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Could a man go to a club on his own?
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By *onjules OP Man
over a year ago
Llandovery |
Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?
I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.
What are your thoughts peeps? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
To be fair there is quite a few single guy creeps who go to clubs. Some have creeped me out just chatting or looking at them.
1 of my proudest Veris says how I'm not creepy like some single males.   |
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All of the above. Guys who come across as creepy in a club will come across as creepy in a library too!!
If you can behave like a decent human being, you’ll be fine!
Single guys are the mainstay of most clubs. I know swinging is very much a female led community, but no single guys & you’d soon start losing your female clubbers too!! |
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Just go along and don't be a dick. All the same social etiquette and norms for going to a normal club apply. Think that you may be surprised how easy it is to talk to people.
I can suffer from social anxiety but can honestly say that almost all clubs I have visited have proven so relaxed that it hasn't been an issue. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?
I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.
What are your thoughts peeps?"
The issue you'll have is finding a woman who won't think you're just using her to get into clubs at a reduced cost, plus, some men are just complete douche canoes and make us look bad as it reflects on us if we bring in idiots.
Having said that, I'd love to see more single guys in clubs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Course you can op
Nothing to be frightened off pal
Just go and enjoy yourself,have a bit of banter and chat with your fellow club goers and take in the atmosphere
Honestly it's just an amazing experience and hopefully you'll go back and start getting to know a few
*don't be one of the wanking dead is my tip of the day, not a good look
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP why not pal up with another single guy who wants a friend to go to a club with? The single ladies thread is about girls wanting a friend to go to a club with, not a potential fuck/date. I don't see why you would need a female to go to a club with you unless you are expecting something to happen, and that's the reason most women won't take guy they don't know to a club. If you feel you need a friend to walk in with, buddy up with another guy rather than expecting a woman who doesn't know you to babysit you for the evening.
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?
I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.
What are your thoughts peeps?"
I think everyone else has nailed this, creepy men are creepy everywhere.
Yes, single men can go to a club, many clubs welcome them.
Find a club you like the look of, read the reviews and if it looks like your kind of club get in touch.
Ask all of your questions and when you're comfortable, rock up.
They'll probably give you a tour and tell you the rules and probably introduce you to a few people.
Do be smart and polite.
Dont be a dick or expect to have fun on your first visit, don't be in a rush to get your old boy wet.
It might take you a few visits to be recognised and trusted.
Go, have a blast!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been to a couple of club nights on my own - can be fun !"
And I bet once you arrived you didn't feel scared or out of place in the slightest pal
Everyone's on the same boat
No one's better than you
No one's worse than you
Level playing field is the saying I'd choose
If your apprehensive op you'll take that apprehension with you
Leave it behind with your inhibitions too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?
I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.
What are your thoughts peeps?"
If you socialise you won't be creepy!
Enjoy! |
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By *andyladMan
over a year ago
Hereorthere |
Yeah I go every now and then solo, don't follow around be polite and don't just whip you're cock out and wank at the merest sight of something going on.
And unless you're shy like me try and chat |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I go to OP4F on my own I am fairly comfortable with this as at the end of the day if you are well mannered and try to socialise you will fit in anywhere I go with the attitude to chat and have a good night and anything more is a bonus.When I chat to couples I always chat to both the male and female as I believe it shows respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?
I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.
What are your thoughts peeps?"
get self down there try out the glory holes ive heard there good |
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