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Newbie going to Xtasia tonight. Advice please
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I can’t give advice specific to Xtasia. But what I can say is go with no expectations other than to socialise. Guys who expect to chat and don’t have a chip on their shoulder about sex get on far better! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can’t give advice specific to Xtasia. But what I can say is go with no expectations other than to socialise. Guys who expect to chat and don’t have a chip on their shoulder about sex get on far better! "
Good advice, thank you. Sounds like me to be fair  |
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"Hello everyone
I’m a single gent, new member going to Xtasia for the first time tonight. Would really just appreciate anyone’s advice please. "
Move around, introduce yourself & chat. We found men at Xtasia very sociable & not pushy. Enjoy  |
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"Hello everyone
I’m a single gent, new member going to Xtasia for the first time tonight. Would really just appreciate anyone’s advice please.
Move around, introduce yourself & chat. We found men at Xtasia very sociable & not pushy. Enjoy "
Thank you. Really appreciate that advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after  "
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though |
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though "
You can stay in flirts and mingle as far as i am aware |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though "
Are you a member/been approved for membership? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
Are you a member/been approved for membership? "
I’ve been approved for membership so just need to pay my membership |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
Are you a member/been approved for membership?
I’ve been approved for membership so just need to pay my membership "
Then you can go to Flirts no problem, just remember to take your I'D with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
Are you a member/been approved for membership?
I’ve been approved for membership so just need to pay my membership
Then you can go to Flirts no problem, just remember to take your I'D with you. "
Will do. Can I pay my membership in Flirts? Is there somewhere I need to go to do this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
Are you a member/been approved for membership?
I’ve been approved for membership so just need to pay my membership
Then you can go to Flirts no problem, just remember to take your I'D with you.
Will do. Can I pay my membership in Flirts? Is there somewhere I need to go to do this? "
You can at the club.
Pop to reception when you get there and they will help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
Are you a member/been approved for membership?
I’ve been approved for membership so just need to pay my membership
Then you can go to Flirts no problem, just remember to take your I'D with you.
Will do. Can I pay my membership in Flirts? Is there somewhere I need to go to do this? "
Just speak to a member of staff when you go in to Flirts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t be nice to him _ngelfire!!
He’s married!!
What a dispicable guy "
He makes people aware of this on his profile so it is there choice if they meet the guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don’t be nice to him _ngelfire!!
He’s married!!
What a dispicable guy "
Sorry for going off topic. I won’t again. Really interesting how people judge isn’t it without ever speaking or seeing someone. As my profile explains, yes I’m married and yes she knows. She doesn’t mind and it’s actually helped our relationship. But I guess some people are a little small minded and jump without thinking. I was under the impression that people within the scene were respectful to others and their situations. Clearly this isn’t the case all the time. Apologies that my wife and I don’t fit your idea of normal. Maybe at some point we’ll say hello and explain it in person without judgement. Have a lovely rest of your bank holiday weekend. Everyone enjoy themselves and respect others like I would |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"Have fun xtasisa is great for singles. You will be looked after
Thank you. I’ve since been told it’s just couples and ladies tonight so my first visit will have to wait for the appropriate night. Appreciate all the nice comments though
You can stay in flirts and mingle as far as i am aware "
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"Don’t be nice to him _ngelfire!!
He’s married!!
What a dispicable guy
Sorry for going off topic. I won’t again. Really interesting how people judge isn’t it without ever speaking or seeing someone. As my profile explains, yes I’m married and yes she knows. She doesn’t mind and it’s actually helped our relationship. But I guess some people are a little small minded and jump without thinking. I was under the impression that people within the scene were respectful to others and their situations. Clearly this isn’t the case all the time. Apologies that my wife and I don’t fit your idea of normal. Maybe at some point we’ll say hello and explain it in person without judgement. Have a lovely rest of your bank holiday weekend. Everyone enjoy themselves and respect others like I would "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Pretty sure you don’t need to ‘explain’ yourself
There will always be a minority of small minded people for whom consensual play alongside committed healthy marriage will only ever be a deep dark fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pretty sure you don’t need to ‘explain’ yourself
There will always be a minority of small minded people for whom consensual play alongside committed healthy marriage will only ever be a deep dark fantasy. "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice |
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"Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice "
Good to hear it was a positive experience mate |
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"Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice "
Glad went ok, you'll be more relaxed next time now |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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"Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice "
Just a little quiet in there, especially when a main event on next door. Try a Friday soon, very different night out. Look forward to chatting. |
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"Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice
Just a little quiet in there, especially when a main event on next door. Try a Friday soon, very different night out. Look forward to chatting. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Went along last night and spent a few hours in the Flirts bar. Had a nice time, casual drink and chatted to a few nice people. Thank you for everyone’s advice
Just a little quiet in there, especially when a main event on next door. Try a Friday soon, very different night out. Look forward to chatting.
18th may "
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