"Would you consider going to the closest club or one that’s not on your doorstep.
How many have been to their local club and met people they know?"
If people you know think the same you could just bump into them at a Club further away. I know that has happened with friends.
Does it matter? You are all there for the same reason. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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I suppose being male it`s easier in a way. But don`t think by going miles out of you way that you will not see anyone you know! I got dragged along to Bi Night at Chams a few years ago and spotted another male who I`d had dealt with one a professional level previously (VERY vanilla!). He spotted me and you could see from his expression he thought he knew me whereas I knew in an instant who he was! We never spoke at the time but I have seen and spoken to him on more than one occasion since then, again in the same vanilla context. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"I suppose being male it`s easier in a way. But don`t think by going miles out of you way that you will not see anyone you know! I got dragged along to Bi Night at Chams a few years ago and spotted another male who I`d had dealt with one a professional level previously (VERY vanilla!). He spotted me and you could see from his expression he thought he knew me whereas I knew in an instant who he was! We never spoke at the time but I have seen and spoken to him on more than one occasion since then, again in the same vanilla context."
And this guy is about 15-20 miles away from me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you consider going to the closest club or one that’s not on your doorstep.
How many have been to their local club and met people they know?"
I go all over. Never worry about bumping into people I know as you can do that anywhere. Especially if every one has the same idea to not go local |
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