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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all bit of a random thought. After spending some time on here it's interesting to see the age gaps appearing of the regulars and club attendees such as mid 20s then 40s and upwards. Wonder why it is not as popular with younger generations and could this be changed? Maybe themed nights targeted to 18 to 30s or something like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That would be discrimination towards the more mature gentleman like myself.
Find someone on here that suits your age preference and arrange a meet in a club ..
Club's are open to all ages shapes and sizes for this reason  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That would be discrimination towards the more mature gentleman like myself.
Find someone on here that suits your age preference and arrange a meet in a club ..
Club's are open to all ages shapes and sizes for this reason "
I'm not trying to discriminate, it seems from the outside that it's for the older couple especially with comedy programs having swingers who are older.
Would it be good to get younger people more involved especially to keep business increasing at clubs too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all bit of a random thought. After spending some time on here it's interesting to see the age gaps appearing of the regulars and club attendees such as mid 20s then 40s and upwards. Wonder why it is not as popular with younger generations and could this be changed? Maybe themed nights targeted to 18 to 30s or something like that "
This!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every time a young guy comes on here all he gets is everyone telling him your too young go to normal clubs and meet girl's your own age, they can't win."
Ironically enough though, it reflects Vanillaland in general. There's not as many under 30s that go "out out" as regularly as there used to be. To hear music they like they can access it anywhere, for pulling there's the likes of tinder and micro pubs tailor to much smaller groups. |
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"Xtasia does an occasional night called "Youthful Exuberance" aimed at under 40s.
Anyone know of any other especially up north?
Townhouse do events for under 40's x"
Whats the under 40's night at Townhouse called and does anyone know when is it on?
Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Xtasia does an occasional night called "Youthful Exuberance" aimed at under 40s.
Anyone know of any other especially up north?
Townhouse do events for under 40's x"
Cheshire kink run an event called Allure @ Townhouse, its for ages 18-39 and is a fantastic night for some of the younger lot that are on here.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/845711
This link will take you to their event thread with all the info on it you'll need and ifv, needs be you can message the organisers to answer any questions that the thread doesn't.
Hope this helps
Preston |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time a young guy comes on here all he gets is everyone telling him your too young go to normal clubs and meet girl's your own age, they can't win.
Ironically enough though, it reflects Vanillaland in general. There's not as many under 30s that go "out out" as regularly as there used to be. To hear music they like they can access it anywhere, for pulling there's the likes of tinder and micro pubs tailor to much smaller groups."
This is true. It’s more of a festival vibe now than the traditional bars and nightclubs I grew up in. I never really used to think about swinging clubs as pulling in clubs was super easy in my 20’s. Loved it!
I’ve never been a regular at clubs as such, but have noticed one or two younger couples popping in these days. I think it takes a bit to find yourself if I’m honest and that tends to happen a bit later in life. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"That would be discrimination towards the more mature gentleman like myself.
Find someone on here that suits your age preference and arrange a meet in a club ..
Club's are open to all ages shapes and sizes for this reason "
I don't think its meaning to be discriminating mate. I personally like nights aimed at a younger crowd because I prefer men around my age not 20 years older. Maybe the younger crowds feel comfortable and more compatible with people more their own age.
As a yonger female I have sometimes felt uncomfortable in a club with men who are alot older. |
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"Xtasia does an occasional night called "Youthful Exuberance" aimed at under 40s.
Anyone know of any other especially up north?
Townhouse do events for under 40's x
Cheshire kink run an event called Allure @ Townhouse, its for ages 18-39 and is a fantastic night for some of the younger lot that are on here.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/845711
This link will take you to their event thread with all the info on it you'll need and ifv, needs be you can message the organisers to answer any questions that the thread doesn't.
Hope this helps
Preston"
Thanks Preston! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time a young guy comes on here all he gets is everyone telling him your too young go to normal clubs and meet girl's your own age, they can't win."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thanks Preston... 
We host Allure at Townhouse on the Wirral. The next event is on Fri 22nd Feb and as Preston pointed out all the info for the event is on the forum thread and our profile, if you do have any questions please ask x |
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"That would be discrimination towards the more mature gentleman like myself.
Find someone on here that suits your age preference and arrange a meet in a club ..
Club's are open to all ages shapes and sizes for this reason
I'm not trying to discriminate, it seems from the outside that it's for the older couple especially with comedy programs having swingers who are older.
Would it be good to get younger people more involved especially to keep business increasing at clubs too. "
Some clubs have 40+ nights so why not for the younger crowd |
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"Xtasia does an occasional night called "Youthful Exuberance" aimed at under 40s.
Anyone know of any other especially up north?"
Townhouse on the Wirral do an under 39 night called Allure the next one is 22nd February x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Think the numbers would be too low on an under 30’s night for a club to go with that judging by the ages of most people on here, I heard the numbers fell on the under 40’s night when people had to bring ID lol
All good in theory though  |
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"I didn't have the mental capacity for this at 18. Most men don't at 30, so probably not the best idea."
This, whilst we never discriminate age wise we have noticed in clubs over the years that the youngest tend to over indulge then disappear abruptly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any suggestions for clubs with younger visitors"
I know JayDees in St Neots had an Under 40s event recently. Don't know if that will be a regular thing but heard from friends who were there that it was really good for them. There is a thread about it under the events forum I believe. Hope this helps. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should there be a age cap we are all swingers I know some like older and others like younger , I been with couples and singles in there 20s to in there 50s for private meets and in clubs and I am a older guy enjoy this lifestyle |
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"Nothing to worry about Op.... the clubs are not worrying about attracting the younger generation because all couples stay 50 forever on Fab...... It's called age fluid   "
Fantastic, glad we joined |
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you could try speaking to a club and see if you can arrange an 18-30 themed night at their venue. Although would suggest less alcohol lol