"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex.."
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
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Good point! I have been as a couple before, and also seen single guys there. I would just prefer to be there with a fuck buddy it’s a nicer experience than being one of many single guys. When you are with someone else you can laugh, drink wine, watch out for each other you know? |
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"Good point! I have been as a couple before, and also seen single guys there. I would just prefer to be there with a fuck buddy it’s a nicer experience than being one of many single guys. When you are with someone else you can laugh, drink wine, watch out for each other you know?"
Yes, I understand.
Apologies for assuming you had never been before. Sounds like you need to do a bit of networking when you're in the club,find out when the company you like are going, then go at the same time.
Good luck in your mission.
Cx |
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"Good point! I have been as a couple before, and also seen single guys there. I would just prefer to be there with a fuck buddy it’s a nicer experience than being one of many single guys. When you are with someone else you can laugh, drink wine, watch out for each other you kno
Yes, I understand.
Apologies for assuming you had never been before. Sounds like you need to do a bit of networking when you're in the club,find out when the company you like are going, then go at the same time.
Good luck in your mission.
Cx"
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"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex..
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
"
Can I ask how many times you have visited a club, as a single woman, and how you found the experience? |
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"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex..
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
Can I ask how many times you have visited a club, as a single woman, and how you found the experience?"
Lol
I think you need to ask how many times I've gone as a couple!
Nine times out of ten I go on my own.
Clubs have their cliques so I too can face unfriendly situations, especially as a black single woman. So I can relate to the single guys who say clubs can be unfriendly. People are just cautious. If they see you more than a few times, then they'll strike up a conversation if they want.
Remember people are like telephone answering machines. They get back to you... Eventually. If you get my drift.
However.... There are times when the Benny Hill strut gets too much and I do get aggressive if constantly followed or approached by those I have no sexual interest in.
I just treat it like a pub really. If mates are there, then I can have a good blether. If no-one is there, chat to the staff or read my book.
Hope that answers all your questions!
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"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex..
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
Can I ask how many times you have visited a club, as a single woman, and how you found the experience?
Lol
I think you need to ask how many times I've gone as a couple!
Nine times out of ten I go on my own.
Clubs have their cliques so I too can face unfriendly situations, especially as a black single woman. So I can relate to the single guys who say clubs can be unfriendly. People are just cautious. If they see you more than a few times, then they'll strike up a conversation if they want.
Remember people are like telephone answering machines. They get back to you... Eventually. If you get my drift.
However.... There are times when the Benny Hill strut gets too much and I do get aggressive if constantly followed or approached by those I have no sexual interest in.
I just treat it like a pub really. If mates are there, then I can have a good blether. If no-one is there, chat to the staff or read my book.
Hope that answers all your questions!
"
Yes, thank you for replying  I'm guessing you frequent one club more than others, to become a regular there? Good tip about taking a book; I may have enjoyed certain clubs I've been in more if I'd had a book to read   |
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I go on my own
It’s different to being in a couple, but it’s what it is. I’m always outvoted by men, but I’ve been and not one has approached me before. Last month I didn’t play at all. You can’t alwsys expect too.
I agree that couples can be a bit clicky, but second the comments above about becoming a regular. I find people can be wary, at first. More people talk to me the more I go.
I’m be there this weekend: on my own, in my big girl pants  |
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"I go on my own
It’s different to being in a couple, but it’s what it is. I’m always outvoted by men, but I’ve been and not one has approached me before. Last month I didn’t play at all. You can’t alwsys expect too.
I agree that couples can be a bit clicky, but second the comments above about becoming a regular. I find people can be wary, at first. More people talk to me the more I go.
I’m be there this weekend: on my own, in my big girl pants "
If I recognize you in a club, I won't be shy about approaching you. Just have a pot of white paint with you, so you're easier to spot
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"I go on my own
It’s different to being in a couple, but it’s what it is. I’m always outvoted by men, but I’ve been and not one has approached me before. Last month I didn’t play at all. You can’t alwsys expect too.
I agree that couples can be a bit clicky, but second the comments above about becoming a regular. I find people can be wary, at first. More people talk to me the more I go.
I’m be there this weekend: on my own, in my big girl pants "
Enjoy.
A massive shout out for the big girl pants! Lol |
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"I used to go as a couple. Would love to keep that up. It’s tough a single chap. It’s hard to become a regular though it costs a fortune lol"
Imagine having at least an hour's drive to your local club aswell then, unlike you, with two on your doorstep lol |
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"I used to go as a couple. Would love to keep that up. It’s tough a single chap. It’s hard to become a regular though it costs a fortune lol
Imagine having at least an hour's drive to your local club aswell then, unlike you, with two on your doorstep lol "
6 mins away... 25 quid in... no wonder i’m Skint |
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"I used to go as a couple. Would love to keep that up. It’s tough a single chap. It’s hard to become a regular though it costs a fortune lol
Imagine having at least an hour's drive to your local club aswell then, unlike you, with two on your doorstep lol
6 mins away... 25 quid in... no wonder i’m Skint "
Only £25 entry? Where's that? |
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"I go on my own
It’s different to being in a couple, but it’s what it is. I’m always outvoted by men, but I’ve been and not one has approached me before. Last month I didn’t play at all. You can’t alwsys expect too.
I agree that couples can be a bit clicky, but second the comments above about becoming a regular. I find people can be wary, at first. More people talk to me the more I go.
I’m be there this weekend: on my own, in my big girl pants "
Both nights... share!!! Lol |
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"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex..
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
Can I ask how many times you have visited a club, as a single woman, and how you found the experience?
Lol
I think you need to ask how many times I've gone as a couple!
Nine times out of ten I go on my own.
Clubs have their cliques so I too can face unfriendly situations, especially as a black single woman. So I can relate to the single guys who say clubs can be unfriendly. People are just cautious. If they see you more than a few times, then they'll strike up a conversation if they want.
Remember people are like telephone answering machines. They get back to you... Eventually. If you get my drift.
However.... There are times when the Benny Hill strut gets too much and I do get aggressive if constantly followed or approached by those I have no sexual interest in.
I just treat it like a pub really. If mates are there, then I can have a good blether. If no-one is there, chat to the staff or read my book.
Hope that answers all your questions!
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The Benny Hill strut is genius ?????? |
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over a year ago
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"So who would like to accompany me to a club? Possibly HU9 or a place in the East Midlands? My treat of course, everything paid for and no expectations of sex..
For God's sake man, just go.
We women have pulled on big girls pants and crossed the threshold of a club door by themselves.
You don't need your hand held. Once you get past the threshold, you'll be fine.
Just do it.
You won't regret it.
Just go.
Yours unpittifully
C0tt0nsu3
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Tough love - it's the only way |
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