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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Here is hoping that swingers support clubs as they put effort and money into them for all swingers to enjoy.
We hear too many bitching about clubs or clubs about others can we all come together as a community for all to enjoy in our own ways.
I G have had experience of this first hand and believe me it is hard work pleasing all and putting up with bitching and sabotage and for what? Putting facilities there for all to enjoy and hopefully encourage new into the scene.
Hands up to all clubs they are a neutral place for swingers to meet as long as kept clean, well run and no clicks allowed to form then the pleasure is there for all.
Rant over hope you all agree and enjoy  |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
It is far easier to meet people especially new and also feel no pressure.
We go to enjoy our selves if we bump into to anyone it's a bonus x
Clubs we have visited cupids
Quest
Pandoras
Chameleons
Decadance
Townhouse
Infusions
Liberty
Liaison
Club x
Hopefully a few more lol x
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"It is far easier to meet people especially new and also feel no pressure.
We go to enjoy our selves if we bump into to anyone it's a bonus x
Clubs we have visited cupids
Quest
Pandoras
Chameleons
Decadance
Townhouse
Infusions
Liberty
Liaison
Club x
Hopefully a few more lol x
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You can’t beat my 14 then lol. |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Well said and glad to see people still got faith in clubs but why are they not full on a weekend? Or half full during week lol.
Hope bump into to a few more at the club's with bit of luck it's great meeting a variety of people x |
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Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Being at Chams in the morning in the hotel rooms, you only have to see the bleary eyed looks on the cleaners eyes to know they`ve been there since sparrow`s fart and probably earlier cleaning the place to get it ready for the afternoon opening! It`s these things you don`t see and it disheartens me to see cups and other rubbish left all around the club simply because people can`t be arsed to find a bin!
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
#passionateabouttownhouse
best club ever
_rmrsnawty xxxxx |
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over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
#passionateabouttownhouse
We LOVE Vicky, Jim, all the staff and club members of Townhouse. It’s more than just a club, it’s a safe haven for freedom of expression
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over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
Most professionally run club we’ve ever been to and we’ve been to a few  xxx |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Correct and it is the clients that make the mess a bit of own housekeeping does wonders lol.
We tell guys to pick up and bin their mess nobody wants to stand on or puck things up but too many people ready to blame clubs when it's them selves. |
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we’ve been to 9 clubs as a couple, most with several visits. M has also been to 4 clubs on his own to scope out (usually the ones miles away before we spend a fortune on a weekend away!) Pretty much all of them have been excellent & well worth the visit - usually the only let down has been too few people to engage with - but at least we got to fool around on our own  |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Well that's it enjoy yourselves and everything seems to follow to be honest on very busy nights we don't really enjoy somehow but always have good fun when quite, might be that not much choice so play with us lol x |
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over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
Definitely what Vicky said |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx"
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky   |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky "
This is like THE longest build up to a club visit ever!!! hahaha x |
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"Here is hoping that swingers support clubs as they put effort and money into them for all swingers to enjoy.
We hear too many bitching about clubs or clubs about others can we all come together as a community for all to enjoy in our own ways.
I G have had experience of this first hand and believe me it is hard work pleasing all and putting up with bitching and sabotage and for what? Putting facilities there for all to enjoy and hopefully encourage new into the scene.
Hands up to all clubs they are a neutral place for swingers to meet as long as kept clean, well run and no clicks allowed to form then the pleasure is there for all.
Rant over hope you all agree and enjoy "
Well said |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
This is like THE longest build up to a club visit ever!!! hahaha x"
Tell me about it lol   And to think; just last weekend I was only 9 minutes from the front door.......  |
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over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky "
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time "
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance 
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
I love the club scene as it makes people interact too and get to know one another instead of typing through a phone.
The more people use them the more the swinging ace e will stay alive I find it a lot more easier than going to the pub x |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
Well said OP and also Townhouse!
We are all passionate about our respective clubs, if we didn't we wouldn't go there, host parties etc
More respect should be shown and less squabbling. All club events are versions of a theme - getting people together to have fun in a safe environment.
I for one love doing that for people and Cupids always has and will be my club of choice, but it doesn't stop me visiting others on occasion and I shall continue to do so as a change is nice from time to time  |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
We agree of course but there doesn't seem to be as many coming to clubs compared to 10-15 years ago although now the scene is probably more acceptable x
Maybe we should arrange a tour of the clubs lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I paid my first visit as a single male to a club this week, it was over 7 years ago since inset foot in one.
I must be honest, I can not sing my praise enough to Mandy and Aaron, the hosts at Decadence in Rochdale, I was instantly made to feel welcome anb put at ease, whilst it wasn't a busy night it was fun and very relaxed.
Much better than my previous club experience. |
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We are just back from staying in chams hotel while also playing in the club, such a great week had!
We also had a few hours at xtasia on Wednesday night, where the highlight of the night was going up to the dogging area, Mrs sofa commented, “ it’s dark up here wonder where the light switch is” 
I nearly cried with laughter!!
Hot sexy and lovable that one but sometimes I wonder how she functions |
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"We agree of course but there doesn't seem to be as many coming to clubs compared to 10-15 years ago although now the scene is probably more acceptable x
Maybe we should arrange a tour of the clubs lol x
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We were first on the scene 13 years ago now and there were less clubs back then and people relied less on sites like this and other online resources to meet other swingers. So the clubs were busier because there were less to choose from and organising private meets/parties was so much harder.
I personally love the fact we have more clubs now as it keeps us all on our toes, keeps us innovative in our approach and most of us get along. We still go to other clubs when we can such as Xtasia and No3...we'll be off to Club Sx soon, club F and Chams in 2 weeks. We like to support other club owners as this game is HARD!!!! I've done some tough jobs in my time but this is my hardest challenge to date but I wouldn't change it. We do need people to keep supporting ALL clubs as well as the private parties. We are legal, licensed we pay our taxes and we're insured. Swingers clubs have never been as safe and monitored as much as they are nowadays and that can only be good for customers. |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Well said again.
I hope all clubs have same attitude as we do go from club to club and we do speak and make people aware of all the clubs we go too.
Think one of the hardest to answer is when you visit a quiet club and people then say we will go back when it gets busy.
Of course that doesn't work as you need people to support clubs for them to be busy.
I think some forget the hard work and the hassle from local authorities and the dreaded business rates and taxes lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to "
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand "
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh? |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
To start another debate single guys in clubs our opinion is they are needed as long as they fully know and respect protocol which just simply being polite.
To be honest we prefer singles to be in the mix it actually breaks the ice and sometimes gets things going although couples is our first choice but not our only choice.
A 15-20% mix is ideal but again this is only our opinion and not for everyone and that is why certain clubs have mixed nights and some couples.
Debate again a couples and single female night is tgat sexist? |
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over a year ago
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"To start another debate single guys in clubs our opinion is they are needed as long as they fully know and respect protocol which just simply being polite.
To be honest we prefer singles to be in the mix it actually breaks the ice and sometimes gets things going although couples is our first choice but not our only choice.
A 15-20% mix is ideal but again this is only our opinion and not for everyone and that is why certain clubs have mixed nights and some couples.
Debate again a couples and single female night is tgat sexist? "
We are taking a very similar approach to single guys at Club Sx and limiting the number of single guys to a % of all our guest lists for any events. We did this after feedback after consulting with members on fab before implementing it, so it was asked for in large numbers.
We have decided to take a very different approach with single guys and DO NOT charge silly membership fees but .... we know people don't like guys that are disrespectful and pushy so we have strict rules in place for single guys that attend our club, they need to have at least 2 real verification's and Photo verified or site supporters and been on Fab for more than 2 month. calling the 2,2 rule.
Some would say over the top but we want respectful single guys that understand how to act in clubs and been around the swinging world a while and know how to act towards others. We feel this makes for a safer more friendly, accountable, sensible system for single guys without having to charge those outrageous membership fees we hear about from our friends and other guests.
Paul & Lou 
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"To start another debate single guys in clubs our opinion is they are needed as long as they fully know and respect protocol which just simply being polite.
To be honest we prefer singles to be in the mix it actually breaks the ice and sometimes gets things going although couples is our first choice but not our only choice.
A 15-20% mix is ideal but again this is only our opinion and not for everyone and that is why certain clubs have mixed nights and some couples.
Debate again a couples and single female night is tgat sexist? "
Clubs nowadays have to have a balance of events for all tastes and a one size fits all does not work as all clubs have different standards, clientele and set ups.
Our calendar is VERY varied and so we have events that are couples/fems only, mixed, bi/gay, singles only, age restricted, BDSM, socials, cougar type events etc...etc.... Some events are based on a ratio, for example, on Saturday nights, we only allow in 8 guys who must be established members and book in advance, so we know exactly who were are getting in.
Because we offer events for every taste and ratios that suit people who don't want loads of guys and some where there are lots of 'choice', we don't have ANY MEMBERSHIP fees at all. We also don't have hugely different entrance fees for guys/couples; there's only a £5 difference on a Saturday night and many of our week night events have the same prices across the board.
What it does mean is that myself and our hosts must keep a very close eye on guestlists, asking people to confirm places as the event draws nearer to ensure that our ratios are as accurate as possible. So we don't use entrance fees to control numbers...we physically control numbers!!! lol It takes SO much work to control guestlists for every event, hence why we have so many hosts running events, as I couldn't physically do it myself. But it means that we can run events that are fairly priced, with accurate guestlists and a comfortable play environment, that isn't overrun by a specific client group.
As for single guy memberships, it is well known that we don't just hand out memberships to guys and some people don't like it. We like to get to know our guys first by attending a few events as a guest (with full ID). We usually have lengthy conversations with them first over the phone or email if they are not verified on Fab and then they come in for us to get to know them. If we feel that they understand the swinging scene and have respect for our members, club and themselves, we offer them a membership. Because our memberships are free, we are very careful about who gets one and what we end up with is a great mix of people who totally 'get it'. It has nothing to do with looks or size of appendage... it's all about attitude.
We rarely get any trouble and that is because of the policies we have in place for vetting guys and the way we enforce our rules. It doesn't suit everybody and for that reason, we recommend they go elsewhere.
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"To start another debate single guys in clubs our opinion is they are needed as long as they fully know and respect protocol which just simply being polite.
To be honest we prefer singles to be in the mix it actually breaks the ice and sometimes gets things going although couples is our first choice but not our only choice.
A 15-20% mix is ideal but again this is only our opinion and not for everyone and that is why certain clubs have mixed nights and some couples.
Debate again a couples and single female night is tgat sexist?
Clubs nowadays have to have a balance of events for all tastes and a one size fits all does not work as all clubs have different standards, clientele and set ups.
Our calendar is VERY varied and so we have events that are couples/fems only, mixed, bi/gay, singles only, age restricted, BDSM, socials, cougar type events etc...etc.... Some events are based on a ratio, for example, on Saturday nights, we only allow in 8 guys who must be established members and book in advance, so we know exactly who were are getting in.
Because we offer events for every taste and ratios that suit people who don't want loads of guys and some where there are lots of 'choice', we don't have ANY MEMBERSHIP fees at all. We also don't have hugely different entrance fees for guys/couples; there's only a £5 difference on a Saturday night and many of our week night events have the same prices across the board.
What it does mean is that myself and our hosts must keep a very close eye on guestlists, asking people to confirm places as the event draws nearer to ensure that our ratios are as accurate as possible. So we don't use entrance fees to control numbers...we physically control numbers!!! lol It takes SO much work to control guestlists for every event, hence why we have so many hosts running events, as I couldn't physically do it myself. But it means that we can run events that are fairly priced, with accurate guestlists and a comfortable play environment, that isn't overrun by a specific client group.
As for single guy memberships, it is well known that we don't just hand out memberships to guys and some people don't like it. We like to get to know our guys first by attending a few events as a guest (with full ID). We usually have lengthy conversations with them first over the phone or email if they are not verified on Fab and then they come in for us to get to know them. If we feel that they understand the swinging scene and have respect for our members, club and themselves, we offer them a membership. Because our memberships are free, we are very careful about who gets one and what we end up with is a great mix of people who totally 'get it'. It has nothing to do with looks or size of appendage... it's all about attitude.
We rarely get any trouble and that is because of the policies we have in place for vetting guys and the way we enforce our rules. It doesn't suit everybody and for that reason, we recommend they go elsewhere.
xxx "
Wish all clubs took this approach, vibe would be so much better for couples |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Hope you all don't my me G presenting these points for discussion as hope it gets the debate going for the good of all as it is all about understanding and excepting everyone's needs and I am glad getting response from two good club owners joining the debate and hope this helps others who have not been to a club yet x
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Just to add I'm here to support clubs but I hope there is none with false profiles adding good reviews as this does not help the relationships.
Those who do know who they are and maybe refrain from it to get trust back into their clientele I hope this is taken as positive comment for improvement G |
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"Just to add I'm here to support clubs but I hope there is none with false profiles adding good reviews as this does not help the relationships.
Those who do know who they are and maybe refrain from it to get trust back into their clientele I hope this is taken as positive comment for improvement G "
Can't see any fake profiles talking about Townhouse. All of them are customers of our club...some for a long time xx |
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"Just to add I'm here to support clubs but I hope there is none with false profiles adding good reviews as this does not help the relationships.
Those who do know who they are and maybe refrain from it to get trust back into their clientele I hope this is taken as positive comment for improvement G "
We are the same as the Townhouse, all our reviews are authentication and from real people that have attended our parties & the club.
We have suffered the opposite with fake reveiws from someone try to smear us with false reveiws the morning after our opening night so two sides to every coin.
We are lucky in that we received 50 + amazing reveiws from our opening night and most people could & can read inbetween the lines what was happening 
Got to careful about we say next other than to say some do play dirty (not the townhouse) but we have thick skins and they can throw as much dirt as they like, we will stay positives at Club Sx and it makes us more determined than ever to make our club bigger & better for everyone!!
So if your reading this keep going because negative and playing your dirty little tricks they nearly always backfire as I sure you have already found out or will very soon!!
Paul & Lou |
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By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago
co durham |
We love going to clubs, we have our local Clubf but love trying new ones, we did go to vixens too before it closed.
Been to infusions, paradise hotel, quest, Pandora’s, the attic, the new paradise & xtasia/flirts bar.
We’d love to try clubs sx very soon & a few others on the list
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh? "
It sounds like a dry-run I’m sure a typhoon is heading your way soon. The thing with clubs is you never know who or what the night will be like. It’s crap sat at the bar whilst everyone plays... I’ve been there too! |
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Two great responses. Personally I don’t like the big fee difference - I know it’s supply and demand. Maybe it the night attracted enough people and men were ‘guestlisted’ Then a fair pricing structure would be feasible. The approach these clubs take seem to be quality and attitude over quantity: an attractive feature.
My main issue with clubs is new members arriving, joining and being shown around late into the night! I’ve been playing and people in street clothes are getting the tour! I think it’s inappropriate and disrespectful.
Once some ‘kids’ joined a club and acted like dickheads. Night ruined! Everyone stopped play and left! The club emptied in an hour - it wasn’t even midnight. . |
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over a year ago
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That's great as should be a true reflection good or bad there is an old honesty is the best policy x
I have not heard of any false reviews about your club may I add.
I do think there should be an avenue for a club if a bad review is put so any problem can be sorted out by either party.
I'm sure you welcome all comments as it is part of improvement for any business.
I was a club owner and was attacked from from various angles which was not correct and I could not counter act or have my point of view maybe we should bring the site officials into the debate x |
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over a year ago
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I wonder if you was in the same club as we were one time?
They wasn't swingers and quite clearly you could tell immediately but also being a group of single guys it was obvious to the owners but clearly then worked against the club as we and others left. X |
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"I wonder if you was in the same club as we were one time?
They wasn't swingers and quite clearly you could tell immediately but also being a group of single guys it was obvious to the owners but clearly then worked against the club as we and others left. X"
Possible. It was a wasted night
I’d prefer it if there was no new members after 10, it really spoils the mojo. It feels like money grabbing from owners too who let anyone in late on a weekend night  I question the motivate of people arriving at 11/12 too. |
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By * and Rox OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Well not sure as my Roxy doesn't know what a clock is lol we always get to clubs late lol
Also some need a little tipple first but again it is down to the owners how they show them round discreetly.
I will say the best tour we had was at Townhouse. |
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"Well not sure as my Roxy doesn't know what a clock is lol we always get to clubs late lol
Also some need a little tipple first but again it is down to the owners how they show them round discreetly.
I will say the best tour we had was at Townhouse."
Sorry, I was referring to NEW members arriving late for their first visit.
Townhouse is very professional. I feel safe there too and that’s partly due to their approach and attitude to admission. Also, staff are visually present and enforce the rules.
Wish I lived closer! |
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Like anywhere you need to give true details, there are strict data protection in place for all business.
You would be in your rights to ask how that data is stored but hopefully a club will also answer your question.
The scene is very discrete not like other social media sites and clubs. |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh?
It sounds like a dry-run I’m sure a typhoon is heading your way soon. The thing with clubs is you never know who or what the night will be like. It’s crap sat at the bar whilst everyone plays... I’ve been there too! "
This is why I’ve always favoured private meets; there’s no dice rolling. I’m still optimistic about the club scene though, and remain positive and open minded about my future visits |
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"Well in clubs there is no pressure you meet more people and soon get into the atmosphere of things don't know what there is not too like lol"
I’m sure on the right night, with the right mix of people, all will become clear |
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We ask all newbies to arrive before 9.30pm so we can do tours without disrupting play and give them the time that is needed before it gets too busy. Our last entry for all on most nights is 11pm, sometimes 10.30pm. If newbies arrive late, then I use my discretion, assessing if they are d*unk after being out on the lash for Dutch courage, in which case they won't get in. If they come in, then the tour is done discretely around playrooms and we only go in if people aren't already in there.
Some people don't like our last entry times...tough. We have them for a reason. I know some clubs let people roll in an hour before closing, bevvied. Not us. |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh?
It sounds like a dry-run I’m sure a typhoon is heading your way soon. The thing with clubs is you never know who or what the night will be like. It’s crap sat at the bar whilst everyone plays... I’ve been there too!
This is why I’ve always favoured private meets; there’s no dice rolling. I’m still optimistic about the club scene though, and remain positive and open minded about my future visits "
....and my perseverance paid off on Saturday night! My first visit to Townhouse, and definitely won't be my last! Forget the weather outside, I feel a typhoon is heading my way lol |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh?
It sounds like a dry-run I’m sure a typhoon is heading your way soon. The thing with clubs is you never know who or what the night will be like. It’s crap sat at the bar whilst everyone plays... I’ve been there too!
This is why I’ve always favoured private meets; there’s no dice rolling. I’m still optimistic about the club scene though, and remain positive and open minded about my future visits
....and my perseverance paid off on Saturday night! My first visit to Townhouse, and definitely won't be my last! Forget the weather outside, I feel a typhoon is heading my way lol "
#whoop whoop really pleased for you, and a little jealous that you went to Townhouse.
Enjoy the wet weather |
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"Clubs are a labour of love...we do it because we are passionate about creating a safe place for people to express themselves and explore their sexuality and sexual appetite without prejudice. I am very protective over our club and the people in it; it's like my baby!! If someone attacks it... and they have, it ain't pretty!! Hahaha
Seriously though, too many clubs have closed or dropped events over the years...use them or lose them.
#passionateabouttownhouse
Xxx
I’m looking forward to my visit to TH Vicky
You will love townhouse. I wish I lived nearer!
I’m sure you’ll come out with a positive experience this time
Geography bites doesn't it? The only reason I haven't been to TH before now is the distance
As far as having a positive experience there, TH doesn't have much to beat, compared to the other clubs I've been to
Such negativity. I’m not sure if you’ve had bad luck or there’s something else happening when you go to clubs. I’ve said it before... in clubs the single guys do well who understand the scene. Friday before there was a shortage of single men: YOU were in demand
Which club were you referring to, that had a shortage of single guys?
What is there for me to understand about the club scene? I’m always clean, well presented, smelling nice, and polite and respectful to anyone willing to talk to me. I don’t wander around like a lost sheep, following any female or couple who looks like they may be about to have a play, I don’t join the ‘conga line’ or the family of meerkats scoping the horizon, neither do I wander around strutting my stuff like a peacock. I may be guilty of using a scattergun approach with visits (8 visits to 6 different clubs), and not getting my face known with the regulars. I should do more homework and choose specific event nights to avoid the quiet times I’ve experienced so far, this has also been pointed out to me. At the moment, I feel like I’ve downloaded the latest software for my phone, but can’t find the ‘Install’ tab
Onwards and upwards eh?
It sounds like a dry-run I’m sure a typhoon is heading your way soon. The thing with clubs is you never know who or what the night will be like. It’s crap sat at the bar whilst everyone plays... I’ve been there too!
This is why I’ve always favoured private meets; there’s no dice rolling. I’m still optimistic about the club scene though, and remain positive and open minded about my future visits
....and my perseverance paid off on Saturday night! My first visit to Townhouse, and definitely won't be my last! Forget the weather outside, I feel a typhoon is heading my way lol
#whoop whoop really pleased for you, and a little jealous that you went to Townhouse.
Enjoy the wet weather "
Thank you! Yep, it's a fair old drive, but omg! So worth it! Already made plans to go again soon |
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"....and my perseverance paid off on Saturday night! My first visit to Townhouse, and definitely won't be my last! Forget the weather outside, I feel a typhoon is heading my way lol
#whoop whoop really pleased for you, and a little jealous that you went to Townhouse.
Enjoy the wet weather
Thank you! Yep, it's a fair old drive, but omg! So worth it! Already made plans to go again soon "
I know the feeling. I was bouncing after my first vist in Jan. Real life has kicked in hard the past few months though. On my previous profile, I asked the universe to allow the swinging scene to be vehicle for self awareness and so far it has given it to me in buckets loads. #rollercoaster |
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