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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I believe you need to pay a couples membership to enter as a couple at Le Boudoir.
I don't think you can use a different persons membership, or two singles can enter as a couple unless you have joined as a couple.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes, they will allow two singles to attend a Saturday as a couple.
Below is the response I received when I asked the club. Which I think is very reasonable.
“As long as they are M & F and both are registered and accepted.
But to note. Whilst you will be admitted as a couple on Saturday, if the gentleman is found wandering the club on his own which may cause complaints about the attendance of a single male, he will be asked to leave.
Further, the discounted couple’s admission fees do not apply to two singles together on events from Wednesday to Friday. Single rates apply.” |
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"Yes, they will allow two singles to attend a Saturday as a couple.
Below is the response I received when I asked the club. Which I think is very reasonable.
“As long as they are M & F and both are registered and accepted.
But to note. Whilst you will be admitted as a couple on Saturday, if the gentleman is found wandering the club on his own which may cause complaints about the attendance of a single male, he will be asked to leave.
Further, the discounted couple’s admission fees do not apply to two singles together on events from Wednesday to Friday. Single rates apply.”"
Which in other words means the ‘couple’ will be charged the full single male rate. Did you go? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, they will allow two singles to attend a Saturday as a couple.
Below is the response I received when I asked the club. Which I think is very reasonable.
“As long as they are M & F and both are registered and accepted.
But to note. Whilst you will be admitted as a couple on Saturday, if the gentleman is found wandering the club on his own which may cause complaints about the attendance of a single male, he will be asked to leave.
Further, the discounted couple’s admission fees do not apply to two singles together on events from Wednesday to Friday. Single rates apply.”
Which in other words means the ‘couple’ will be charged the full single male rate. Did you go?"
I did. On my own. The guy I eventually chose... out of everyone who was willing, let me down while I was getting dressed to leave 
He’s blocked now. |
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Hi MIxchick,
I went last night, it was a great night but I would like to actually like to attend couple night on Saturday's because some of the couples and single ladies I spoke to yesterday said Saturday's are great because not having pushy people and if I find a lady to accompany me for this experience it would be ideal, Anyways any woman that wants to accompany me I don't mind paying their admission fee as a polite gesture and I'm approaching this as a gentleman that hasn't got any expectations if something happens then it happens if it doesn't i've meet someone that wants to invest some of there time not just for me but for others
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you expecting the man to pay all expenses?"
I’m fully capable of paying for myself. However a man with that attitude probably wouldn’t be right for me.
1) he’d never get in without a lady on that night.
2)still cheaper for me going on my own, rather than as part of a couple. And cheaper than him attending on a single gents night.
3) if I want to/insist on paying for myself, I’m probably not interested in the man sexually. (It’s a sure tell with me! Treating me is a privilege I give to the man I’m interested in)
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Sorry if it felt as if I was either out of line or it came across wrong. I do believe women should pay for them selfs in general and it’s nothing to do with gender or feminism. As I said I see it as a good gesture and I don’t have expectations, It’s only because I grew up around women (family orientated) I’ve over heard many conversions of men doing things just for a return, where as I’ve been brought up to being a gentleman.
I’ve been to Le Boudior as a single gentleman but not as a couple. I was in Baycity Sauna which is in Melbourne with a ex and experienced many swingers clubs in Australia as it’s a massive swinging scene out there.
That 1. Yes I wouldnt get in as couple night without a female companion, but I wouldn’t want any type of thing return, if something did happen I wouldn’t want it forced. In Australia the socialising side of couples is brilliant and would love to experience in the UK. It’s more of a social experience for me, but I do that same from what I’ve done in the states and how the swinging side is in Amsterdam.
2. On a couple night females if it’s a strict club they should only invite couples, as it’s discrimination to invite single women and not men tbh. But if I invite someone to anything even a meal I pay for them due to principle, but my mates does the same with me.
3. Personally if I pay for someone, it’s just being nice possibly chemistry we are opposite but as I say there is always different people, but we all learn things from people daily. Probably me nearly willing putting my hand in my pocket could be a turn off, but personally I wouldn’t want to degrade a woman that’s furthest thing I would ever want to do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry if it felt as if I was either out of line or it came across wrong. I do believe women should pay for them selfs in general and it’s nothing to do with gender or feminism. As I said I see it as a good gesture and I don’t have expectations, It’s only because I grew up around women (family orientated) I’ve over heard many conversions of men doing things just for a return, where as I’ve been brought up to being a gentleman.
I’ve been to Le Boudior as a single gentleman but not as a couple. I was in Baycity Sauna which is in Melbourne with a ex and experienced many swingers clubs in Australia as it’s a massive swinging scene out there.
That 1. Yes I wouldnt get in as couple night without a female companion, but I wouldn’t want any type of thing return, if something did happen I wouldn’t want it forced. In Australia the socialising side of couples is brilliant and would love to experience in the UK. It’s more of a social experience for me, but I do that same from what I’ve done in the states and how the swinging side is in Amsterdam.
2. On a couple night females if it’s a strict club they should only invite couples, as it’s discrimination to invite single women and not men tbh. But if I invite someone to anything even a meal I pay for them due to principle, but my mates does the same with me.
3. Personally if I pay for someone, it’s just being nice possibly chemistry we are opposite but as I say there is always different people, but we all learn things from people daily. Probably me nearly willing putting my hand in my pocket could be a turn off, but personally I wouldn’t want to degrade a woman that’s furthest thing I would ever want to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you expecting the man to pay all expenses?
I’m fully capable of paying for myself. However a man with that attitude probably wouldn’t be right for me.
1) he’d never get in without a lady on that night.
2)still cheaper for me going on my own, rather than as part of a couple. And cheaper than him attending on a single gents night.
3) if I want to/insist on paying for myself, I’m probably not interested in the man sexually. (It’s a sure tell with me! Treating me is a privilege I give to the man I’m interested in)
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Touché.....
Very interesting... I’m the opposite.
If I invite someone out... I’m paying
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"Sorry if it felt as if I was either out of line or it came across wrong. I do believe women should pay for them selfs in general and it’s nothing to do with gender or feminism. As I said I see it as a good gesture and I don’t have expectations, It’s only because I grew up around women (family orientated) I’ve over heard many conversions of men doing things just for a return, where as I’ve been brought up to being a gentleman.
I’ve been to Le Boudior as a single gentleman but not as a couple. I was in Baycity Sauna which is in Melbourne with a ex and experienced many swingers clubs in Australia as it’s a massive swinging scene out there.
That 1. Yes I wouldnt get in as couple night without a female companion, but I wouldn’t want any type of thing return, if something did happen I wouldn’t want it forced. In Australia the socialising side of couples is brilliant and would love to experience in the UK. It’s more of a social experience for me, but I do that same from what I’ve done in the states and how the swinging side is in Amsterdam.
2. On a couple night females if it’s a strict club they should only invite couples, as it’s discrimination to invite single women and not men tbh. But if I invite someone to anything even a meal I pay for them due to principle, but my mates does the same with me.
3. Personally if I pay for someone, it’s just being nice possibly chemistry we are opposite but as I say there is always different people, but we all learn things from people daily. Probably me nearly willing putting my hand in my pocket could be a turn off, but personally I wouldn’t want to degrade a woman that’s furthest thing I would ever want to do.
That wasn’t for you. It was for the gent who posted after you. "
Yh I kind of gathered that straight after it sent it, I looked up and tried to delete after without sounding like a fool pmsl |
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"Yes, they will allow two singles to attend a Saturday as a couple.
Below is the response I received when I asked the club. Which I think is very reasonable.
“As long as they are M & F and both are registered and accepted.
But to note. Whilst you will be admitted as a couple on Saturday, if the gentleman is found wandering the club on his own which may cause complaints about the attendance of a single male, he will be asked to leave.
Further, the discounted couple’s admission fees do not apply to two singles together on events from Wednesday to Friday. Single rates apply.”
Which in other words means the ‘couple’ will be charged the full single male rate. Did you go?
I did. On my own. The guy I eventually chose... out of everyone who was willing, let me down while I was getting dressed to leave
He’s blocked now. "
‘Let me down’
Sorry but not surprised. Glad you had a good evening. The venue is excellent, the best in town and some gems among the guests if you look hard enough. I know there was a big crowd of my buddies there Friday and they all had a cracking night. |
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"Yes, I had a brilliant time!
Always seems to be a better night for me on the couples night, over the singles on Fridays."
Well I’m heading there tonight with 3 girlfriends and meeting another couple there x |
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"Well I’m heading there tonight with 3 girlfriends and meeting another couple there x"
That reminds of a fetish club I went to in Glasgow about 20 years ago: I was walking around with a trident, with a woman on a collar and lead on each prong.
A very heavy guy asked me why I had 3 women, and he had none.
"These are lean times", I said with both size 12 boots in my mouth 
Luckily, he didn't take it the wrong way... |
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"Well I’m heading there tonight with 3 girlfriends and meeting another couple there x
That reminds of a fetish club I went to in Glasgow about 20 years ago: I was walking around with a trident, with a woman on a collar and lead on each prong.
A very heavy guy asked me why I had 3 women, and he had none.
"These are lean times", I said with both size 12 boots in my mouth
Luckily, he didn't take it the wrong way..."
Lean times indeed  |
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