"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?
Like Billy no mates.
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It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).
Relax. Have fun and report back. |
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"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?
Like Billy no mates.
It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).
Relax. Have fun and report back."
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"Would a single female going to a club stand out in wrong way?
Like Billy no mates.
It really depends what sort of person you are. If you are a sociable sort then you will fit in straight away. I've been to many clubs alone. Chose your club and night wisely, Think about what you want - couples, single men/fems. Days are quieter/less pressure. Ring them first or tell them on arrival you are by yourself and new to the scene. A good club will give you a tour and introduce to regulars. Allow yourself the luxury of leaving if you don't like it. Don't put pressure on yourself. Get there under your own steam and dont go with a random stranger (you will be innundated with requests cos if this post - they have their own motives and it will spoil the night).
Relax. Have fun and report back."
All really good advice.
Just to add as a single female I would choose a couples & single labies night only to start with unless you specifically want single guys of course Xx
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
Just be yourself and be relaxed that way youll enjoy your first experience everyone has these nerves to begin with but rules are in clubs for this reason to make sure u feel safe and have a good time hope u have a ball xxxx |
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No, you’ll be welcomed. Clubs are social places too. Try the jacuzzi- always a good way to chat to other.
I’d recommend a all singles and couples night, rather then just single woman. I find them more social and enjoy the mix of people more.
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By *inglesCouple
over a year ago
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Most clubs are really friendly and I know most, including us, take the time to tour new members and introduce them to the regulars. No one really stands out in a club, it's very much the same as going to a normal bar or club, everyone mixes and _ingles together
We offer to walk all single ladies in from the car park or taxi outside so they feel more comfortable entering the club, we also walk them back at the end of the night. We will also check on them throughout the night to make sure they feel comfortable.
Clubs are a great safe environment for ladies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most clubs are really friendly and I know most, including us, take the time to tour new members and introduce them to the regulars. No one really stands out in a club, it's very much the same as going to a normal bar or club, everyone mixes and _ingles together
We offer to walk all single ladies in from the car park or taxi outside so they feel more comfortable entering the club, we also walk them back at the end of the night. We will also check on them throughout the night to make sure they feel comfortable.
Clubs are a great safe environment for ladies."
Hi
I am a member I think but never quiet plucked up the courage. |
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"I've not been to a club before and would to BUT by myself i would be shitting myself LOL with a hard on before i got there "
Just be brave and go for it fella, you’ll never know otherwise! You’re quite likely to be underwhelmed once you get inside, the hype of these places far outweighs what many are actually like, and the likelihood is, you’ll go home wondering what you were worried about  |
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