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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking to try this at the Greenhouse in Luton, anyone else been?
We're finally planning on going this week. "
It will be good to catch up with you guys X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tiny chance I will go tomorrow
At least the snow will have gone!
Yes it is still icy cold in Hertfordshire, about 30 minutes from the club. But the snow has gone from all the roads"
Sun is out now! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm glad to hear it was really good good, I wonder if it would be worth having a forum bi social there?
I will try and come along in the next few weeks if people are going. I do believe they are open in the day but only for men.
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"I'm glad to hear it was really good good, I wonder if it would be worth having a forum bi social there?
I will try and come along in the next few weeks if people are going. I do believe they are open in the day but only for men.
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Sorry should have said
"Now if they can just open during the day for couples and women that would be perfect"
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"I'm glad to hear it was really good good, I wonder if it would be worth having a forum bi social there?
I will try and come along in the next few weeks if people are going. I do believe they are open in the day but only for men.
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-lets keep Tues for the players. Don't want "fab straights" pretending to be bi, or "fab bi's" pretending to be ..., but "ONLY Socializing". It would totally wreck the atmosphere. |
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I do believe they are open in the day but only for men.
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-lets keep Tues for the players. Don't want "fab straights" pretending to be bi, or "fab bi's" pretending to be ..., but "ONLY Socializing". It would totally wreck the atmosphere. "
And what about people that didn't want to just only socialize? Is that acceptable to you? I wasn't looking to wreck the atmosphere for anyone. We just want somewhere to go to have some fun. |
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I do believe they are open in the day but only for men.
NO
-lets keep Tues for the players. Don't want "fab straights" pretending to be bi, or "fab bi's" pretending to be ..., but "ONLY Socializing". It would totally wreck the atmosphere.
And what about people that didn't want to just only socialize? Is that acceptable to you? I wasn't looking to wreck the atmosphere for anyone. We just want somewhere to go to have some fun. "
Glad you enjoyed yourselves, I too like it there. It's shame a can't get there as often as I would like.
BTW I wasn't trying to piss on anyones parade, or hijack the OP's tread. But it's one place you don't get posers or tourists, if you know what I mean. |
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Glad you enjoyed yourselves, I too like it there. It's shame a can't get there as often as I would like.
BTW I wasn't trying to piss on anyones parade, or hijack the OP's tread. But it's one place you don't get posers or tourists, if you know what I mean."
Well hopefully we will bump into you there at some point then, it's been ages since we've seen you. Especially since you can already verify we are no posers or tourists. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Glad you enjoyed yourselves, I too like it there. It's shame a can't get there as often as I would like.
BTW I wasn't trying to piss on anyones parade, or hijack the OP's tread. But it's one place you don't get posers or tourists, if you know what I mean.
Well hopefully we will bump into you there at some point then, it's been ages since we've seen you. Especially since you can already verify we are no posers or tourists. Xx"
We can verify you are definitely neither! X |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
It looks lovely on their website... we may take a look over the Easter break. Our only concern is we are both straight, although bi friendly we wouldnt be looking for any bi fun. Anyone know how we might fit in?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It looks lovely on their website... we may take a look over the Easter break. Our only concern is we are both straight, although bi friendly we wouldnt be looking for any bi fun. Anyone know how we might fit in??"
As far as we understand from the people we know who have gone it’s actually a mixture of straight and bi sexual. No always means no so it should always be fun X |
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"It looks lovely on their website... we may take a look over the Easter break. Our only concern is we are both straight, although bi friendly we wouldnt be looking for any bi fun. Anyone know how we might fit in??"
I know this may be controversial, and I'm not trying to single you out in any way, but from experience the one way to kill a bi night at any club is for straight folk to start coming.
Just about every club in the land caters for straight couples pretty much every night, so we like to visit bi nights (when we can, which isn't that regularly) to experience something different, where there are no barriers to who touches who, or does what - barriers that mostly exist on every other club night.
It's all about atmosphere to us, and find the uninhibited, laid back atmosphere of bi nights quite special.
We've been a couple of times to bi-tastic and you are right - the club is a great venue...and the staff make a real effort. We can only get down occasionally and have made this one of our haunts. I'm sure there have been straight folk there when we have been, but it has been far outweighed by the bi/gay element and not been noticeable.
If it started becoming 'just' another club night where more and more straight people attended, we would simply never visit again.
Nothing against 'straight' people (and we, by necessity, play straight on most club nights) but these sort of places have an atmosphere which is very different and I'd hate to see a bi-night fail due to non-bi people attending more and more, and we have seen that happen at other places.
Again, not having a dig. Just putting an alternative viewpoint |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It looks lovely on their website... we may take a look over the Easter break. Our only concern is we are both straight, although bi friendly we wouldnt be looking for any bi fun. Anyone know how we might fit in??
I know this may be controversial, and I'm not trying to single you out in any way, but from experience the one way to kill a bi night at any club is for straight folk to start coming. " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Bitastic has moved to Fridays. The official launch is this friday the 1st June.
New forum set up. "
Where are we to go on Tuesdays then?! Plenty of other options on a Friday night! |
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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Bitastic has moved to Fridays. The official launch is this friday the 1st June.
New forum set up. "
Oooh! How exciting!
Personally, I (Miss C) loved the one time we went to Bitastic. But being that it's in the week did put me off a bit. I like my 8 hours sleep b4 work the next day. Lol. Hoping we can make it there again one Friday night. Miss C Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No clue - I didnt make the decision - Im a member as well,, Im just helping to promote... any issues speak to the club directly
Personally speaking - tuesdays was always hit and miss. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No clue - I didnt make the decision - Im a member as well,, Im just helping to promote... any issues speak to the club directly
Personally speaking - tuesdays was always hit and miss."
We hope it’s a success for them. |
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"Hi all. Bitastic has moved to Fridays. The official launch is this friday the 1st June.
New forum set up.
Oooh! How exciting!
Personally, I (Miss C) loved the one time we went to Bitastic. But being that it's in the week did put me off a bit. I like my 8 hours sleep b4 work the next day. Lol. Hoping we can make it there again one Friday night. Miss C Xx"
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Think it's a great idea to move to Fridays. At the moment, we can only get to Tuesdays when it's half-term and so we can only visit once in a blue moon. Fridays mean we could potentially visit every couple of weeks.
The only downside (for both clubs concerned) is that the first Friday of the month will clash with the monthly VA bi-night which isn't too far away. Ideal scenario would of course be for VA to move theirs to a Saturday
Anyway, given the new Friday night thing starts this Friday, does anyone know if tonight (Tues) is going ahead, or if it has been 'moved' to the Friday this week? It's half-term so we may be available...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sauna must be struggling on a Friday to open it up to couples now. It's been a long time since i went to the greenhouse on a Friday night and it was rammed then. |
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