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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies side...
If it’s friday / Saturday I dress up - night on the town look. Midweek is more smart attire.
Some clubs are dress down so you get changed when you go in so jeans and a smart top as you take them off immediately.
Lingerie - mood and play dependent. You can just wear a towel too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you. On a Friday what sort of lingerie goes down well and how quickly does it usually end up on show? X"
Where what makes you feel hot and sexy. There’s a range from nothing to full corsets.
Some people get changed early and some wait till just before play. It’s personal choice.
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Oh ok - so if I want I can walk round in my underwear? I probably won’t but I did have a meet years ago where I came out of the bathroom in just my heels. It went down very well and I felt really sexy. |
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I don't have a huge amount of experience, and I can be attacked by nerves, but I've worn a basque and a very skimpy matching set when I've been to clubs. The basque was easier to forget I was wearing and so affected my nerves less. The skimpy set got way more attention but when nerves hit it made it worse (although I had a short satin gown which I hid in). I've not worn heels, although that's unusual and due to injury. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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A lot depends on which club you are attending, but in general what you are suggesting sounds fine. Some clubs may require you to dress down on arrival. In these cases, if you want to wear a dress, the sexier, the better! And no problem about wandering around in underwear either, topless fine too! The one exception to this rule would be Chameleons on a Tuesday night when full nudity is the law!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies side...
If it’s friday / Saturday I dress up - night on the town look. Midweek is more smart attire.
Some clubs are dress down so you get changed when you go in so jeans and a smart top as you take them off immediately.
Lingerie - mood and play dependent. You can just wear a towel too. "
This advice is spot on for any club   |
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How about men? We are going to Eurekas on 30th. Smart jeans/chinos/trousers and shirt with loafers seems the safe bet. Do the men tend to stick to being clothed around the dance areas? Do the other areas like the pools still get used at night or is everyone just mainly dancing? |
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This is good info as me and my FB are thinking of attending our 1st ever swingers party at Eurekas. She's thinking of a tight fitting low cut dress, no knickers with lacey hold ups and the Laboutin heels I bought her. Gonna tell her now !! Thanks gang |
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I've not been to Chams, but for the clubs I've been to, check the dress down policy. Some allow you to be dressed in normal clothes in certain spaces or at certain times. But if it's dress down only then you pay your money then go straight into the changing rooms. |
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Everyone in same position and it doesnt take very long to relax and not feel self consious. You are a couple that have bodies worth showing so revel in the freedom of expression the club environment allows. |
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"I’m turned on and terrified too. Lol. Xxx"
It becomes normal, because no one is wearing any street clothes. But a gown will help if you're nervous. (mine is short satin, still sexy, but a lot less scary than being almost naked) |
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"Just so I’m totally clear - at Chams, the moment I get there it’s clithes off and a choice of wrapping myself in a towel, wearing underwear or going naked? Xxx"
Yes, except for Tuesday nights after 6 when everyone is naked. |
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the play areas are dress down only (nude, towels, underwear, lingerie) 