is just normal dating.... there are countless clubs where you can do that.
my husband and I enjoy swinging with other couples.... which is not quite as mainstream, so it’s a shame to lose any night, anywhere.
To be honest.... from my experience, and what I’ve seen with friends.... single girls/guys are best avoided.
Someone's a bit passive aggressive
I like nights for couples and singles. I like to play with couples in a relationship, married, fuck buddies, etc. I like singles, guys and girls.
What I don't like is to be made to be a play thing by any of the above couples or singles. It should all be mutual fun. I'm single now but I've had swinging relationships so still consider myself a swinger. And I'm doing alright if my veris are anything to go by.
As long as i get mine I'm happy
What a double standard!!! Here you are saying you like to have fun wi5h single guys and yet you block then from messaging you..
Someone in fab did say wisely, some people here really have double standards !!!
You do know that some people block single men from messaging as they prefer to approach people themselves rather than having to trawl through mass mail !
Hardly double standards , it's a clever thing to do if you want to find the right men
Sorry, it isn't clever thing. It's double standards. It's like you claim to be on diet yet one eat sugar everyday "
It's not double standards at all. Judging by the comments I've read on this site over the years about the volume and 'quality' of messages most women are bombarded with, if I was a single woman on here looking for men I would block them too and do my own searching. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Tbh far too much interst goes into couples I'm a single female and prefer single males as I find way too many couples wont play alone and treat the single lady as a play thing for their fantasies i never attend couples and single ladies nights x be interested to see how other single females feel x "
Agree with you here as I'm actively looking for single guys, make halves of couples are already attached so no point in me meeting them. |
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I've always been surprised that the club doesn't do more couples nights as it's never struck me as a great club for single guys in the first place. Music's too loud to start a conversation easily, not great from a voyeur's point of view either, great when the weather is nice or if you smoke and are happy to sit outside for half the night anyway but certainly a more fun night out if you're there with someone, or a group. Went to one couples night end of last year, really liked the atmosphere, would definitely go back after the revamp.
For those girls who want A single guy, but not a mob of us, I'd recommend OurPlace4Fun in North London on Saturday nights. They let in a handful and pretty sure they do vet them. |
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