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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? |
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? "
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? "
Do you mean paid women so to speak? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, just because it’s greedy girls night it does not mean you have to join in, you can watch or just ask one guy to join you, it’s totally up to you what you do weather you want on guy or more or like I said just watch others. John |
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"Greedy girls as probably the only nights where it's worth going as a single guy
Dont agree at all, although if you go to a club thinking you’ll play for sure then dont go. "
Speaking from my own club experiences, the reason I agreed with this statement, is because I feel a greedy girl style event is the one time when single guys are positively encouraged to attend, and the couples and singe ladies are actively looking for single guys to be present. It wasn't about expectations of play  |
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? "
I used to go regularly as a greedy girl to a few clubs. I didn't always play. I have always welcomed and encouraged newbies. I don't think it makes guys think all the ladies are like that.
For instance I can go just to watch and the guys are quick to understand and respect that. There is room at clubs for all types of fun x |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Greedy girls performing? I see that as quiet derogatory. If a lady enjoys having sex with more than one guy and it's in an open area, is that a bad thing ?
It's not performing, it's having a bloody good time.
If it's the same ladies who are there, then well done them.
I go to greedy girls events , as there tends to be a good number of single guys there. Sometimes I just go to chat and meet up with friends. Sometimes I have some fun with a chap I have met before.
Occasionally I enjoy playing with a new chap.
But nobody should go with expectations about whether or not they will have sex.
Like any other night, just go along and have fun whether watching, meeting people and arranging future meets, building friendships or having sex. It's all good !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Greedy girls as probably the only nights where it's worth going as a single guy Nah, some greedy girls are usually the most unattractive women. "
What a crap and selfish comment to make, we know a lot of greedy girls and they certainly are not unattractive that’s for sure. I would say have a look in the mirror but going off your profile pictures you already are  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Greedy girls as probably the only nights where it's worth going as a single guy Nah, some greedy girls are usually the most unattractive women.
What a crap and selfish comment to make, we know a lot of greedy girls and they certainly are not unattractive that’s for sure. I would say have a look in the mirror but going off your profile pictures you already are "
Not meaning to offend it has just been my experience a couple of times. I didn't say all were unattractive. |
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? "
Is this club local to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you charge? Don't know any greedy girls that charge. Just do it because they enjoy the exhibitionist side of it and the lots of sex. "
That’s my point, the girls are not going to a greedy girls event, they advertise they will be at the club..... and rumour has it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
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It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
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Not always safe though, some bad men will try it on without condoms etc. Make sure you have a wingman to watch your back. Sheepdogs like myself can't always be around. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle. "
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion?
Is this club local to you"
Fairly local yes |
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"Do you charge? Don't know any greedy girls that charge. Just do it because they enjoy the exhibitionist side of it and the lots of sex.
That’s my point, the girls are not going to a greedy girls event, they advertise they will be at the club..... and rumour has it.... "
I am pretty much a gg all the time.. I make exceptions for special people... I go to many events not just gg |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Greedy girls performing? I see that as quiet derogatory. If a lady enjoys having sex with more than one guy and it's in an open area, is that a bad thing ?
It's not performing, it's having a bloody good time.
If it's the same ladies who are there, then well done them.
I go to greedy girls events , as there tends to be a good number of single guys there. Sometimes I just go to chat and meet up with friends. Sometimes I have some fun with a chap I have met before.
Occasionally I enjoy playing with a new chap.
But nobody should go with expectations about whether or not they will have sex.
Like any other night, just go along and have fun whether watching, meeting people and arranging future meets, building friendships or having sex. It's all good !!!
Do you charge?"
Do i charge to have sex ? No, of course I do not.
If I have sex , it's for my pleasure.
Have you been to a club or a greedy girls event. ?
I think your questions and comments are dreadful. You obviously do not understand what swinging is about |
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act.... "
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance? |
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance? "
or jealous women... I've had more insults from women than men on this subject |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance? "
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
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Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
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GG don't charge. We also don't perform. We do what we like to do. And yes if I'm going to a club I will advertise I'm going and looking for guys and what for. There is nothing wrong with it. And when I go just to chill... no guys hassle me just because someone maybe there playing in public with lots of guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
GG don't charge. We also don't perform. We do what we like to do. And yes if I'm going to a club I will advertise I'm going and looking for guys and what for. There is nothing wrong with it. And when I go just to chill... no guys hassle me just because someone maybe there playing in public with lots of guys. "
I can assure you some GG’s do charge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x"
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
GG don't charge. We also don't perform. We do what we like to do. And yes if I'm going to a club I will advertise I'm going and looking for guys and what for. There is nothing wrong with it. And when I go just to chill... no guys hassle me just because someone maybe there playing in public with lots of guys.
I can assure you some GG’s do charge "
People have to admit that this does go on. Rules are always broken aren’t they. Be it doing drugs etc ie things were not meant to do or deems taboo x |
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Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
GG don't charge. We also don't perform. We do what we like to do. And yes if I'm going to a club I will advertise I'm going and looking for guys and what for. There is nothing wrong with it. And when I go just to chill... no guys hassle me just because someone maybe there playing in public with lots of guys.
I can assure you some GG’s do charge "
Not at any clubs I've been to. And that's a bloody lot |
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x "
if I got paid for being a gg id have more than an Aston Martin. Never ever apart from at retro and even then the club pays the girls not the customer's have I come across gg that charge. A huge amount of my friends are gg... And to be fair it is insulting to gg such as myself. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
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Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
GG don't charge. We also don't perform. We do what we like to do. And yes if I'm going to a club I will advertise I'm going and looking for guys and what for. There is nothing wrong with it. And when I go just to chill... no guys hassle me just because someone maybe there playing in public with lots of guys.
I can assure you some GG’s do charge "
If individual girls are charging then report them to the club's management or report it to Fabswingers admin.
However, I think you are very much mistaken about what happens in well run swingers club's like the majority of the clubs in the UK.
Regarding single men harassing ladies expecting them to be willing to have sex. I have had requests at club's and a polite no thanks has always been respected.
If you have such negative views about a particular club, then try another club....because most are well run, with staff that are well aware of what goes on and the behaviour you describe would not be tolerated .
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x if I got paid for being a gg id have more than an Aston Martin. Never ever apart from at retro and even then the club pays the girls not the customer's have I come across gg that charge. A huge amount of my friends are gg... And to be fair it is insulting to gg such as myself. "
It’s interesting how this post has been interpreted in a few different ways.... and some have judged....maybe I’m judging too by posting it..... it’s how a clubs ambiance is changed because of it that prompted me to get opinions.... all of a sudden I feel uncomfortable going in case it’s assumed I’m there for same reason...I might sound prudish when I’m not trying to be and I am certainly far from it...we all have our kinks! |
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
can tell you straight have been offered job at couple of brum clubs .for those greedy girls ect for half door take on the sesion [lunch or eve ]have i ,no i have not.not fair to name clubs but very true |
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Whilst there are obviously many women who like being greedy girls for the fun of it, in our experience most gg nights/gangbangs etc for which guys have to pay a fee have women who are obviously paid to be there.
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Whilst there are obviously many women who like being greedy girls for the fun of it, in our experience most gg nights/gangbangs etc for which guys have to pay a fee have women who are obviously paid to be there.
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yea dead on cut out middle man just come round to mine .get 1 for price of three .bring your own co co .and dunkin biccies ,cos you not have mine . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a interesting thread.....
Maybe because I’m American and lack English tact but I find people in this thread to be beating around the bush.....
Just say that certain clubs have sex workers at greedy girls events.....
It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
I feel for the new guys on the scene..... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Whilst there are obviously many women who like being greedy girls for the fun of it, in our experience most gg nights/gangbangs etc for which guys have to pay a fee have women who are obviously paid to be there.
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I wish they had of when I went to some, would of got some value for money. |
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"This is a interesting thread.....
Maybe because I’m American and lack English tact but I find people in this thread to be beating around the bush.....
Just say that certain clubs have sex workers at greedy girls events.....
It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
I feel for the new guys on the scene..... "
Some women only meet in clubs because it's a safe place to meet strangers, not because the club pays them. |
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"This is a interesting thread.....
Maybe because I’m American and lack English tact but I find people in this thread to be beating around the bush.....
Just say that certain clubs have sex workers at greedy girls events.....
It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
I feel for the new guys on the scene.....
Some women only meet in clubs because it's a safe place to meet strangers, not because the club pays them. "
I understand this , but how is a new guy on the scene going to know this?
Club entrance fee plus a membership fee is a expensive lesson.... |
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"Whilst there are obviously many women who like being greedy girls for the fun of it, in our experience most gg nights/gangbangs etc for which guys have to pay a fee have women who are obviously paid to be there.
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rubbish. I've done gg nights at cupids... partners... jaydees. The attic.. townhouse.. New paradise.. xotix extreme.. Adam and eve.. LC...chams and been to sex cinemas.
Never been paid to be there.... none of the other girls have either...
Only clubs I know that do pay the girls is retro club and private club. And even at them. Visiting ladies are treated well.
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"It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
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1st reason is, as a guy, I've got more chance meeting someone at a club than I do just by blindly messaging anyone within a 50 mile radius. Tried that when I first joined in 2012. Didn't get me anywhere and from what I'm reading on here the past year or so, it's gotten worse with all the fakes and timewasters who now infest this site.
For both men and women it's safer to meet in clubs than it is just meeting some random's you blindly message on here. |
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Greedy girls events ain't to bad really.its up to you whether you want to get fuck , gagging for many cocks as you like ,or just sit relax and watch.ive been to quite a few greedy girls events and I did enjoyed it. |
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"Do you charge? Don't know any greedy girls that charge. Just do it because they enjoy the exhibitionist side of it and the lots of sex.
That’s my point, the girls are not going to a greedy girls event, they advertise they will be at the club..... and rumour has it.... "
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"This is a interesting thread.....
Maybe because I’m American and lack English tact but I find people in this thread to be beating around the bush.....
Just say that certain clubs have sex workers at greedy girls events.....
It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
I feel for the new guys on the scene.....
Some women only meet in clubs because it's a safe place to meet strangers, not because the club pays them.
I understand this , but how is a new guy on the scene going to know this?
Club entrance fee plus a membership fee is a expensive lesson...."
I’m in Birmingham this weekend, and looked in to visiting a club while I’m here, but was gobsmacked at the outrageous fees they charge single guys locally! Based on my previous clubs experiences, it really isn’t worth the expense |
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x if I got paid for being a gg id have more than an Aston Martin. Never ever apart from at retro and even then the club pays the girls not the customer's have I come across gg that charge. A huge amount of my friends are gg... And to be fair it is insulting to gg such as myself. "
So they’re getting paid shit money then? If they just own an Austin Martin?
I’ve not meant to insult anyone but here, on Fab, girls are paid to do GG. Fact. Perhaps not you or your friends but it does go on, as does escorting. Like I said above rules get broken. I honestly don’t understand why people can’t just say yeah, it happens. It’s no biggy admitting it. And the OP is more than welcome to show her “ concerns “ over it. As is anyone else. |
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x if I got paid for being a gg id have more than an Aston Martin. Never ever apart from at retro and even then the club pays the girls not the customer's have I come across gg that charge. A huge amount of my friends are gg... And to be fair it is insulting to gg such as myself.
So they’re getting paid shit money then? If they just own an Austin Martin?
I’ve not meant to insult anyone but here, on Fab, girls are paid to do GG. Fact. Perhaps not you or your friends but it does go on, as does escorting. Like I said above rules get broken. I honestly don’t understand why people can’t just say yeah, it happens. It’s no biggy admitting it. And the OP is more than welcome to show her “ concerns “ over it. As is anyone else. "
well not at any of the club's i have been to. And yes already said I know of two clubs that pay the gg to be there... but they advertise the fact. I've been as a normal visitor to those clubs and has the least hassle ever at them. As the guys know there are several girls that will play with them . Therefore no need to hassle the girl that wants to be selective.
I've been swinging for 20 odd years... a greedy girl for most of that... friends with many many club owners and know more gg and guys that go to them than I've had dinners and yet to come across it.
There are parties and private events that charge for gb and the girls get the difference after the room... but I don't go to paid events.
I get free entry and on occasion the odd drink on the house. As I only drink tea. If being allowed 3 free teas is being paid then  |
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... guys do pay to go. Girls are normal club rate or free at most gg events x
No. Ones words were “I paid £30 to her, she’s well off, drives an Austin Martin” and the other paid £100 for a 2 girl GG x if I got paid for being a gg id have more than an Aston Martin. Never ever apart from at retro and even then the club pays the girls not the customer's have I come across gg that charge. A huge amount of my friends are gg... And to be fair it is insulting to gg such as myself.
So they’re getting paid shit money then? If they just own an Austin Martin?
I’ve not meant to insult anyone but here, on Fab, girls are paid to do GG. Fact. Perhaps not you or your friends but it does go on, as does escorting. Like I said above rules get broken. I honestly don’t understand why people can’t just say yeah, it happens. It’s no biggy admitting it. And the OP is more than welcome to show her “ concerns “ over it. As is anyone else. well not at any of the club's i have been to. And yes already said I know of two clubs that pay the gg to be there... but they advertise the fact. I've been as a normal visitor to those clubs and has the least hassle ever at them. As the guys know there are several girls that will play with them . Therefore no need to hassle the girl that wants to be selective.
I've been swinging for 20 odd years... a greedy girl for most of that... friends with many many club owners and know more gg and guys that go to them than I've had dinners and yet to come across it.
There are parties and private events that charge for gb and the girls get the difference after the room... but I don't go to paid events.
I get free entry and on occasion the odd drink on the house. As I only drink tea. If being allowed 3 free teas is being paid then "
No. I’d agree that that is totally different.
But I’m not sure why you’ve said that last line. I’ve not insinuated anything towards you...
Only exchanged conversation.
People are so defensive 
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
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No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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"Just spat my champagne out at that rather derogatory statement sweety ! All the greedy girls I know are all utterly beautiful and play for pure pleasure. "
u mean the beautiful chicks with dicks lol
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful "
1) No of course she doesn’t mean that.
2) Can only say so much on the forums without getting yourself a ban.
3) she enjoys going to GG events and is just as entitled to as the next person. But fundamentally swinging is about “ free” sex isn’t it? But people are using it as a platform to earn. Whether it big or small.
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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"Greedy girls as probably the only nights where it's worth going as a single guy Nah, some greedy girls are usually the most unattractive women.
What a crap and selfish comment to make, we know a lot of greedy girls and they certainly are not unattractive that’s for sure. I would say have a look in the mirror but going off your profile pictures you already are "
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
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Wow, what a charmer. Maybe they have kids at home, maybe in the past a stalker has turned up at her home address uninvited. It's a safe place for women and if the guy is a no show, the lady can still have a good night out.
But I guess with the age range you are willing to meet, you don't need to attend club's, apart from luncheon clubs and bingo . |
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I know a few friends on fab who do it and get paid to do it. They promote on their status about going to a club on such a night to get all ppl interested in them to go and get many ppl at the club as possible. But doesnt mean you get to play with her |
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"I know a few friends on fab who do it and get paid to do it. They promote on their status about going to a club on such a night to get all ppl interested in them to go and get many ppl at the club as possible. But doesnt mean you get to play with her"
this exactly! And one of the girls profile is gone. |
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
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Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events |
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events "
I know how you feel to an extent.
We find fab has changed a lot. The single man is almost as hard to find as the elusive unicorn. The abundance of escorts here makes it difficult. People will disagree but it’s true. Been told plenty of times and seen plenty of statuses. They’re sabotaging meets.
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"This is a interesting thread.....
Maybe because I’m American and lack English tact but I find people in this thread to be beating around the bush.....
Just say that certain clubs have sex workers at greedy girls events.....
It’s funny to me because everyone of the help me meet people threads by single guys are always answered by GO TO A CLUB....
Then you have women’s profiles that state only looking to meet in clubs....
I feel for the new guys on the scene.....
Some women only meet in clubs because it's a safe place to meet strangers, not because the club pays them.
I understand this , but how is a new guy on the scene going to know this?
Club entrance fee plus a membership fee is a expensive lesson...."
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events
I know how you feel to an extent.
We find fab has changed a lot. The single man is almost as hard to find as the elusive unicorn. The abundance of escorts here makes it difficult. People will disagree but it’s true. Been told plenty of times and seen plenty of statuses. They’re sabotaging meets.
God I sound soooo dramatic "
What I mean my know how you feel. I mean as in the attitude from single guys. They talk to you like you’re an escort. That’s what I mean. |
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"I have been told by a few guys that they have paid to go to these events.... "
I know the same. It does happen.
At one club we went to, the man on the door was telling all the men as they went in that they'd definitely get fucks that night as it was GG night.  It made it a very creepy atmosphere. |
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1) No of course she doesn’t mean that.
2) Can only say so much on the forums without getting yourself a ban.
3) she enjoys going to GG events and is just as entitled to as the next person. But fundamentally swinging is about “ free” sex isn’t it? But people are using it as a platform to earn. Whether it big or small.
Mrs Carter "
Sorry, I never realised you were now answering questions on behalf of other members.
1) So then what does she mean? As the words she's chosen to use are very much open to interpretation.
2)Fair point but again it's all opinion that people try and state matter of factly. I'd be interested to find out what club if the OP wants to PM me.
3) It is about free sex sure, but like anything if people are willing to pay then someone will probably offer it (this is working on the assumption that the OP means additional fees above and beyond entry which hasn't been answered)
I've never witnessed or been offered this personally but can onky go off my limited experience.
Just wanted to be clear that I'm not for one minute claiming she isn't entitled to go to them. Just if it bothers her what others are doing then maybe avoid them or try a different club and as I said before she isn't obliged to do anything with anyone regardless of the event.
Worry about the things you can control rather than the things you cannot.
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"I know a few friends on fab who do it and get paid to do it. They promote on their status about going to a club on such a night to get all ppl interested in them to go and get many ppl at the club as possible. But doesnt mean you get to play with her"
you mean the hosts... who yes are paid to host the evening... that is very different from being a gg... but yes they will advertise the night.. And yes you do get paid for hosting at some places... but your not being paid to have sex.
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"I know a few friends on fab who do it and get paid to do it. They promote on their status about going to a club on such a night to get all ppl interested in them to go and get many ppl at the club as possible. But doesnt mean you get to play with her you mean the hosts... who yes are paid to host the evening... that is very different from being a gg... but yes they will advertise the night.. And yes you do get paid for hosting at some places... but your not being paid to have sex."
No GG, they get % from club and extra from guys who gotta pay to have sex with them |
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"I agree, but then do the guys attending mistake everyone there as a greedy girl because of the regulars performing?"
I hope not. If they assume a swift ‘fuck off’ or ‘yes please’ depending on your mood should do the trick |
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"I know a few friends on fab who do it and get paid to do it. They promote on their status about going to a club on such a night to get all ppl interested in them to go and get many ppl at the club as possible. But doesnt mean you get to play with her you mean the hosts... who yes are paid to host the evening... that is very different from being a gg... but yes they will advertise the night.. And yes you do get paid for hosting at some places... but your not being paid to have sex.
No GG, they get % from club and extra from guys who gotta pay to have sex with them"
which clubs... as I've never seen it or even heard of it at any of the club's I frequent for Gg night. And I've been a greedy girl for over 17 years lol |
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over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
Ok..... I’ve said it a few times on this thread.... GG are advertising they will be st a club at a certain time and day... when you look at the clubs events.. mostly the GG are going but it’s not advertised as a GG night! There’s a big difference! If I wasn’t aware of these girls and went to the club... do the guys there think it’s a GG night? There for do they think any females there are GG”a and have that expectation they are there to play..... it’s not a rumour some girls are charging it’s fact
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful "
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over a year ago
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
Ok..... I’ve said it a few times on this thread.... GG are advertising they will be st a club at a certain time and day... when you look at the clubs events.. mostly the GG are going but it’s not advertised as a GG night! There’s a big difference! If I wasn’t aware of these girls and went to the club... do the guys there think it’s a GG night? There for do they think any females there are GG”a and have that expectation they are there to play..... it’s not a rumour some girls are charging it’s fact
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful "
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"Huh. I've sometimes thought about saying "I'm going to be at xyz club" when I'm in a mood to be greedy, in the hopes it brings people to me. I hadn't realised it might make me look like a pro. "
I know quite insulting isn't it
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"Huh. I've sometimes thought about saying "I'm going to be at xyz club" when I'm in a mood to be greedy, in the hopes it brings people to me. I hadn't realised it might make me look like a pro. I know quite insulting isn't it "
Your totally missing the point! Sure there’s nothing wrong with saying your going to xyz club and your a GG.... what im saying is xyz club is not advertising it’s a GG night! So if I was to go... not as a GG... will the guys there have the expectation it’s a GG night because Several girls are promoting they are at xyz club! Plus it’s known some of those girls have charged men to play! ! All I’ve said is I would feel uncomfortable being there when this was going on! I like sex I like to play at clubs but I don’t like to think I might be mistaken as a “pro’” because of others actions! |
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"Huh. I've sometimes thought about saying "I'm going to be at xyz club" when I'm in a mood to be greedy, in the hopes it brings people to me. I hadn't realised it might make me look like a pro. I know quite insulting isn't it
Your totally missing the point! Sure there’s nothing wrong with saying your going to xyz club and your a GG.... what im saying is xyz club is not advertising it’s a GG night! So if I was to go... not as a GG... will the guys there have the expectation it’s a GG night because Several girls are promoting they are at xyz club! Plus it’s known some of those girls have charged men to play! ! All I’ve said is I would feel uncomfortable being there when this was going on! I like sex I like to play at clubs but I don’t like to think I might be mistaken as a “pro’” because of others actions! "
every night I go I advertise where and want guys etc... no one ever mistakes me or the other girls for pros.
We tend to use the orgy rooms at clubs for this.. And it seems to be known to all but the actual girls that do this a lot. I've heard rumours about my self that I'm paid and charge. I lost certainly don't or I'd be away a lot more. But heard it said by others.
I can't always get to actual gg nights all the time so if I'm going and I want a good play session I'll see who I can get to join me.
I get what your saying. Basically that if there are gg going that you worry you will be disrespected. You just going to the wrong clubs of that's the case. I've gone and just watched loads over the last year as took time out. And despite being known... And normally a gg. No one has expected or disrespected me .. despite there being several girls having fun with lots of guys |
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Your totally missing the point! Sure there’s nothing wrong with saying your going to xyz club and your a GG.... what im saying is xyz club is not advertising it’s a GG night! So if I was to go... not as a GG... will the guys there have the expectation it’s a GG night because Several girls are promoting they are at xyz club! Plus it’s known some of those girls have charged men to play! ! All I’ve said is I would feel uncomfortable being there when this was going on! I like sex I like to play at clubs but I don’t like to think I might be mistaken as a “pro’” because of others actions! "
I'm not missing the point. I go to clubs. I go to greedy girl events. The most I've ever accepted for sex is a lift and regular use of facilities (water, toilet etc, occasionally a meal but nothing fancy/ taking advantage). You seem to be saying that some things I do might make me (or you) look like a pro.
I genuinely don't see the issue. If you want to play, play. If you think someone's taking liberties with you or pushing it, tell them to shove off. |
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The first Greedy Girl event I attended was at a now-defunct club in Blackpool - there was about 15 fellas there - and no women turned up! The club owner was a bit cavalier about it but all us blokes felt a bit fed up. As I said, the club has now closed...!
Subsequent experiences at this type of event have been beezer! |
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"Huh. I've sometimes thought about saying "I'm going to be at xyz club" when I'm in a mood to be greedy, in the hopes it brings people to me. I hadn't realised it might make me look like a pro. I know quite insulting isn't it
Your totally missing the point! Sure there’s nothing wrong with saying your going to xyz club and your a GG.... what im saying is xyz club is not advertising it’s a GG night! So if I was to go... not as a GG... will the guys there have the expectation it’s a GG night because Several girls are promoting they are at xyz club! Plus it’s known some of those girls have charged men to play! ! All I’ve said is I would feel uncomfortable being there when this was going on! I like sex I like to play at clubs but I don’t like to think I might be mistaken as a “pro’” because of others actions!
I'm not missing the point. I go to clubs. I go to greedy girl events. The most I've ever accepted for sex is a lift and regular use of facilities (water, toilet etc, occasionally a meal but nothing fancy/ taking advantage). You seem to be saying that some things I do might make me (or you) look like a pro.
I genuinely don't see the issue. If you want to play, play. If you think someone's taking liberties with you or pushing it, tell them to shove off. "
indeed I do... and I’ve stopped going to clubs that don’t keep the guys from crowding around which is a shame because I liked said clubs.... that is why I asked for the opinion of you lovely fabsters |
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events "
yes getting pounded by 10 random guys in a dark room don't know who's fuck u bareback yeah that's safe place |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events yes getting pounded by 10 random guys in a dark room don't know who's fuck u bareback yeah that's safe place "
Or when they get too d*unk and pass out. |
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events yes getting pounded by 10 random guys in a dark room don't know who's fuck u bareback yeah that's safe place "
I always use clubs for group sex . The club will always make sure you have someone to watch out for that... if you don't have someone. Every event I've been too on gg night doors must be kept open.
I think having done 100s of greedy girls nights I can safely say they are the safe option for girls that like multiple guys |
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"Huh. I've sometimes thought about saying "I'm going to be at xyz club" when I'm in a mood to be greedy, in the hopes it brings people to me. I hadn't realised it might make me look like a pro. I know quite insulting isn't it
Your totally missing the point! Sure there’s nothing wrong with saying your going to xyz club and your a GG.... what im saying is xyz club is not advertising it’s a GG night! So if I was to go... not as a GG... will the guys there have the expectation it’s a GG night because Several girls are promoting they are at xyz club! Plus it’s known some of those girls have charged men to play! ! All I’ve said is I would feel uncomfortable being there when this was going on! I like sex I like to play at clubs but I don’t like to think I might be mistaken as a “pro’” because of others actions!
I'm not missing the point. I go to clubs. I go to greedy girl events. The most I've ever accepted for sex is a lift and regular use of facilities (water, toilet etc, occasionally a meal but nothing fancy/ taking advantage). You seem to be saying that some things I do might make me (or you) look like a pro.
I genuinely don't see the issue. If you want to play, play. If you think someone's taking liberties with you or pushing it, tell them to shove off.
indeed I do... and I’ve stopped going to clubs that don’t keep the guys from crowding around which is a shame because I liked said clubs.... that is why I asked for the opinion of you lovely fabsters"
That's an issue of crowd control/ club management, not greedy girls and who attends clubs. I've never had that issue at a greedy girl event. |
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"Yes they get something out of it
They not going to admit it n say yes I get 30%of the people I invite and yes most women who advertise n insist club meet only are unattractive
Which clubs... as none I've been too. I insist on clubs only for group fun . As it's safe and I'm looked out for. Not because I earn... I'm defensive because it's these sort of rumours and things means that I get messages offering money. Or people assume gg will play with anyone at events yes getting pounded by 10 random guys in a dark room don't know who's fuck u bareback yeah that's safe place "
So... don't do that? Take steps to look after yourself? |
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Honestly speaking.... a few posters in this thread seem to have a agenda.....
This thread highlights one of the problems in swinging...
There are some people in this community trying to make a buck and some that really enjoy swinging...
The problem we face is that the people who enjoy swinging can’t call out the nefarious people in this lifestyle because we get shouted down....
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Honestly speaking.... a few posters in this thread seem to have a agenda.....
This thread highlights one of the problems in swinging...
There are some people in this community trying to make a buck and some that really enjoy swinging...
The problem we face is that the people who enjoy swinging can’t call out the nefarious people in this lifestyle because we get shouted down....
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It all boils down to how a club presents itself and what GG’s nights mean.... there’s plenty of good clubs so choice is in abundance. Happy swinging fabsters! x |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"I agree, but then do the guys attending mistake everyone there as a greedy girl because of the regulars performing?"
hopefully not whatever the situation you should not be under any pressure or obligation to do something that you don't want to
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
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"I agree, but then do the guys attending mistake everyone there as a greedy girl because of the regulars performing?hopefully not whatever the situation you should not be under any pressure or obligation to do something that you don't want to "
most places wont let in single girls that dont work for them on the gg events .[they usually lunch time .for a couple hours .then empty out for evening to start.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good or bad idea having greedy girls performing regularly at clubs.?
I often visited a club that now has greedy girls performing most days, this kind of puts me off going, what’s the general opinion? "
I’d never go to one. Everything about it puts me off. I have nothing against it, just not my thing. I tend to do ok in clubs even as a single guy by meeting couples and single females.
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"I agree, but then do the guys attending mistake everyone there as a greedy girl because of the regulars performing?hopefully not whatever the situation you should not be under any pressure or obligation to do something that you don't want to most places wont let in single girls that dont work for them on the gg events .[they usually lunch time .for a couple hours .then empty out for evening to start."
what a load of bull.. seriously. Never heard so much crap as is on this thread. I'd be a bloody billionaire if this was the case
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"I agree, but then do the guys attending mistake everyone there as a greedy girl because of the regulars performing?hopefully not whatever the situation you should not be under any pressure or obligation to do something that you don't want to most places wont let in single girls that dont work for them on the gg events .[they usually lunch time .for a couple hours .then empty out for evening to start."
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful
1) No of course she doesn’t mean that.
2) Can only say so much on the forums without getting yourself a ban.
3) she enjoys going to GG events and is just as entitled to as the next person. But fundamentally swinging is about “ free” sex isn’t it? But people are using it as a platform to earn. Whether it big or small.
Mrs Carter "
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful
1) No of course she doesn’t mean that.
2) Can only say so much on the forums without getting yourself a ban.
3) she enjoys going to GG events and is just as entitled to as the next person. But fundamentally swinging is about “ free” sex isn’t it? But people are using it as a platform to earn. Whether it big or small.
Mrs Carter
spot on Mrs C "
Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to.... |
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Angels in Melksham do a Greedy Girls night. The event is on the first Friday of the month and it isn’t an organised event, simply a night when there are likely to be more men and ladies/couples who prefer nights with more than just couples. This is a very different evening to an event which has organised ladies to be there and there are many guys who pay for the privilege. I am not against the later, but it doesn’t appeal so much to us. Enjoy whatever works for you |
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to...."
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid |
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to....
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid"
Narrow minded?? Certainly not! Maybe one day you might come across just what I’ve raised points on, as you’ve been lucky enough not to don’t make judgements you only have to read the verifications of the GG’s “hosting” to know hosting isn’t in the same context as your experience of hosting |
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"I think this post is rude.....
No one is proforming at a club.... these women are going for their own enjoyment....
Think about it.... where else can a woman go and have sex with 10 men in a safe environment?
It does definitely come across that way and surprised me how narrow minded people can be even when enjoying a fairly liberal lifestyle.
The point I’m making is... these girls are advertising they will be at a club...they are not going to a greedy girl event...and it’s rumoured a charge is made for a particular act....
Rumoured? Haha by whom? Disgruntled single blokes perchance?
Oh so you think it’s ok for clubs to allow girls to charge to perform? and I assume you’ve never been to a club that has men pestering for sex because they think it’s a GG night there’s a big difference between a GG night and greedy girls advertising they will be at a club don’t you think?
No that's not even remotely what I said but I have two big issues with this thread.
Firstly you've failed to clarify what you mean by "charge to perform" are you saying men should get in free or are you referring to additional charges over and above what the club charges?
Secondly stop spreading rumours with no substance, when I asked about said rumours you completely twisted what I said and ignore the actual question.
Thirdly (An this is a bonus point, completely free of charge) If attending GG events makes you feel uncomfortable or like you're obliged to 'perform as you put it. Then simply avoid them and focus on stuff you do enjoy it really is that simple.
It's your choice and no one can make you do anything.
Much love and happiness to you.
Mr Playful
1) No of course she doesn’t mean that.
2) Can only say so much on the forums without getting yourself a ban.
3) she enjoys going to GG events and is just as entitled to as the next person. But fundamentally swinging is about “ free” sex isn’t it? But people are using it as a platform to earn. Whether it big or small.
Mrs Carter
spot on Mrs C
Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to...."
As others have said if your hosting you aren't performing. I've asked you to define exactly what you mean by performing as I think your definition differs to mine. Why so much hostility? It was merely advice take it or leave it. Once again when I explicitly asked do you mean charges over and above entry you chose not to answer and instead use vague terminology and expect me to make the same assumptions as you.
People get so agitated by a simple response asking for more information. Get off your high horse and communicate better then May be there wouldn't be so much ambiguity in what your actually trying to say.
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to....
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid
Narrow minded?? Certainly not! Maybe one day you might come across just what I’ve raised points on, as you’ve been lucky enough not to don’t make judgements you only have to read the verifications of the GG’s “hosting” to know hosting isn’t in the same context as your experience of hosting "
I get calls asking if I'm busy as there are lots of guys in that fit what I like. Then I come down.. see if they really do and play with those I like.
I have also been the regular girl. Guess that could be counted as hosting... as I make it clear when I will be there and I get the party started... but I'm picky. What your describing does happen but rarely |
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to....
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
Oh my,! So why call people narrow minded when you actually agree it goes on!
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid
Narrow minded?? Certainly not! Maybe one day you might come across just what I’ve raised points on, as you’ve been lucky enough not to don’t make judgements you only have to read the verifications of the GG’s “hosting” to know hosting isn’t in the same context as your experience of hosting I get calls asking if I'm busy as there are lots of guys in that fit what I like. Then I come down.. see if they really do and play with those I like.
I have also been the regular girl. Guess that could be counted as hosting... as I make it clear when I will be there and I get the party started... but I'm picky. What your describing does happen but rarely "
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to....
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
Oh my,! So why call people narrow minded when you actually agree it goes on!
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid
Narrow minded?? Certainly not! Maybe one day you might come across just what I’ve raised points on, as you’ve been lucky enough not to don’t make judgements you only have to read the verifications of the GG’s “hosting” to know hosting isn’t in the same context as your experience of hosting I get calls asking if I'm busy as there are lots of guys in that fit what I like. Then I come down.. see if they really do and play with those I like.
I have also been the regular girl. Guess that could be counted as hosting... as I make it clear when I will be there and I get the party started... but I'm picky. What your describing does happen but rarely "
this lady with the mask on doesn’t what she's talking about
1st she said no one gets paid
Then yes there ladies who gets paid to perform
2nd said never been asked to perform n get paid but then said I have been asked in some clubs
3Rd she said when I host invite lots of guys I don't play so why the fuck are u there then she said yeah I play when my clock is off that means u work on a shift wtf
I am speechless how messed up ur response are why not take the critsim n take it to the club instead of defending them just Cose u don't like the other opinion |
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Not sure how much clarity you need? If a GG is at a club, “hosting” on behalf of an events manager...surely they are there to perform? As you can see from others responding “ extra” charges can happen...what clarity do you need on that point...are they accused of “ spreading” rumours too?.... and finally don’t tell me what to do I can manage perfectly well... if you read my post it says I’m no longer comfortable at a club I liked going to....
If your hosting an event you are not performing. I have many times been asked if I will help get more interest in a club on a specific night. Not just gg nights either. I've drummed up interest or told people I've met about various events that I think they would enjoy.
Oh my,! So why call people narrow minded when you actually agree it goes on!
When I host a Gg event. Actually I don't play till I'm off the clock as my job as a host is to make sure rules are adhered to and that the girls are all getting what they want safely..
Yes at a handful of club's.. there are girls paid to be there. I know at every event I've ever done or been to that any lady asking for extras would be banned in an instant..
These rumours that narrow minded people spread and the few places that do charge for greedy girl events make it hard for the thousands of genuine gg out there that do it like I do becusse I love it.
I end up 9 times out of 10 doing group play at any club night I go to play at.. it's what I predominantly enjoy . I also take other ladies to enjoy it and be their wing woman.
If a club is genuinely doing that then it's hurting all the gg nights. But all the clubs I've been to.. which is numerous... don't have paid girls. Regular gg yes. Club greedy girls that go because they enjoy it yes... but not except on a very small amount of times paid for.
Although some say the fact we get in free instead of normal club prices means we are being paid
Narrow minded?? Certainly not! Maybe one day you might come across just what I’ve raised points on, as you’ve been lucky enough not to don’t make judgements you only have to read the verifications of the GG’s “hosting” to know hosting isn’t in the same context as your experience of hosting I get calls asking if I'm busy as there are lots of guys in that fit what I like. Then I come down.. see if they really do and play with those I like.
I have also been the regular girl. Guess that could be counted as hosting... as I make it clear when I will be there and I get the party started... but I'm picky. What your describing does happen but rarely this lady with the mask on doesn’t what she's talking about
1st she said no one gets paid
Then yes there ladies who gets paid to perform
2nd said never been asked to perform n get paid but then said I have been asked in some clubs
3Rd she said when I host invite lots of guys I don't play so why the fuck are u there then she said yeah I play when my clock is off that means u work on a shift wtf
I am speechless how messed up ur response are why not take the critsim n take it to the club instead of defending them just Cose u don't like the other opinion "
How do I not know what I'm talking about.. I have done hundreds of greedy girls nights.
Yes if I host when I am no longer a staff member I may play..heaven forbid.. I'm not paid but said I've been asked to be a regular at some clubs. Still not paid.
I've never ever seen a gg ask for money for extras... I've never known any girl to be paid and the normal club's.
The op issue seems to be with greedy girls that play in a gb fashion at none greedy girl nights...
I do greedy girl events because shock horror I like lots of guys at once... and it's a safe environment for me.
Don't try twist words. I have done gg events and gbs for best part of 20 years... So think I have a fair idea of what I'm talking about. |
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"Just spat my champagne out at that rather derogatory statement sweety ! All the greedy girls I know are all utterly beautiful and play for pure pleasure. "
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