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Joining club 1st time, advice please.
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If or when we get the opportunity, we were thinking of going to a club.
Please advise on what we require?
1,what form of id is acceptable for joining a club? as we don't have valid passports, only ones 20 years old. I have drivers license, so I'm ok, what could the wife provide?
2,what clubs or days best for newcomers?
3,are there any clubs closer to Warwick or Warwickshire area? but thinking of trying Chams or Xtasia,they sound interesting.
4,the Mrs will be ok but I wouldn't know what to wear? as I only have combat trousers and t-shirts with cartoon or movie characters on and stuff like that. Do some places need smarter dress?
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"If or when we get the opportunity, we were thinking of going to a club.
Please advise on what we require?
1,what form of id is acceptable for joining a club? as we don't have valid passports, only ones 20 years old. I have drivers license, so I'm ok, what could the wife provide?
2,what clubs or days best for newcomers?
3,are there any clubs closer to Warwick or Warwickshire area? but thinking of trying Chams or Xtasia,they sound interesting.
4,the Mrs will be ok but I wouldn't know what to wear? as I only have combat trousers and t-shirts with cartoon or movie characters on and stuff like that. Do some places need smarter dress?
Hope this is OK to post here and thank you taking the time to read it."
Any other advice you can give will be greatly appreciated thank you |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Regarding ID. Clubs have different rules . Many would accept something with her name and address like a recent utility bill .
Clothing. Again it depends on which club. In Chams you would walk around in boxer shorts, or a towel so clothing not important. Other clubs have dress codes.
Pretty sure club's would show you around and answer any questions if you explain you are new.
Some club's you have to join in advance and others you can join on the night.
For all clubs...be friendly and chatty and just relax and see how it feels. Don't worry about getting involved or doing anything...just explore and chat to people and see what it's like.
Check out the club reviews and then look at the club website for more information on each club's joining procedure, specific events, prices, dress code etc. |
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We joined Xtasia about a month ago, first time club goers. Neither of us have photo ID so called to explain, saying we'd got bank cards & bank statements. The owner, Paul, laughed & said "Not being rude but by the sound of your voice I don't think being under 18 is going to be a problem is it?" That did make me smile! The ID we had was sufficient  We've been the last 3 Saturdays, couples & single women only. Men were smart casual, shirt, plain polo shirt, smart t-shirts, trousers or smart jeans. Women were wearing everything from quite conservative dresses to bodystockings to sexy lingerie, some just bra & pants, it seems anything goes for us girls! The club websites we've looked at answered most of our queries in the FAQ or there's usually a contact number if there's anything extra you need to know & we found it helped us feel a bit more relaxed having spoken to a real life person! We're thinking of trying Chams next weekend, going to brave a "dress down" club! I did dress down halfway through the night last weekend but it'll be Bert's first time so watch this space! Wherever you end up going have fun!  |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
If ur ever in manchester come give cupids a try its a dress down straight away but its a byob service too and the people are so friendly youll have a good time x |
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