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Vanilla Alternative Saturday 16th Feb
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Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.
New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?! |
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"Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.
New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?!"
Just talk to people you like the look of. Everyone is there for exactly the same reason as you. Not every chat will result in play but it’s one step closer to people you might like to spend intimate time with.
Best of all, relax. Don’t go overboard on the alcohol and remember your limits. No fun trying to bend them. Have a secret word you can both say if the person your chatting to isn’t doing it for either of you. Just suck it up and move on.
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"Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.
New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?!
Just talk to people you like the look of. Everyone is there for exactly the same reason as you. Not every chat will result in play but it’s one step closer to people you might like to spend intimate time with.
Best of all, relax. Don’t go overboard on the alcohol and remember your limits. No fun trying to bend them. Have a secret word you can both say if the person your chatting to isn’t doing it for either of you. Just suck it up and move on.
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
The theme this year for our Valentine Party is famous couples, so if you fancy yourselves as Fred and Ginger, Posh and Becks or Romeo and Juliette, give it a go. Following the theme is not compulsory so no worries if you don't want to take part. |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day
ie 14th Feb
Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th..."
At The Vanilla Alternative we would just not generate enough custom on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights. |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day
ie 14th Feb
Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th..."
Because most of us have the work the next day?
No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day. |
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"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day
ie 14th Feb
Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th...
Because most of us have the work the next day?
No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day."
I’ve seen people out enjoying themselves on school nights  |
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"We are intending to attend on the 16th.
We’ll be looking out for you!
And so are we ! Lol in fact it should be a very busy night!
Hey! Hope you guys are well. See you there!"
We’re really doing well! Hope you are well and enjoying it all! ??
Be good to catch up.......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day
ie 14th Feb
Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th...
Because most of us have the work the next day?
No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day.
I’ve seen people out enjoying themselves on school nights "
Getting dolled up is only showering and dressing etc ...
A late night dosent hurt . Just set the alarm ..  |
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