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over a year ago
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside  "
I’m genuinely worried about STI’s  |
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over a year ago
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside "
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time |
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over a year ago
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time"
Lack of invitations & £80 fucking quid more like  |
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over a year ago
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"We met a guy Sunday who was new to the club scene. He was relaxing in the hot tub when we walked in and I’m very glad he followed us upstairs. Club cherry popped  "
What happens upstairs? |
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time
Lack of invitations & £80 fucking quid more like "
£80? I will say, I’m not impressed by the inequality shown to guys on entry costs, if that’s what you mean. But there’s clubs that are more reasonable like £25 |
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"We met a guy Sunday who was new to the club scene. He was relaxing in the hot tub when we walked in and I’m very glad he followed us upstairs. Club cherry popped
What happens upstairs? "
What goes on upstairs, stays upstairs |
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside "
I went on my own for my first time it was an eye opener but very welcomed and great night  |
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The first time I went to a club, it was on my own to the Attic, just went to check it out with no expectations, and had a thoroughly good night. I met loads of people and had a good laugh. It's a brilliant club, and is only £20 entry, even for a single bloke on a Saturday night  |
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I wonder if people understand that every club has a bar / reception area where there aren’t people playing usually. In most clubs you can sit there fully clothed with others and then decide if you’d like to wander round. If you wander round there is no pressure to watch, join in or anything. And no one would bat an eye if you didn’t play. |
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"We met a guy Sunday who was new to the club scene. He was relaxing in the hot tub when we walked in and I’m very glad he followed us upstairs. Club cherry popped "
Some guys have all the luck..........  |
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"We met a guy Sunday who was new to the club scene. He was relaxing in the hot tub when we walked in and I’m very glad he followed us upstairs. Club cherry popped "
Lucky guy ! |
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"We met a guy Sunday who was new to the club scene. He was relaxing in the hot tub when we walked in and I’m very glad he followed us upstairs. Club cherry popped
Lucky guy !"
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time
Lack of invitations & £80 fucking quid more like
£80? I will say, I’m not impressed by the inequality shown to guys on entry costs, if that’s what you mean. But there’s clubs that are more reasonable like £25"
The cheapest entry fee I've paid is £25, the most expensive was £53. The average is around £40, and I would never pay £80 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I went to a club alone I popped into a pub round the corner for a bit of Dutch courage, had a great night nothing to worry about, just go for it |
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By *RG10Man
over a year ago
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Me and my partner are about to attend our first club on a couples and single ladies only evening. We arent looking to play with anyone else but like the idea of watching/being watched etc.
Just wondering what the etiquette is? Firstly, I don't for a second think we are so irresistible everyone will want to jump us!
I'm just curious as to the likelihood of a couple trying to join in whilst we are mid play or would it always be something that happens after a chat first and a clear sign that we want to do that? |
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"I’d love to go but not quite confident enough to step through the door on my own (and I’m fairly confident) I’m intruiged to find out if it’s my ‘thing’ or not ...."
JDs in St Neots is a good starting point for club newbies. I would recommend it.
Reading your profile you have all the confidence you need. Go for it, if you don’t like it, you never have to return. |
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside "
The married ones might get spotted and outed if they are doing this under the radar is our suspicion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting and dispicable places
People having meaningless sex with strangers
No respect for themselves "
And this is your problem why exactly? We love the place as do many others we are all entitled to our opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting and dispicable places
People having meaningless sex with strangers
No respect for themselves "
To go to the club doesn't mean you have sex. Some people go for a social aspect only. |
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over a year ago
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"I’d love to go but not quite confident enough to step through the door on my own (and I’m fairly confident) I’m intruiged to find out if it’s my ‘thing’ or not ...."
First time I went with my playmate and I loved it. Now I go on my own... just go and enjoy, talk to people... no pressure... and No means No... going this saturday alone again... |
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Just do it you wont regert it from either a socail side or a fun sex side clubs can be alot of fun.
I go to clubs on my own but never with the intent of having sex with someone i go to met new people chat and flirt and if fun happens its a bonus |
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"I go to clubs on my own but never with the intent of having sex with someone i go to met new people chat and flirt and if fun happens its a bonus "
Absolutely the right attitude we wish all single guys had the same attitude it would make our task so much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my partner are about to attend our first club on a couples and single ladies only evening. We arent looking to play with anyone else but like the idea of watching/being watched etc.
Just wondering what the etiquette is? Firstly, I don't for a second think we are so irresistible everyone will want to jump us!
I'm just curious as to the likelihood of a couple trying to join in whilst we are mid play or would it always be something that happens after a chat first and a clear sign that we want to do that?"
We have had that.... the woman was turned on by us playing in public and jumped in as it were.... The husband appologised for her later lol ... it was cool with us
But normally this isnt the done thing and people will ask or at least slowly make a move so its obvious they are intetested.. dont worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting and dispicable places
People having meaningless sex with strangers
No respect for themselves "
oops - I think a couple of people above didn't get the joke!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting and dispicable places
People having meaningless sex with strangers
No respect for themselves
oops - I think a couple of people above didn't get the joke! "
Tbh not sure if it was or not xx |
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time"
After I invited you aswell. Cheeky bastard. |
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"I had the amazing good fortune to go to a club with a perfect play partner last year. Having the right company makes it a million times better. "
Any club is only as good as the people there when you are |
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"I find it off putting about guys who don’t have the confidence to go alone.
There’s no big deal, what do you think I’d going to happen to you inside
Not a lack of confidence more a lack of interest or time
After I invited you aswell. Cheeky bastard. "
Probably he thinks the boggyman is going to eat him alive hahaha.
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By *RG10Man
over a year ago
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"Me and my partner are about to attend our first club on a couples and single ladies only evening. We arent looking to play with anyone else but like the idea of watching/being watched etc.
Just wondering what the etiquette is? Firstly, I don't for a second think we are so irresistible everyone will want to jump us!
I'm just curious as to the likelihood of a couple trying to
We have had that.... the woman was turned on by us playing in public and jumped in as it were.... The husband appologised for her later lol ... it was cool with us
But normally this isnt the done thing and people will ask or at least slowly make a move so its obvious they are intetested.. dont worry "
Thanks for the response. It wouldn't be a huge issue as we would politely decline. Just don't want to make anyone feel awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if people understand that every club has a bar / reception area where there aren’t people playing usually. In most clubs you can sit there fully clothed with others and then decide if you’d like to wander round. If you wander round there is no pressure to watch, join in or anything. And no one would bat an eye if you didn’t play. "
You see for me I'd find that awkward especially if I wasn't talking to anyone. The strange thing is even if I go to a pub or bar with a group, I tend to be on the outside looking in, but I can still get involved if I want to. I'm a solitary person, but if I went to a bar or a pub alone, I'd feel awkward. Same with a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers "
Have you ever left a positive comment?  |
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Sarcasm works better in text with an emoticon.
As for those who asked about club etiquette here is our experience.
I'd say in most places the bar area is for chatting, maybe a bit of flirting, sometimes the occasional kiss or fondle.
Most of the time we will chat to people without the expectation that something will happen. We do tend to chat to those we are interested in, but will chat in social areas with anyone really.
Sometimes chatting we hit it off, other times we find we are not really what they are looking for, other times we find they are not for us.
I'd say 50-60% of our club meets start with chat. When it comes to playing with single guys, flirting in the bar has been 100% of the way we have connected.
Other times we may go play alone or find a room with others having fun. If its a small room we will ask if they mind us coming in.
If its a large room then we will just play on the bed maybe a couple of bodies width away.
Able to watch, but if they want more, within an outreached hands distance of saying hi.
Sometimes people when playing next to you will ask if they can join in or reach out a hand to indicate come join us.
Whether chatting before or meeting on a bed there is basic sexual etiquette. Ask, no harm in asking if it's OK to kiss you. Never had a problem asking if the other lady is bi. No is always no.
I think we've only had one experience were basically anyone who wanted to join in just did. But we had already played with one of the couples and everyone took their time and read body language. So it was a very organic, erotic and sexual experience.
We have also sometimes arranged meets and scenarios before going but this is with people we have met before.
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"Sarcasm works better in text with an emoticon.
As for those who asked about club etiquette here is our experience.
I'd say in most places the bar area is for chatting, maybe a bit of flirting, sometimes the occasional kiss or fondle.
Most of the time we will chat to people without the expectation that something will happen. We do tend to chat to those we are interested in, but will chat in social areas with anyone really.
Sometimes chatting we hit it off, other times we find we are not really what they are looking for, other times we find they are not for us.
I'd say 50-60% of our club meets start with chat. When it comes to playing with single guys, flirting in the bar has been 100% of the way we have connected.
Other times we may go play alone or find a room with others having fun. If its a small room we will ask if they mind us coming in.
If its a large room then we will just play on the bed maybe a couple of bodies width away.
Able to watch, but if they want more, within an outreached hands distance of saying hi.
Sometimes people when playing next to you will ask if they can join in or reach out a hand to indicate come join us.
Whether chatting before or meeting on a bed there is basic sexual etiquette. Ask, no harm in asking if it's OK to kiss you. Never had a problem asking if the other lady is bi. No is always no.
I think we've only had one experience were basically anyone who wanted to join in just did. But we had already played with one of the couples and everyone took their time and read body language. So it was a very organic, erotic and sexual experience.
We have also sometimes arranged meets and scenarios before going but this is with people we have met before.
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Totally agree with your approach  |
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers "
Ah I see you went for an ironic profile name.
I couldn’t give a shit what people like you think, we enjoy ourselves how we want and when we want and respect ourselves, each other and our play friends.
I don’t however have any respect for your opinion or even why you are on a swingers site spouting venom like that.
OP - notice your comment earlier. Good luck if you go this weekend. Just relax, no pressure and have a nice time, be that socially or playing |
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"I’d love to go but not quite confident enough to step through the door on my own (and I’m fairly confident) I’m intruiged to find out if it’s my ‘thing’ or not ...."
It's nowhere near as bad as you think
I think it's just stepping through the door and turning fantasy into reality
People are generally chilled and friendly and there for a good time.
And of course you don't have to do anything you don't want to
Give it a go x |
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Have you ever left a positive comment? "
I’ve green ticked the shit out of this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers "
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where is eureka area wise?"
To narrow it down (as Kent us a big place ), Eurekas is in the district of Dartford.
By train you can catch a train to Longfeild. Then it's a short taxi ride. You may as catch the train so you can have a nice drink to kill your nerves.
Eurekas has cabins to hire for you to stay all night. These need to be booked in advance though. You may think all this cost adds up, but I'm sure you spend more out on a night out with the lads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site??? "
Lol it's obvious she's being humorously sarcastic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site??? "
My question is how the fuck do they even get meets if they're that miserable? That kind of shit is a major turn off. Same with aggressive profiles that belittle people because they don't look like Henry Cavill. I don't understand why people come here with that attitude, surely it does them no favours. |
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site???
My question is how the fuck do they even get meets if they're that miserable? That kind of shit is a major turn off. Same with aggressive profiles that belittle people because they don't look like Henry Cavill. I don't understand why people come here with that attitude, surely it does them no favours."
They took a wrong turn on the way to mums net  |
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site???
My question is how the fuck do they even get meets if they're that miserable? That kind of shit is a major turn off. Same with aggressive profiles that belittle people because they don't look like Henry Cavill. I don't understand why people come here with that attitude, surely it does them no favours.
They took a wrong turn on the way to mums net "
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Have you ever left a positive comment?
I’ve green ticked the shit out of this one. "
Yeah I just looked. They definitely mean it and definite not happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site???
Lol it's obvious she's being humorously sarcastic "
Green arrow suggests otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
Shite, maybe not
Question is then...why are you on a swinger's site???
My question is how the fuck do they even get meets if they're that miserable? That kind of shit is a major turn off. Same with aggressive profiles that belittle people because they don't look like Henry Cavill. I don't understand why people come here with that attitude, surely it does them no favours."
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"I’d love to go but not quite confident enough to step through the door on my own (and I’m fairly confident) I’m intruiged to find out if it’s my ‘thing’ or not ....
It's nowhere near as bad as you think
I think it's just stepping through the door and turning fantasy into reality
People are generally chilled and friendly and there for a good time.
And of course you don't have to do anything you don't want to
Give it a go x "
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"I’d love to go but not quite confident enough to step through the door on my own (and I’m fairly confident) I’m intruiged to find out if it’s my ‘thing’ or not ....
First time I went with my playmate and I loved it. Now I go on my own... just go and enjoy, talk to people... no pressure... and No means No... going this saturday alone again..."
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Go on your own. My first club visit sent my adrenaline level through the roof as I crossed the road to the entrance. Once inside alot calmer. Some nights it plays out as social only and that is normal. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers "
We're sold! Probably going to go tomorrow on the strength of that post alone. Can't wait! |
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"Disgusting and dispicable places
People having meaningless sex with strangers
No respect for themselves
And this is your problem why exactly? We love the place as do many others we are all entitled to our opinions "
Is this one of those awkward moments when someone takes something humerous wayyyyy too seriousley? |
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers
We're sold! Probably going to go tomorrow on the strength of that post alone. Can't wait!"
Does sound like a recommendation doesn't it. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It is more exciting and scary, but maybe a few other people who are scared to go alone should get together and share the experience. It doesn't matter what gender you are, you can go together as friends and keep each other company.
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"Disgusting place s
Full of whores and desperate single guys
Do people have no respect for themselves
Having meaningless sexual gratification with strangers "
People have taken exception to this post but we read it and assumed the poster was just being humorous and enjoys meaningless sexual gratification with strangers as much as others do in this community |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Eureka are holding a newbie night on the 20th june xx all party hosts will be there to meet and greet so why not come along then xx its not as bad as you think xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would accompany anyone to a club if it’s there first time. And show them that they are not as intimidating as they may think. I was initially intimidated but not any more. I love Decadence in Rochdale as it’s local but would love to try others |
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My (Mr H) first time was way back in the late 80's as a single guy (Adam & Eve Eccles)
At that time it was one of less than a hand full of clubs in the whole country. There was no internet so advice and opinions were scarce. All I had was a recommendation from a couple I had met through the Loot ads.
I can remember walking up to the door like it was yesterday and to say I was nervous would be an understatement. But I went for it, was made very welcome and, like the lucky guy mentioned further up the thread, had my club cherry popped on the night.
For years after I drifted in and out of the club scene both as a single guy, with an occasional FB, and for four years solid as a couple with an ex GF.
Mrs H's first time was around 10 years ago and we went to Fun4two in Holland. Although I'd told her as much as I could she really didn't have much idea what to expect and part of me thought that it could be her first and last time. I can still remember the look of shock on her face when a guy started playing with her tits but she soon relaxed and our next club visit was instigated by her.
Ten years on we have visited over 40 different clubs in 5 countries and for us it is the best part of the lifestyle, well apart from Cap d'Agde but we treat that as just one big club anyway.
Sorry to ramble on a bit but I hope that it helps anyone who is still a bit scared to go for the first time.
Just go for it and afterwards you will wonder what you were so scared of. |
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"My (Mr H) first time was way back in the late 80's as a single guy (Adam & Eve Eccles)
At that time it was one of less than a hand full of clubs in the whole country. There was no internet so advice and opinions were scarce. All I had was a recommendation from a couple I had met through the Loot ads.
I can remember walking up to the door like it was yesterday and to say I was nervous would be an understatement. But I went for it, was made very welcome and, like the lucky guy mentioned further up the thread, had my club cherry popped on the night.
For years after I drifted in and out of the club scene both as a single guy, with an occasional FB, and for four years solid as a couple with an ex GF.
Mrs H's first time was around 10 years ago and we went to Fun4two in Holland. Although I'd told her as much as I could she really didn't have much idea what to expect and part of me thought that it could be her first and last time. I can still remember the look of shock on her face when a guy started playing with her tits but she soon relaxed and our next club visit was instigated by her.
Ten years on we have visited over 40 different clubs in 5 countries and for us it is the best part of the lifestyle, well apart from Cap d'Agde but we treat that as just one big club anyway.
Sorry to ramble on a bit but I hope that it helps anyone who is still a bit scared to go for the first time.
Just go for it and afterwards you will wonder what you were so scared of."
I imagine anyone lucky enough to have a play on their first ever visit will be every bit as enthusiastic about the club scene. |
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"My (Mr H) first time was way back in the late 80's as a single guy (Adam & Eve Eccles)
At that time it was one of less than a hand full of clubs in the whole country. There was no internet so advice and opinions were scarce. All I had was a recommendation from a couple I had met through the Loot ads.
I can remember walking up to the door like it was yesterday and to say I was nervous would be an understatement. But I went for it, was made very welcome and, like the lucky guy mentioned further up the thread, had my club cherry popped on the night.
For years after I drifted in and out of the club scene both as a single guy, with an occasional FB, and for four years solid as a couple with an ex GF.
Mrs H's first time was around 10 years ago and we went to Fun4two in Holland. Although I'd told her as much as I could she really didn't have much idea what to expect and part of me thought that it could be her first and last time. I can still remember the look of shock on her face when a guy started playing with her tits but she soon relaxed and our next club visit was instigated by her.
Ten years on we have visited over 40 different clubs in 5 countries and for us it is the best part of the lifestyle, well apart from Cap d'Agde but we treat that as just one big club anyway.
Sorry to ramble on a bit but I hope that it helps anyone who is still a bit scared to go for the first time.
Just go for it and afterwards you will wonder what you were so scared of.
I imagine anyone lucky enough to have a play on their first ever visit will be every bit as enthusiastic about the club scene. "
To be fair once inside a club it was much easier in those days.
There was nothing like the number of guys, the atmosphere was much more relaxed, and people actually talked to each other.
They used the pool table as an ice breaker then (I think some still do) and I remember chatting to a couple and a pair of single girls (who I found out later were sisters) within half an hour of going in to the place.
I lost my cherry on the night to one of the sisters and got laid by the other one on my next visit.
Of course there were other nights when nothing happened at all and I quickly learned not to expect anything other than a social evening with a chance of something else. Which is exactly how we think today.
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"My (Mr H) first time was way back in the late 80's as a single guy (Adam & Eve Eccles)
At that time it was one of less than a hand full of clubs in the whole country. There was no internet so advice and opinions were scarce. All I had was a recommendation from a couple I had met through the Loot ads.
I can remember walking up to the door like it was yesterday and to say I was nervous would be an understatement. But I went for it, was made very welcome and, like the lucky guy mentioned further up the thread, had my club cherry popped on the night.
For years after I drifted in and out of the club scene both as a single guy, with an occasional FB, and for four years solid as a couple with an ex GF.
Mrs H's first time was around 10 years ago and we went to Fun4two in Holland. Although I'd told her as much as I could she really didn't have much idea what to expect and part of me thought that it could be her first and last time. I can still remember the look of shock on her face when a guy started playing with her tits but she soon relaxed and our next club visit was instigated by her.
Ten years on we have visited over 40 different clubs in 5 countries and for us it is the best part of the lifestyle, well apart from Cap d'Agde but we treat that as just one big club anyway.
Sorry to ramble on a bit but I hope that it helps anyone who is still a bit scared to go for the first time.
Just go for it and afterwards you will wonder what you were so scared of.
I imagine anyone lucky enough to have a play on their first ever visit will be every bit as enthusiastic about the club scene.
To be fair once inside a club it was much easier in those days.
There was nothing like the number of guys, the atmosphere was much more relaxed, and people actually talked to each other.
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I’m with you on these points; I would like to think it was ‘easier’ inside clubs in days gone by. Having done 8 visits to 6 different clubs, I can speak from experience that it is far from ‘easy’ now. Being a single guy in a club is not an enviable position to be in, you do need a strong character, a thick skin, and a good bit of self confidence.
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