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It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?"  |
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"It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?" "
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"It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?" "
Haha yeah. I think k I'd have to be sarcastic or I'd blow my top if someone judged me
You would hope people would be open minded but when you read posts on here you can lose faith in humanity |
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For a supposedly open minded liberal community there’s an awful lot of judgemental narrow minded people about!
I would do what you want, including going to chams if you want to, for everyone who might have a problem with what you choose to do there’s a thousand out there in the general public who would have a problem with what they choose to do |
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But to go back on topic. I would hazard a guess that you may have someone tell you at a club. They’ll be people thinking it, even if they don’t say.
You’re more likely get people thinking they have to tell you online than in person. |
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Attending a club doesn't mean you'll be playing...
I don't think there will be anyone saying in the club, and they can be bitches online.
It's your choice.
People judge people for their shape, size, colour of their skin and their sexuality all the time in the swinging world, let alone the real world.
But as long as it doesn't affect you, they can do their own thing, and you can do yours.
We played when pregnant, and no one said anything to our face.
And we don't care what they thought.
We've had more issues with me being a Bi guy.
IME / IMHO.
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over a year ago
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"We are expecting a baby and we shall be visiting Chams in June. What's the chance of someone thinking they need to tell us we are wrong to be in a club whilst pregnant ? "
Nobody will tell you that you are wrong!
People are polite in your face.
I think is down to personal choice . I wouldn't myself.Because I wanted to enjoy the special moment,way from the clubs.But I respect people who does is not my business. Is up to the parents. |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t think I’m the disgusting woman "
Disgusting behaviour. Who are you to think its ok to openly attack a someone in the way you have. Name calling and judgmental attitude. You should be ashamed and removed from the site |
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We had our first club experience at Atlantis last weekend and I am 7months pregnant and it is very obvious (I have a huge bump!)
Crazy pregnancy hormones are making me super horny and I just couldn’t wait to visit a club, although we intended to just play alone and enjoy the experience. Turns out we got chatting to an amazing couple before we went and ended up soft swapping with them.
Nobody in the club judged us (to our faces anyway?!) and I felt super comfortable. It really didn’t seem like a big deal at all. Actually the only funny looks I got was because I was drinking non-alcoholic cider from the bottle which I guess looked like normal cider 
We’re planning to go back next week but that will be the last time before baby comes then we won’t be playing for quite a while as will be recovering from c-section and probably have many sleepless nights!
Just do what feels right to you, some people find pregnancy a turn on? And if anyone is rude to you just politely tell them to fuck off  |
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"We had our first club experience at Atlantis last weekend and I am 7months pregnant and it is very obvious (I have a huge bump!)
Crazy pregnancy hormones are making me super horny and I just couldn’t wait to visit a club, although we intended to just play alone and enjoy the experience. Turns out we got chatting to an amazing couple before we went and ended up soft swapping with them.
Nobody in the club judged us (to our faces anyway?!) and I felt super comfortable. It really didn’t seem like a big deal at all. Actually the only funny looks I got was because I was drinking non-alcoholic cider from the bottle which I guess looked like normal cider
We’re planning to go back next week but that will be the last time before baby comes then we won’t be playing for quite a while as will be recovering from c-section and probably have many sleepless nights!
Just do what feels right to you, some people find pregnancy a turn on? And if anyone is rude to you just politely tell them to fuck off "
I would take great pleasure in returning my views on them if they think they can judge us |
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"I don’t think I’m the disgusting woman
Disgusting behaviour. Who are you to think its ok to openly attack a someone in the way you have. Name calling and judgmental attitude. You should be ashamed and removed from the site"
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"We had our first club experience at Atlantis last weekend and I am 7months pregnant and it is very obvious (I have a huge bump!)
Crazy pregnancy hormones are making me super horny and I just couldn’t wait to visit a club, although we intended to just play alone and enjoy the experience. Turns out we got chatting to an amazing couple before we went and ended up soft swapping with them.
Nobody in the club judged us (to our faces anyway?!) and I felt super comfortable. It really didn’t seem like a big deal at all. Actually the only funny looks I got was because I was drinking non-alcoholic cider from the bottle which I guess looked like normal cider
We’re planning to go back next week but that will be the last time before baby comes then we won’t be playing for quite a while as will be recovering from c-section and probably have many sleepless nights!
Just do what feels right to you, some people find pregnancy a turn on? And if anyone is rude to you just politely tell them to fuck off "
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over a year ago
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Im nearly seven months pregnant and at the start i went to lc twice....never played with anyone but just a social night out with a female freind i stopped going to clubs about 14 weeks pregant cause i didnt want to be judged ...you will probaly get judged but then all depends how comfortable you are lv there are no rules to say you cant go when pregant. Hope you have a good time if you go and congrates by the way xx |
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"We had our first club experience at Atlantis last weekend and I am 7months pregnant and it is very obvious (I have a huge bump!)
Crazy pregnancy hormones are making me super horny and I just couldn’t wait to visit a club, although we intended to just play alone and enjoy the experience. Turns out we got chatting to an amazing couple before we went and ended up soft swapping with them.
Nobody in the club judged us (to our faces anyway?!) and I felt super comfortable. It really didn’t seem like a big deal at all. Actually the only funny looks I got was because I was drinking non-alcoholic cider from the bottle which I guess looked like normal cider
We’re planning to go back next week but that will be the last time before baby comes then we won’t be playing for quite a while as will be recovering from c-section and probably have many sleepless nights!
Just do what feels right to you, some people find pregnancy a turn on? And if anyone is rude to you just politely tell them to fuck off
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over a year ago
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"One thing when kids don’t know but when you’re pregnant "
This is completely ridiculous, you know the baby doesn't know she's swinging, right?! 
OP, ignore the haters. As someone else said, all sorts of people play and there are all sorts of reasons why others choose to/choose not to play with others. I think pregnant women look absolutely stunning, and certainly wouldn't put me off. If people have a problem with it, that's their problem not yours. Fuck em! |
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"It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?"
Haha yeah. I think k I'd have to be sarcastic or I'd blow my top if someone judged me
You would hope people would be open minded but when you read posts on here you can lose faith in humanity "
So glad that gave you a chuckle.
Oh and I've played with a pregnant girl at Kestrels and had a great time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You for real Happy Days or just playing Devils Advocate?"
Sadly for real by the looks of it. Horrible, judgemental attitude.
OP, go for it - your body, your choice, enjoy yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op asked for opinions
If you don’t like the answer s don’t ask the questions!!
And I’m definitely sure I’m not alone in my opinion "
There are ways of expressing your opinion, yours was just plain nasty.
Your profile states that you treat others with respect and courtesy - might want to reword that. |
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"Op asked for opinions
If you don’t like the answer s don’t ask the questions!!
And I’m definitely sure I’m not alone in my opinion
There are ways of expressing your opinion, yours was just plain nasty.
Your profile states that you treat others with respect and courtesy - might want to reword that. "
saying what you said was not an opinion, calling us bad parents is abusing us. two different things.
we cant see their profile as they have blocked us. haha about the last people on the site we would get naked with anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think they are bad parents at all,I've known a couple of women go to clubs while pregnant. One friend didn't play with anyone other than her husband.the other women only played with her boyfriend and fuck buddy and his girlfriend.I wouldn't judge anyone for the choices that they make.and I deffo wouldn't make them feel uncomfortable. |
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At the end of the day, someone somewhere will judge every single one of us on this site for doing things they enjoy.
As a couple, we get judged for being bi, for being pierced, for being over 50 or for being slightly overweight. That happens in the clubs as well as here.
Equally we don't bother about it, knowing that we can't and won't change what we are. Being pregnant is a beautiful thing and is your choice as is being part of this lifestyle.
OP, you go ahead with whatever you feel comfortable with. For everyone that doesn't wish to engage, there'll be others falling over themselves to get to you.
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"At the end of the day, someone somewhere will judge every single one of us on this site for doing things they enjoy.
As a couple, we get judged for being bi, for being pierced, for being over 50 or for being slightly overweight. That happens in the clubs as well as here.
Equally we don't bother about it, knowing that we can't and won't change what we are. Being pregnant is a beautiful thing and is your choice as is being part of this lifestyle.
OP, you go ahead with whatever you feel comfortable with. For everyone that doesn't wish to engage, there'll be others falling over themselves to get to you.
Xx"
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Your body, your baby so your choice! Simple as that :D people will always find something to judge other people for so just ignore them I've never met an obviously pregnant woman or seen one in a club but I imagine that the very first person to consider the safety of the unborn baby is the one carrying it and so nothing anyone can say about it will be something that hasn't already been considered and discussed at length. Babies are nicely protected in there so not like you fucking is going to hurt it. I would perhaps be concerned if I saw a heavily pregnant woman fucking a whole string of people completely unprotected but that be a concern whether they were pregnant or not.
In short, if you want it, go for it :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op should not have asked for opinions
She posted it on here
Yes we would just ignore it at a club like others and not say anything "
It wasnt an opinion you gave it was an attack. |
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First of all, congratulations.
I'm not judgmental or a hater, you have to make your own choices.
Just be aware of the risk that STIs that might otherwise be pretty treatable in normal circumstances, can be a big problem to an unborn child. These include ones that can be caught playing safe.
Research it, and make your own decision. My personal opinion would be to avoid it for a while. |
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"First of all, congratulations.
I'm not judgmental or a hater, you have to make your own choices.
Just be aware of the risk that STIs that might otherwise be pretty treatable in normal circumstances, can be a big problem to an unborn child. These include ones that can be caught playing safe.
Research it, and make your own decision. My personal opinion would be to avoid it for a while."
Which STDs are you specifically referring to that can be caught whilst using a condom, are harmful to the baby but are normally treatable? |
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"First of all, congratulations.
I'm not judgmental or a hater, you have to make your own choices.
Just be aware of the risk that STIs that might otherwise be pretty treatable in normal circumstances, can be a big problem to an unborn child. These include ones that can be caught playing safe.
Research it, and make your own decision. My personal opinion would be to avoid it for a while.
Which STDs are you specifically referring to that can be caught whilst using a condom, are harmful to the baby but are normally treatable? "
By playing safe, I'm talking about the most common interpretation, being condom for penetration, but without for oral sex. Lots of the orally transferable STIs including chlamydia and gonorrhea can have issues for the baby. Hence my comment that the OP should research it thoroughly and then decide what and how she does things. |
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I think a pregnant woman is hot too! Surely it’s like a preference. Some people will find it attractive and some less so. Each to their own right?? I think u should go and have a great time. Gutted I won’t be there ???? |
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"First of all, congratulations.
I'm not judgmental or a hater, you have to make your own choices.
Just be aware of the risk that STIs that might otherwise be pretty treatable in normal circumstances, can be a big problem to an unborn child. These include ones that can be caught playing safe.
Research it, and make your own decision. My personal opinion would be to avoid it for a while.
Which STDs are you specifically referring to that can be caught whilst using a condom, are harmful to the baby but are normally treatable?
By playing safe, I'm talking about the most common interpretation, being condom for penetration, but without for oral sex. Lots of the orally transferable STIs including chlamydia and gonorrhea can have issues for the baby. Hence my comment that the OP should research it thoroughly and then decide what and how she does things."
Ah i see. To be honest i think the OP was really talking about just going to club and playing together, rather than swapping with anyone. |
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"First of all, congratulations.
I'm not judgmental or a hater, you have to make your own choices.
Just be aware of the risk that STIs that might otherwise be pretty treatable in normal circumstances, can be a big problem to an unborn child. These include ones that can be caught playing safe.
Research it, and make your own decision. My personal opinion would be to avoid it for a while."
Exactly this |
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"It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?" "
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"We are expecting a baby and we shall be visiting Chams in June. What's the chance of someone thinking they need to tell us we are wrong to be in a club whilst pregnant ? "
Congratulations and I reckon you are best judge of what to do. To answer your question, you’ll definitely get judged by some. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Op asked for opinions
If you don’t like the answer s don’t ask the questions!!
And I’m definitely sure I’m not alone in my opinion
There are ways of expressing your opinion, yours was just plain nasty.
Your profile states that you treat others with respect and courtesy - might want to reword that. "
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By *ex God and Sex KittenCouple
over a year ago
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We went to a club when I was 5 months pregnant. Although we went for the social aspect rather than to play everyone was brilliant and we wouldn’t hesitate to go again.
Plus as long as you are happy, who cares what anyone else thinks? Don’t let the judgement morons stop you from doing what you want to do! Xx |
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Interesting topic. We are very well on with our second and at the start we were 50/50 until close friends whom we had played with before told us their good news aswell. We had hoped to arrange a play date but due to complications on our side and a house turned building site we couldnt get together.
The sheer amount of people to message us since we posted a bump pic some time back was huge, male female and everything in between were fascinated and asking if we were open to play. That said it is a pretty obvious one that some might find it taboo or a total no go. There is very little on fab that we look down upon but top of that list is being rude to or about other peoples kinks. As long all involved are safe then go for it.
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You may hear other people say stuff.
People can be both Liberal and non Liberal at the same time.
Take me, I'd never take drugs but I do think they should be legal. But then I would also make corporal punishment and public humiliation legal. |
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Amanda is pregnant about 24 weeks now and guess what we went to a club on saturday and are going this weekend....amanda though not into other guys we both into females and t girls some nights we gi and just play to an audience...bur yeah who cares what people think....bollocks to them |
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"It's been discussed on several threads and always gets a lot of people come down strongly on both sides. If anyone tells you you shouldn't be there, just say "But how else am I supposed to find the father?" "
Haha haha |
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When Rachel was pregnant we went to Eurekas in Kent. Not to play but to enjoy the environment, chat with great friends we had made. Eurekas couldn't have been more hospitable, great place, great time..... |
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"Amanda is pregnant about 24 weeks now and guess what we went to a club on saturday and are going this weekend....amanda though not into other guys we both into females and t girls some nights we gi and just play to an audience...bur yeah who cares what people think....bollocks to them"
Good for you! might see you sat, say hi. |
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"We are expecting a baby and we shall be visiting Chams in June. What's the chance of someone thinking they need to tell us we are wrong to be in a club whilst pregnant ? "
The keyboard warriors on here will be judge-mental.
But in a club, with real swingers, you will be fine. just go and enjoy yourselves. |
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First of all congratulations to you both.
Secondly every male female couple trans or anyone in this world gets turned on and has fantasies from loads of different topics and genres a couple may post looking for a bbc to cuckold the husband or a bi male to suck his first cock or a women looking to dom a man if you are not into it you dont look at the profiles and include yourself into something you dont like you dont abuse or judge if it aint your thing you move on to the next that is and think not everyone may agree or like your fantasies everyone to there own and me personally would love to have sex with a pregnant lady again i love it so sexy and love sucking the milk out of boobs lol |
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I took a year out when I was pregnant and I’m slowly getting back into the swing of things four months later...
me and my hubby stopped going to parties but really cos you’ve got to look the part to attend the type of parties we went to and mainly cos my little one moved around like crazy in there which just made it super weird lol
But if you feel up to it rock on and know my hubby would definitely agree
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