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Reading reviews of places we're considering going to, it puts us off slightly when we see contributors are mostly older than we are, and possibly are a little curvier than we'd like. Where in the south east can we find what we're looking for? Thank you |
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I can’t help you with club suggestions in your area but what I will say is that not everyone who goes to clubs leaves reviews so it’s not a true reflection of all clientele. Aw for age and body shape, no club restricts people based on this so you won’t find a club exclusively young and thin. You’d be better arranging to meet a couple that suits you at a club
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Oh lord, I hate it when stuff like this is written.
But swinging is about a but more that age & looks. Am not saying you arent allowed preferences more that I think its a shame when you discount a particular group ofpeople because of age and size as surely there is the social aspect of going to a club? Though if that is all you are after then killing kittens sounds perfect.
But at most events we hold there is a cross section of all ages and all sizes.  |
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"Torture garden is a young crowd I’d say 25 to 35 and a lot very very hot people! Although it’s not in the south East x"
I didnt think Torture Garden events were swinging events? More geared to BDSM and dress to impress? Has it changed? |
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"Try Eureka at the weekend. Another possibility would be to contact people within your preferences and all agree to meet up at the club of your choice. "
Thats a good idea   |
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"Oh lord, I hate it when stuff like this is written.
But swinging is about a but more that age & looks. Am not saying you arent allowed preferences more that I think its a shame when you discount a particular group ofpeople because of age and size as surely there is the social aspect of going to a club? Though if that is all you are after then killing kittens sounds perfect.
But at most events we hold there is a cross section of all ages and all sizes. "
Quite a few clubs hold BBW events. |
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But at most events we hold there is a cross section of all ages and all sizes.
Quite a few clubs hold BBW events.
But you don't have to be BBW. Any size woman can go. "
Yes they can. I don't think the op is suggesting excluding anybody. |
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Chic at the Vanilla Alternative, Allure at Townhouse is an under 39's night (may be a bit far north)...
Sixsixsix host private parties with a younger average age and a very hot guest list.
We've always enjoyed clubs regardless of the age dynamics and we socialise with anyone, but play wise we always tend to go for couples around our age and physical preferences. |
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I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids. |
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Torture garden is very BDSM and if you don’t make an effort (particularly men) to dress very fetish like they won’t let you in.
I would say Killing Kittens is worth a go. Been to one of their events and lots of very hot people there.
Good luck and hope you find the fun you want.
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids. "
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"I cringe at the idea of ‘asking’ if I/ we are hot enough to go to an event such as killing kittens. And because of that, I won’t bother  "
Based on my experience you would be. The events weren't all that, more a fashion show that torture garden, and I prefer the latter. |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
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hang on when did I say we were supermodels? I knew I'd be treading a line with the post but at the end of the day you want to have an evening with people you'll be attracted to, and I don't think you can turn your preferences off. I'm sorry if you were offended. And anyone else that is. A lot of aggression on here |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
hang on when did I say we were supermodels? I knew I'd be treading a line with the post but at the end of the day you want to have an evening with people you'll be attracted to, and I don't think you can turn your preferences off. I'm sorry if you were offended. And anyone else that is. A lot of aggression on here"
Well said x |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
hang on when did I say we were supermodels? I knew I'd be treading a line with the post but at the end of the day you want to have an evening with people you'll be attracted to, and I don't think you can turn your preferences off. I'm sorry if you were offended. And anyone else that is. A lot of aggression on here"
Swinging is about being comfortable in your surroundings. OP you do whatever you feel comfortable with, I do think the best suggestion is killing kittens though. |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
hang on when did I say we were supermodels? I knew I'd be treading a line with the post but at the end of the day you want to have an evening with people you'll be attracted to, and I don't think you can turn your preferences off. I'm sorry if you were offended. And anyone else that is. A lot of aggression on here
Swinging is about being comfortable in your surroundings. OP you do whatever you feel comfortable with, I do think the best suggestion is killing kittens though."
Bring your wallet as it’s a completely different pricing structure to anything else I know. I say that from first hand experience. Have a look at the Hedonism couples night
You will want to avoid the Silver nights based on your age preferences. Shame really as all that experience, knowledge, connections and sexiness are cut off.
Let us know what you decide to do. |
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"Torture garden is a young crowd I’d say 25 to 35 and a lot very very hot people! Although it’s not in the south East x
I didnt think Torture Garden events were swinging events? More geared to BDSM and dress to impress? Has it changed? "
Greetings Sue from Katey
No it hasnt changed and its Not a Swingers Club the only areas you can Indulge is their Monitored Dark Couples Room and its So Dark you wouldnt be able to tell how old anyone - unless you use BRAILE-No Sexual Activity is Permitted in View of Any one in the GENERAL Club Areas its an Open Door Club and Licenses are at risk
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Hi we host (Allure) a quarterly 39 and under party @Townhouse, its open to couples and single fems and limited to 6 guys. The next one is this Friday and Allure 7 will be on Friday 16th November. More info is on our profile and in the forums x |
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"Oh lord, I hate it when stuff like this is written.
But swinging is about a but more that age & looks. Am not saying you arent allowed preferences more that I think its a shame when you discount a particular group ofpeople because of age and size as surely there is the social aspect of going to a club? Though if that is all you are after then killing kittens sounds perfect.
But at most events we hold there is a cross section of all ages and all sizes. "
It's about sex mainly so why would a young attractive couple want to waste their time socialising all night with a fat old couple when they are never going to do anything with the
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"Oh lord, I hate it when stuff like this is written.
But swinging is about a but more that age & looks. Am not saying you arent allowed preferences more that I think its a shame when you discount a particular group ofpeople because of age and size as surely there is the social aspect of going to a club? Though if that is all you are after then killing kittens sounds perfect.
But at most events we hold there is a cross section of all ages and all sizes.
It's about sex mainly so why would a young attractive couple want to waste their time socialising all night with a fat old couple when they are never going to do anything with the
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Thing is unless its a guest listed event no one knows who will be turning up.
If you're a member then you go to a club any night its open. So unless pre arranged you have to just wait and see who is there. |
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By *ediMan
over a year ago
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids. "
You always seem to killing people off on these forums |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
You always seem to killing people off on these forums "
Must have taken some finding
Then maybe people should leave their egos at home. As everybody I disagree with loves to say, it's a free forum and I can say what I like and have whatever opinion I like.
Personally, I don't like arrogance, lies, bullshit and egos. So I'll always rea t badly to it. Common sense and genuine questions, get pleasant balanced responses, and I give a lot more of them. However I'm not here to get people to like me if they don't, and not here to pretend to be somebody else as soon as there might be a shag in sight, lol.
I'm actually a very kind sensitive person, but then I doubt 99% of the people on here I react to are anything like they appear to be without the Internet to hide behind. Or I quite literally never bump into them. Can't remember the last argument or even disagreement I had offline, lol. Not even with my mum?? |
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By *haredMan
over a year ago
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As somebody has already suggested you could try Eureka's it's south of river as you are so not that far
On a Saturday night it's more like a party than a club. There is an extreme range of ages and types of people. From much younger than you to much older as it's more like a party it's easy to mingle. There themed nights are normally even busier.
Friday nights are not as busy but that might suit you better as it's still normally a laugh. Just think of there as a school party for adults and I think you understand the atmosphere. It's a great drink and most times the music is good
Just enjoy where ever you visit. We would suggest you go for a good night's out dancing and fun. If you find people you something in common with then that's a bonus
Have fun |
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Le Boudior London. UK's most sophisticated club. Unashamedly aesthetically biased.
Ignore the hate, stay true to yourself, apply online and enter the land of the beautiful people.
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"Reading reviews of places we're considering going to, it puts us off slightly when we see contributors are mostly older than we are, and possibly are a little curvier than we'd like. Where in the south east can we find what we're looking for? Thank you "
not all club goers leave comments so its hard to tell solely from these comments.
however eureaka partys on Saturdays do tend to have lots of younger people as well as the usual olduns like us,
where ever you go have fun |
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By *haredMan
over a year ago
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"As somebody has already suggested you could try Eureka's it's south of river as you are so not that far
On a Saturday night it's more like a party than a club. There is an extreme range of ages and types of people. From much younger than you to much older as it's more like a party it's easy to mingle. There themed nights are normally even busier.
Friday nights are not as busy but that might suit you better as it's still normally a laugh. Just think of there as a school party for adults and I think you understand the atmosphere. It's a great drink and most times the music is good
Just enjoy where ever you visit. We would suggest you go for a good night's out dancing and fun. If you find people you something in common with then that's a bonus
Have fun"
VA has also been mentioned above. Well worth a visit although a bit further away. They have a bi night first friday in the month. Do not be put off by the bi bit. I am not bi although sometimes nice to be noticed but think it's a really good nite.
Where ever you go do not make it about meeting others. Go for yourselves to enjoy the night. Have a dance. Giggle between the two of you about being looked at what they are thinking. Soak up the atmosphere. That's what going to a club should be. Not a dash to the finishing line.
Just have fun |
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Yeah if you want to go to a club go to a club. What you do when you get there is up to you. You don’t have to fuck the pensioners that are there. But everyone is there to be happy and chilled not get all judgemental. We used to get judged in here in the early days because of Belles age. But when we met people in clubs in real life those opinions rapidly changed. So just because you think a club is going to be how you perceive it now doesn’t mean it’s going to be like that when you go. Those older people might be the happy friends in amongst whom you will bump into your dream fucks. We chat to everyone in a club because we like people at clubs and it makes us look like open and honest people (like we are) and that’s attractive. If a hot couple came in and saw us as the life and soul and another couple sitting in the corner looking like they are sucking lemons, who are they heading towards? A club is only what you make it, not what others make it. Ask not what a club can do for you but what you can do for your club. |
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"Yeah if you want to go to a club go to a club. What you do when you get there is up to you. You don’t have to fuck the pensioners that are there. But everyone is there to be happy and chilled not get all judgemental. We used to get judged in here in the early days because of Belles age. But when we met people in clubs in real life those opinions rapidly changed. So just because you think a club is going to be how you perceive it now doesn’t mean it’s going to be like that when you go. Those older people might be the happy friends in amongst whom you will bump into your dream fucks. We chat to everyone in a club because we like people at clubs and it makes us look like open and honest people (like we are) and that’s attractive. If a hot couple came in and saw us as the life and soul and another couple sitting in the corner looking like they are sucking lemons, who are they heading towards? A club is only what you make it, not what others make it. Ask not what a club can do for you but what you can do for your club. "
Very well said, this is how we are in clubs, thats why we love them  |
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Unfortunately regardless of what you like and are interested in, the forums are not necessarily the best place to post it.
Everyone comes with an opinion yet most of those who write theirs certainly wouldt say it to you in person in such a way it was written in the forum.
Certain clubs have certain events to suit those younger like
Chic at Vanilla Alternative
Certain club nights at La Boudoir.
Killing Kittens
Fever Parties
Private parties like
666
Mtbr
And lots more.. especially in the
London area.
Get out, get networking, get more info and perhaps invites about parties that are not listed here.
Good luck in finding something that suits you. |
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Thanks to everyone who has supported standpoint and helped me out on my queries, I really appreciate it!
To anyone who now has a rather dim view of me, I can honestly say it saddens me that you react in this way. I'm actually a nice bloke with no prejudices, have a lovely well mannered family, and I'd help your nan cross the road. But oh well...
By the way, we went to Eurekas, loved it!! X |
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"Thanks to everyone who has supported standpoint and helped me out on my queries, I really appreciate it!
To anyone who now has a rather dim view of me, I can honestly say it saddens me that you react in this way. I'm actually a nice bloke with no prejudices, have a lovely well mannered family, and I'd help your nan cross the road. But oh well...
By the way, we went to Eurekas, loved it!! X"
hi glad you enjoyed your visit, hope you found some nice people to play with |
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"Thanks to everyone who has supported standpoint and helped me out on my queries, I really appreciate it!
To anyone who now has a rather dim view of me, I can honestly say it saddens me that you react in this way. I'm actually a nice bloke with no prejudices, have a lovely well mannered family, and I'd help your nan cross the road. But oh well...
By the way, we went to Eurekas, loved it!! X"
So there you go and the moral of the story is you just have to try it for yourself with no preconceived options Personally I don’t like Eureka at all so good job you didn’t ask me |
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"Thanks to everyone who has supported standpoint and helped me out on my queries, I really appreciate it!
To anyone who now has a rather dim view of me, I can honestly say it saddens me that you react in this way. I'm actually a nice bloke with no prejudices, have a lovely well mannered family, and I'd help your nan cross the road. But oh well...
By the way, we went to Eurekas, loved it!! X
So there you go and the moral of the story is you just have to try it for yourself with no preconceived options Personally I don’t like Eureka at all so good job you didn’t ask me "
There were elements I didn't like, but I don't like to judge on just one visit.. |
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By *haredMan
over a year ago
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By the way, we went to Eurekas, loved it!! X"
Pleased you enjoyed it.
By the timing of your post I assume you went on Friday. We were there. Unfortunately not many others were in fancy dress that will be different next sat. It was a bit quite but nice atmosphere. There Saturday themed nights have normally many more people
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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Not in the South East, but DRaved at Xtasia (West Bromwich) tends to attract a younger average than their other nights. Really fun house music night.
As suggested above, Le Boudoir in London does have some level of vetting of guests.
Fever Parties had very strict vetting of guests, and an upper age limit of 40 IIRC. (it's been a while since we've been though, so couldn't say what the situation is now)
I wouldn't say that Decs is any younger or prettier than any other average club, the single males might be "vetted" in some way, but I don't believe couples are. |
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"I would suggest a slight ego dilution, you guys will be far from the hottest couple at pretty much any club you go to, so I would suggest a dose of humility on your first view visits so you don't become the couple everybody avoids.
You always seem to killing people off on these forums
Must have taken some finding
Then maybe people should leave their egos at home. As everybody I disagree with loves to say, it's a free forum and I can say what I like and have whatever opinion I like.
Personally, I don't like arrogance, lies, bullshit and egos. So I'll always rea t badly to it. Common sense and genuine questions, get pleasant balanced responses, and I give a lot more of them. However I'm not here to get people to like me if they don't, and not here to pretend to be somebody else as soon as there might be a shag in sight, lol.
I'm actually a very kind sensitive person, but then I doubt 99% of the people on here I react to are anything like they appear to be without the Internet to hide behind. Or I quite literally never bump into them. Can't remember the last argument or even disagreement I had offline, lol. Not even with my mum??"
You don't like arrogance
How about dilute the passive aggressive bitter tone in your message?
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