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Hello people. Hope you are all good this evening..
I'd really like to attend a club. But I'm very shy.. I'm in North Wales and hear there is a few not to far from me. But I'm just scared  haha. Can anyone recommend a club or event that would suit me being a complete newbie haha. Im confident once I'm settled but boy would I be bricking it walking through the doors lol..
What was everyone's first experience at a club like?  |
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"The Townhouse would be good for you. Have a look at their v comprehensive website, especially the bits re single men and newbies. "
I was just going to write something similar.
Townhouse is a great place.
They also do a Live Lounge night every now and again on a Thursday £10 each to get in, no pressure to play and give you a chance to be shown around a club and find out all the rules. Plus it’s a very socialable night so there will be plenty of swingers to chat to |
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"Hello people. Hope you are all good this evening..
I'd really like to attend a club. But I'm very shy.. I'm in North Wales and hear there is a few not to far from me. But I'm just scared haha. Can anyone recommend a club or event that would suit me being a complete newbie haha. Im confident once I'm settled but boy would I be bricking it walking through the doors lol..
What was everyone's first experience at a club like? "
Checkout the reviews on here for AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent. Really chilled out nightclub style. |
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"The Townhouse would be good for you. Have a look at their v comprehensive website, especially the bits re single men and newbies. "
People have told me about this club. Don't get me wrong I have nothing to hide. I'm not hung like a donkey or anything. But it's OK I suppose. I've never had a any issues
But I was told something a long the lines you have to dress down at a certain time? Is this correct for even the newbie nights 
I wouldn't be comfortable being made to do something I wasn't sure on. 
Are they welcoming places or do you really have to be as confident as James bond |
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I can't speak for newbies nights or the Townhouse.
But we've all been new at some point. We all (should) get it. It is daunting and weird. But hopefully not for long.
Dress down isn't a huge deal. For a guy, you can just wrap yourself in a towel. Again, weird, but everyone else is too so it's not so bad.
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Like, take the children out of a local supermarket, and imagine the people left. That's what you'll find in a club. All ages, shapes and sizes. It's fine.
Be polite, ask club rules, be sociable, stay sober, and you stand the chance of having a great time. |
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"I can't speak for newbies nights or the Townhouse.
But we've all been new at some point. We all (should) get it. It is daunting and weird. But hopefully not for long.
Dress down isn't a huge deal. For a guy, you can just wrap yourself in a towel. Again, weird, but everyone else is too so it's not so bad.
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Like, take the children out of a local supermarket, and imagine the people left. That's what you'll find in a club. All ages, shapes and sizes. It's fine.
Be polite, ask club rules, be sociable, stay sober, and you stand the chance of having a great time. "
Thanks. Yes being polite is just natural. So is sociable once I've broke the ice...
Yes it's kinda how I imagined it would be aswel. I'll do some more reading on a few of there website and decide a night ha  |
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"I can't speak for newbies nights or the Townhouse.
But we've all been new at some point. We all (should) get it. It is daunting and weird. But hopefully not for long.
Dress down isn't a huge deal. For a guy, you can just wrap yourself in a towel. Again, weird, but everyone else is too so it's not so bad.
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Like, take the children out of a local supermarket, and imagine the people left. That's what you'll find in a club. All ages, shapes and sizes. It's fine.
Be polite, ask club rules, be sociable, stay sober, and you stand the chance of having a great time.
Thanks. Yes being polite is just natural. So is sociable once I've broke the ice...
Yes it's kinda how I imagined it would be aswel. I'll do some more reading on a few of there website and decide a night ha "
In the bar area, think about it a bit like a pub. Except some/all people will be wearing less clothes, and there are rooms for immediate action if you want it. And people are more likely to want to talk to strangers. Say hi, make small talk, once you think everyone is comfortable ask if they might want to play. If it's a couple, talk to the man and woman, not just one or the other. |
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"I can't speak for newbies nights or the Townhouse.
But we've all been new at some point. We all (should) get it. It is daunting and weird. But hopefully not for long.
Dress down isn't a huge deal. For a guy, you can just wrap yourself in a towel. Again, weird, but everyone else is too so it's not so bad.
Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Like, take the children out of a local supermarket, and imagine the people left. That's what you'll find in a club. All ages, shapes and sizes. It's fine.
Be polite, ask club rules, be sociable, stay sober, and you stand the chance of having a great time.
Thanks. Yes being polite is just natural. So is sociable once I've broke the ice...
Yes it's kinda how I imagined it would be aswel. I'll do some more reading on a few of there website and decide a night ha
In the bar area, think about it a bit like a pub. Except some/all people will be wearing less clothes, and there are rooms for immediate action if you want it. And people are more likely to want to talk to strangers. Say hi, make small talk, once you think everyone is comfortable ask if they might want to play. If it's a couple, talk to the man and woman, not just one or the other. "
Very well noted ha
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"Hello people. Hope you are all good this evening..
I'd really like to attend a club. But I'm very shy.. I'm in North Wales and hear there is a few not to far from me. But I'm just scared haha. Can anyone recommend a club or event that would suit me being a complete newbie haha. Im confident once I'm settled but boy would I be bricking it walking through the doors lol..
What was everyone's first experience at a club like? "
Attending a club as a single guy can be a grim experience OP, but if you go with an open mind, and expect nothing more than an evening out completely different from anywhere else you’ve ever been, you may be pleasantly surprised.
Feel free to message me for my honest, unbiased appraisal of the club scene as a single guy  |
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"Hello people. Hope you are all good this evening..
I'd really like to attend a club. But I'm very shy.. I'm in North Wales and hear there is a few not to far from me. But I'm just scared haha. Can anyone recommend a club or event that would suit me being a complete newbie haha. Im confident once I'm settled but boy would I be bricking it walking through the doors lol..
What was everyone's first experience at a club like?
Attending a club as a single guy can be a grim experience OP, but if you go with an open mind, and expect nothing more than an evening out completely different from anywhere else you’ve ever been, you may be pleasantly surprised.
Feel free to message me for my honest, unbiased appraisal of the club scene as a single guy "
All I would expect is a evening out that will be alien to me. I Don't think I would even venture to the dress down areas. Well not unless I did feel totally comfortable. I'd just enjoy the excitement and experience of it all.
I've looked at the event calendar on townhouses and the 9th May is kinda catching my eye..
Just got to build up the courage to email them my request
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