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"Hey we are going to Angels on the 14tb april and always looking to meet a nice fit guy to join us x" I'm even more interested in going now | |||
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"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club. If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed. If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place. Do guys actually behave like that at clubs? That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent. " Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play. Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages. And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol! | |||
"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club. If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed. If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place. Do guys actually behave like that at clubs? That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent. Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play. Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages. And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol!" Guys confuse me sometimes. Just because someone swings isn't an open invite to all. That would annoy the hell out of me if I was there with a partner. | |||
"To be honest, the experience that single guys have depends on them, not the club. If they sit in a corner drinking, wander round following couples and ladies in the hope of playing, and then stand there silently wanking their cocks inches from any ladies who do decide to play, and touching without asking first, chances are they will leave disappointed. If, however, they interact, chat, mingle, are friendly and polite, and not pushy, chances are they might have a much more positive response when they pop into any of the rooms where action is taking place. Do guys actually behave like that at clubs? That's not my style. I'm not pushy and don't feel entitled to touch anyone who would be playing without consent. Yup, this and worse, it's often possible to end up with a 4 or 5 guy "conga line" behind you as a couple if you wander around the club seeing what's going on and possibly looking for somewhere to play. Sometimes guys can get quite pushy if they've seen you playing with other single guys during the evening, they seem to think that, just because they have a cock, and your previous invited extra had a cock, that somehow it means they get a "free pass" to dive in with hands, or other appendages. And, god forbid you should be so lucky as to find a lady to join you, somehow again some seem to think that this means they can join in uninvited, like maybe the guy of the couple might need a hand to cope with two ladies lol! Guys confuse me sometimes. Just because someone swings isn't an open invite to all. That would annoy the hell out of me if I was there with a partner. " It's not every single guy who acts like this, and there is a variation on severity of bad behaviour, with the worst carried out by a small minority, however that is the behaviour that tends to stick in peoples minds. | |||
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"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun. " ...you are never guaranteed whether it is £1 or £1000 | |||
"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun. ...you are never guaranteed whether it is £1 or £1000 " Thats true,if it was £1 or even £10 then I'd have been there by now. | |||
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"It is an evening out for us, we drive a round trip of 100 miles, get dressed up, sometimes stay in a hotel so debating the cost of entry based on guarantee of action is missing the point by miles. Succesful single guys know how to make eye contact, are well groomed, smell good, smile and talk to people. Unless you can do this don’t even think about going..., no matter how much money you are willing to spend." Ok thanks for the advice. | |||
"Have thought for a fleeting second or two about going to Angels,but I think they charge a high admission for solo men compared to women & couples.Don't see paying a lot of money with no guarantee of getting any fun. " And that's the sort of "I've paid more than everyone else so I am entitled to a shag" mentality that I am talking about. Some guys just don't get it, and it wouldn't matter if entry was free, they still wouldn't get laid. | |||
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"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! " I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. | |||
"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. " How much is a "high price" if you dont mind me asking. | |||
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"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. " I think the point being is that if single guys were charged a lower rate the clubs would be full of single guys, which is okay if you're bi or gay! Very few single women attend clubs so a lower entrance fee is charged to encourage their attendance. | |||
"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! I have no intention of using sauna's & prostitutes. The point I was trying to make was as a solo man I'd have to pay a high price compared to women & couples to get into a club. I think the point being is that if single guys were charged a lower rate the clubs would be full of single guys, which is okay if you're bi or gay! Very few single women attend clubs so a lower entrance fee is charged to encourage their attendance." Some people are just so tight. | |||
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"What’s the going rate In Angels for a single anyway, £30? Could easy spend more that that on a night out and probably have half as much fun. " | |||
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"If u want a guaranteed fuck u had best take urself to a sauna u pay the desk choose a female off u pop into a room and u pay her for sex! A swingers club does not and never will guarantee anyone sex! U shudnt go to a club if u have that mentality ud best pay for sex with a prostitute! " Well said . I go for a giggle really . I usualky attend Eurekas in Kent as more about a drink n dance n socialize ...then bonus if anything happens . I might try Angels on 14th if anyone wants to meet up . X | |||
"We love it there - always a good crowd and we usually find great single guys to play with, will be there again on the 21st x" Yep; I’ve definitely been going to the wrong clubs......... | |||
"Who's going this Saturday? X" Want you but my ex is working a long day shift last minute so got my kids ?? | |||
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