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By *r H and Good Pet OP   Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham

We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Xtasia is more a night club guys we’re you stay dressed as chameleons is a dress down club

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

Chams is always our first choice out of the two. We have had a good time at Xtasia too but it is a bit too night club for us.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

Chams chilled dressdown straight away, take your own booze & has 2 x buffets on a Saturday night. Xtasia nightclub most dress vanilla but some sexy and few do dressdown, licenced bar. Xtasia have some great event nights, what are your dates? We enjoy both as totally different xx

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham

We agree, Xstasia for events (we're going to the foam party next month), but Chams for actual sex lol.

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham

Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex.

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By *inkyTink_Sixes666Couple  over a year ago

Midlands

Depends on what you are after from a club and personal preference really. We have been to both.

Chams is dress down straight away, when you arrive you have to walk through the club in your normal clothes and go straight to the locker rooms to get changed. The dress code for men is boxers or a towel and women is sexy underwear.

Xtasia has more of a nightclub feel, where all the playrooms are off the main dance floor, usually about 11pm the daddy’s dress down from their sexy dresses to something a little less comfortable but if you want to walk through the club naked you can. The also have events on a Saturday that offers a buffet.

Personally we prefer Xtasia as we like the social element and to choose if & when we strip.

It really depends on what night you are going and what you are looking for from the experience?

xx

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Depends on what you are after from a club and personal preference really. We have been to both.

Chams is dress down straight away, when you arrive you have to walk through the club in your normal clothes and go straight to the locker rooms to get changed. The dress code for men is boxers or a towel and women is sexy underwear.

Xtasia has more of a nightclub feel, where all the playrooms are off the main dance floor, usually about 11pm the daddy’s dress down from their sexy dresses to something a little less comfortable but if you want to walk through the club naked you can. The also have events on a Saturday that offers a buffet.

Personally we prefer Xtasia as we like the social element and to choose if & when we strip.

It really depends on what night you are going and what you are looking for from the experience?

xx"

Took me a min to work out the auto spell....think it was meant to be "ladies"

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By *inkyTink_Sixes666Couple  over a year ago

Midlands


"Depends on what you are after from a club and personal preference really. We have been to both.

Chams is dress down straight away, when you arrive you have to walk through the club in your normal clothes and go straight to the locker rooms to get changed. The dress code for men is boxers or a towel and women is sexy underwear.

Xtasia has more of a nightclub feel, where all the playrooms are off the main dance floor, usually about 11pm the daddy’s dress down from their sexy dresses to something a little less comfortable but if you want to walk through the club naked you can. The also have events on a Saturday that offers a buffet.

Personally we prefer Xtasia as we like the social element and to choose if & when we strip.

It really depends on what night you are going and what you are looking for from the experience?

xx

Took me a min to work out the auto spell....think it was meant to be "ladies" "

oh my gosh yes it was ladies! This is why I should never be allowed to reply on a phone! My predictive text does not know me at all! ha ha

xx

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By *nSeeNMan  over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Id say Xtasia

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would definitely say Xtasia! If you want a place that’s relaxed, friendly and welcoming this is it!! The staff at _tasia are 2nd to none, they alway go that extra mile for their guests!!

Red Carpet event in March is an amazing event!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry


"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. "

We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty.

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By *uliaChrisCouple  over a year ago

westerham


"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex.

We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty."

They also do a nice Coq au vin

And Meatballs. And some custard creams on the bar

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex.

We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty.

They also do a nice Coq au vin

And Meatballs. And some custard creams on the bar"

Yes have had the bar buffet experience

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By *wing66Couple  over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

They are both fantastic clubs, depending on what you are after though depends which you want to go to. There is a lot more sex at chams than _tasia but is a dress down club so that is to be expected.

Xtasia is great for the nightclub feel

Chams is great for a chilled sex fueled night.

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By *eltic CplCouple  over a year ago

Kildare

We have been to Xtasia many times and found it to a very well run club, but very little fun there, we are back over this weekend and are trying Chams

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People are more relaxed at Chams and there is more chance of play there but in reality both are good clubs and lots of fun.

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By *ecky2000Couple  over a year ago

Birmingham

We've never been to Chams but we regularly attend Xtasia and it's a fantastic club, friendly and always lots of fun to be had . It does have a nightclub feel and is great for socialising but there is also lots of opportunities to play xx

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By *talian PassionMan  over a year ago

Chelmsford

Both are great

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By *ilkenWoman  over a year ago

Manchester

Different sorts of clubs it depends what you are looknig for but both are good in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone off to chams naked Tuesday today??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely Chams for me and as said before Xtasia for events.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We prefer Xtasia when we can get

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We much prefer chams. Always lots of fun and the Jacuzzi's are always fab although can be a bit much for the eyes with the chlorine.

We have only been once to _tasia and we didn't enjoy as much as chams but seemed like a fun place. Xx

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By *umpkinMan  over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"We much prefer chams. Always lots of fun and the Jacuzzi's are always fab although can be a bit much for the eyes with the chlorine.

We have only been once to _tasia and we didn't enjoy as much as chams but seemed like a fun place. Xx"

Chams has recently had some additional ventilation put in at least one of the jaccuzzis which should improve things. Problems really start if people don`t shower before using them and the chlorine will give off that eye stinging smell because it`s doing it`s job. Some perfumes or deodorants can have the same effect too apparently.

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By *rMrsRandyCouple  over a year ago

Mids


"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. "

That settles it then ??

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex.

That settles it then ??"

Join the queue for the buffet at 10.30pm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can I be added to guestlist please x

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By *lwenWoman  over a year ago

De12 area


"Can I be added to guestlist please x"

Which guest list??

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By *itch269Couple  over a year ago

Horley

Having attended Xtasia instead of Chams last month we can only say what a massive mistake. They are as different as chalk and cheese. Xtasia was all about waiting around and people dressed to impress whereas Chams is all about having filthy fun with like minded people who just don't judge or pigeon hole people. Not everyone is the same but massive thumbs up for Chams! We felt we had wasted a night at Xstasia

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By *reelanderMan  over a year ago

rotherham

Thinking of trying this club tomoz night friday as ive heard lots of positive stuff about it.cant decide weather to stay in a room or drive back

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool

we are staying at west bromich premier inn and wanting to do chams on friday then _tasias on saturday how much would taxi be to chams thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chams.

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool


"Chams."
yes chams darlston from west bromich premier inn

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By *rK MrsJCouple  over a year ago

Kidderminster


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance! "

Chams every time you've got Jacuzzis,sauna, steam room and a dungeon and plenty of rooms to play if you want.

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By *hickennchipsWoman  over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Chams every time

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By *oobs1Woman  over a year ago

Sussex

Didn’t like Xtasia at all, found it very cliquey...

Chameleons is an absolute winner every time and the staff are amazing

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"They are both fantastic clubs, depending on what you are after though depends which you want to go to. There is a lot more sex at chams than _tasia but is a dress down club so that is to be expected.

Xtasia is great for the nightclub feel

Chams is great for a chilled sex fueled night."

Whilst yes we love Chams, live there if we could, we like to add Xtasia to the mix. They have some great events coming up, Foam Party, Red Carpet etc which add another dynamic. Both totally different and its nice to glam up sometimes

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By *ENOMMMan  over a year ago

Good lovin


"Having attended Xtasia instead of Chams last month we can only say what a massive mistake. They are as different as chalk and cheese. Xtasia was all about waiting around and people dressed to impress whereas Chams is all about having filthy fun with like minded people who just don't judge or pigeon hole people. Not everyone is the same but massive thumbs up for Chams! We felt we had wasted a night at Xstasia "

I agree

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By *ootymilfCouple  over a year ago

Tamworth

Xtasias every time . We've been to chameleon's a few times on couples nights and mixed night's . The mixed night's were a nitemare guys just kept pestering us and a few wouldn't take no for a answer , has put us off chameleon's plus we both love the fact we can stay dressed in _tasias and we find that more appealing as if you meet a couple you like or a guy you get to see how well dressed or sexy they are and like the suspense of what's under those clothes . Guys at _tasias much more respectful . We've been attending _tasias now 5 years and every time we go have a fantastic time . Great team there and the owners do a fantastic job . We always day try something twice so if you have only been to _tasias once and now saying it's rubbish you are definitely wrong . Xtasias everytime for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you want a nightclub and people looking down at you Xstasia!

If you actually want to play then chams

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By *jEuphoriaCouple  over a year ago

north kent


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance! "

We live hours away, so we do both.

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By *londie8399Couple  over a year ago

blackpool


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance!

We live hours away, so we do both. "

thats what we do as well and make a weekend of it

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance! "

Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good.

Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub!

Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works.

Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do.

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance!

Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good.

Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub!

Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works.

Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do. "

The massive dance floor and nightclub vibe swings it for us...oh and the Sexy barmaid twisting across the dance floor! So it's a drink and a dance, some sexy fun, another drink and a dance, more sexy fun then finish the night with...a drink and a dance. Xtasia for us

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By *inkyTink_Sixes666Couple  over a year ago

Midlands


"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March.

What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer?

Thanks in advance!

Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good.

Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub!

Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works.

Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do. "

Great response! All the clubs are very different and to be honest the best way to find out if they are for you is to try them. The thing is, what works for one, may not always work for another, so always best to experience it and decide for yourself.

xx

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By *eltic CplCouple  over a year ago

Kildare

Just back from a weekend at Chams,

While we could never fault Xtasia

Chams would be our first port of call if now travelling across the Irish sea

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By *reelanderMan  over a year ago

rotherham

Just done fri and sat at chams and must say its the best club ive been to.each club has bits that u like and dislike but cant find anything id alter at chams

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By *ffanotdykeCouple  over a year ago

Telford

It all depends on what you want. Chams is a fantastic swingers venue. Xtasia is a rather tired and scruffy night club.

We have been to both in the past but now we only go to one, Guess which!

G&A

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By *irtySekretsCouple  over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We go to Clubs to Swing and have Sex with other like minded people. We don’t go for Fancy Dress or Foam Parties.

So to that end we recommend Chams. It’s a Sexy Place from the off. Not a Dated Night Club xx

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By *ootymilfCouple  over a year ago

Tamworth

Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

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By *eltic CplCouple  over a year ago

Kildare


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples "

Such a shame we fall into that bracket , whilst not young we are not due for a visit to the nursing home just yet, hence our next visit across will be Chams

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples "

That's abit below the belt, people like different things.

I'm neither geriatric or part of a couple and I attend chams with several single male and female friends. You're not doing _tasia any favours with these types of comments either.

As an aside, I like both clubs but I do prefer the dress down element of chams.

Xtasia do some amazing theme nights, my favourite is the foam party, so much filthy, soggy fun to be had.

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich

Time out folks...peace and love and all that.

Try both over time and see what works for you. Simples.

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich

Whilst on this thread, might be worth mentioning another couple of things.

When we took over Xtasia, a good few years ago now, Xtasia and Chams would have never been mentioned in the same paragraph, let alone asking for a comparison, so it is appreciated being up there now, close to what most would suggest is the best club in the country. Still more to do, we know it, but any club who rests on their laurels will soon fall be the wayside.

The other point to mention is that we all have nights where it doesn't quite work out. We have quiet nights, any new couples attending those may not rate the atmosphere and never attend again, going away with the impression the club is dead and boring. We know the same applies at Chams, and equally visitors on those nights will have the same impressions. Its why we always suggest going a good few times to any venue to get an idea of what its really like over time. We do a months free pass to new members, to encourage them to try other nights, that way they may well find a night that really suites them. Anyone who has visited us once, and had a poor night, just call me and I'll happily suggest an evening for them that will show them the other side of the club!

We also fully accept the differences between the two clubs. As someone just pointed out to me, if they were the same then whats the point? We are different, and attract a different core membership. Many of you are members of both, but will still have a preference based on where you feel comfortable.

Anyway, time to go and do more decorating, lol....feels like the Forth Bridge at times!

PS Foam this Saturday Keeley xx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Whilst on this thread, might be worth mentioning another couple of things.

When we took over Xtasia, a good few years ago now, Xtasia and Chams would have never been mentioned in the same paragraph, let alone asking for a comparison, so it is appreciated being up there now, close to what most would suggest is the best club in the country. Still more to do, we know it, but any club who rests on their laurels will soon fall be the wayside.

The other point to mention is that we all have nights where it doesn't quite work out. We have quiet nights, any new couples attending those may not rate the atmosphere and never attend again, going away with the impression the club is dead and boring. We know the same applies at Chams, and equally visitors on those nights will have the same impressions. Its why we always suggest going a good few times to any venue to get an idea of what its really like over time. We do a months free pass to new members, to encourage them to try other nights, that way they may well find a night that really suites them. Anyone who has visited us once, and had a poor night, just call me and I'll happily suggest an evening for them that will show them the other side of the club!

We also fully accept the differences between the two clubs. As someone just pointed out to me, if they were the same then whats the point? We are different, and attract a different core membership. Many of you are members of both, but will still have a preference based on where you feel comfortable.

Anyway, time to go and do more decorating, lol....feels like the Forth Bridge at times!

PS Foam this Saturday Keeley xx"

Totally agree, that's why we are members of both. We joined Chams first but now mix it up with Xtasia as the events are awesome. We love the social aspect of both but Xtasia for being able to glam up for certain events is what we love. See you all in the foam Saturday xx

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By *irtySekretsCouple  over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples "

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx"

Absolutely sure you'd be welcome at both.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chams chams chams

100%

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands

Some unnecessary criticism of both clubs here depending on peoples favourite. Both are great swinging venues, both with plus and minus points. The best advice to the OP is to try one club, then next time try the other. Make your own mind up. What a boring world if we all liked the same things

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx"

I've been to _tasia plenty of times and I don't class myself as one of the 'beautiful' people and I've never felt as if I'm looked down on.

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By *ootymilfCouple  over a year ago

Tamworth


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx"

We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chams for me, but I'm not into nightclubs which is why I know Xstasia wouldn't be for me.

Depends what sort of vibe you want. Dress down and play then chams. Dress to impress with probably more a social element, then Xstasia.

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By *k_intriguedCouple  over a year ago

Warwickshire

We have almost no experience, but have ventured to Xtasia.

Unfortunately we went on what seemed to be a quiet night, so didn't fully experience the atmosphere. What we did experience was how welcoming the staff and other guests where. Not once did we feel out of place. We were certainly not looked down upon, and I didn't feel anyone else was.

It had a night club feel, but they make no secret of that. This worked for us, because we would certainly not want a full dress down place (not at this stage anyway), but no judgement on those that do - I can see the appeal.

We'd love to go back on a busier night if we get the chance.

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By *jonesMan  over a year ago

Plymouth

Keep an eye on the invites lists for the different night's or events and you will get an idea of the busy night's... and also the mix of attendees..

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Keep an eye on the invites lists for the different night's or events and you will get an idea of the busy night's... and also the mix of attendees.."
lol, I'd be careful about that, the long lists tend to run for months and have lots of no shows, the short lists often are for popular events where folks know they don't need to be on the lists. Lock and Key last weekend had 5 on guest list and over 60 couples turned up. Expecting similar for Foam, and if everyone shows for FFFF weekender at the end of March, I'll be gobsmacked. But yes, they can be a guide.

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By *irtySekretsCouple  over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx

We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx"

Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol.

Xxxx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx

We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx

Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol.

Xxxx"

Your inhibitions & clothes lol xx

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By *umpkinMan  over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"………... Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples "

Of my recent visits to Chams, I`ve had exceedingly more difficulty finding couples and ladies of my own age! It seems a more younger group of people are now attending there.

But then, it depends on your own interpretation of "geriatric couples" is!

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By *tasiaCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples

We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people.

We certainly don’t want to be looked down on.

We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go?

xx

We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx

Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol.

Xxxx

Your inhibitions & clothes lol xx"

lol, look forward to showing you both around as and when.

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By *ostsoulsCouple  over a year ago

Nottingham

Can’t wait to visit Xtasia two weeks tomorrow!

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By *ootymilfCouple  over a year ago

Tamworth

Definitely do try it .. everyone is friendly lumps and bumps like the rest of us.... xx

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By *jonesMan  over a year ago

Plymouth

Thanks for that ..I guess as a rule events nights with couples and single ladies are on balance busier.....

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