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Perhaps if you go alone and get chatting to other people in said club, you could forge a mutual clubbing relationship. It must be easier to get that sort of thing off the ground face to face than it is from behind the electronic comfort blanket of your keyboard surely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps if you go alone and get chatting to other people in said club, you could forge a mutual clubbing relationship. It must be easier to get that sort of thing off the ground face to face than it is from behind the electronic comfort blanket of your keyboard surely. "
. Your problem right think I’m gunna try cupids xx just wondered if someone wanted to come
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"Perhaps if you go alone and get chatting to other people in said club, you could forge a mutual clubbing relationship. It must be easier to get that sort of thing off the ground face to face than it is from behind the electronic comfort blanket of your keyboard surely. "
Not necessarily, but clubs do work for some, and it's better to at least try one or two, than just wonder and never go to one  |
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"Perhaps if you go alone and get chatting to other people in said club, you could forge a mutual clubbing relationship. It must be easier to get that sort of thing off the ground face to face than it is from behind the electronic comfort blanket of your keyboard surely.
Not necessarily, but clubs do work for some, and it's better to at least try one or two, than just wonder and never go to one "
I’ve been to two clubs just want someone to go with grim on your own |
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Go regularly to chamaleons with a couple of lady friends....it saves taking multiple cars and company on the drive also gives my lady friends a safe haven to.go to if there hassled which hasn't happened yet but think they appreciate that a guys with them just in case.. |
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"Perhaps if you go alone and get chatting to other people in said club, you could forge a mutual clubbing relationship. It must be easier to get that sort of thing off the ground face to face than it is from behind the electronic comfort blanket of your keyboard surely.
Not necessarily, but clubs do work for some, and it's better to at least try one or two, than just wonder and never go to one
I’ve been to two clubs just want someone to go with grim on your own "
I’ve been 6 times to different clubs as a single guy, and I agree about it being grim by yourself, but I guess I’m a glutton for punishment  |
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"I’ve been to two clubs just want someone to go with grim on your own "
You will find the dynamic it totally different, and i.m.om a LOT harder. As finding the matches of compatibility you need to have play will increase by the square. Plusyour lady will feel limited in her reduced opportunities. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been to two clubs just want someone to go with grim on your own
You will find the dynamic it totally different, and i.m.om a LOT harder. As finding the matches of compatibility you need to have play will increase by the square. Plusyour lady will feel limited in her reduced opportunities."
Unless of course they discuss prior what will happen inside the club and set their boundaries so that once inside they both know if they are there together, or 'together'
Which clubs are you looking at OP? |
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"I've never found it a problem, the clubs I've been to there's been lots of nice and welcomeing people to talk to. In fact I kind of prefer to go on my own.
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Going by your veris, Pandora’s and The Attic are your regular haunts? It’s interesting to discover how some clubs appear more open to single guys than others |
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You are better going on your own to clubs. As you could end up having to babysit a total nutcase all night 
I have had too many bad experiences of going with people I don't know well. NEVER AGAIN!!
I either go with hubby or on my own. NEVER as +1 |
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As above, go out for at least a social before going to a club with someone to make sure you get on. Most times I've been out as half of a couple, we've just played with each other anyway cos we're still getting to know each other. And if you can't find a club partner in crime, look for a club that's more suited to single guys, smaller venues, without music at regular night club volume will make starting a conversation with someone much easier. Hot tubs are usually easier to start a conversation in too. |
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